"Don't guess, he just doesn't like you." How hard do you think it is to admit that you are not liked?

It is said that if a girl asks, "Does he dislike me? Why did he never contact me? "

Her girl friends will scramble to talk-

"He must like you too much to be shy."

"He hasn't figured out how to arrange his first date."

"He may be too busy. But believe me, he must like you. "

The girlfriends just want to make her laugh quickly, but rarely make her realize the fact that he doesn't come to you because he doesn't want to.

It's like a plot in the Venus Show:

In the dormitory, a girl revealed that a boy in the class seemed to giggle at her often. Then the roommate egged on: "That boy must like you!"

Therefore, every time a girl goes to see a boy, she cares very much and dresses up carefully.

Finally one day, the boy boasted, "Your scarf is really beautiful!" "

The girl was elated and returned to the dormitory. Everyone was more sure: "Look, he can even notice your scarf, which shows how much he cares about you."

Just when everyone was chatting and waiting for a romantic love story, they suddenly found out that the boy had a girlfriend. So everyone was very angry and asked the boys together, "You have a girlfriend, why do you still like someone in our dormitory?"

The boy is puzzled: "I have never liked her."

"Then why did you smile at her and praise her scarf for its beauty?"

The boy replied, "I smiled at her out of courtesy." I praised her scarf because I thought of buying one for my girlfriend. "

-2-

How hard is it to admit that you are not liked?

Once I saw a fan's message backstage:

"I know a little brother. He obviously likes me, but he never took the initiative to contact me. What is this situation? "

I asked, "How do you know that he likes you very much?"

She replied, "Because we met for the first time, he said-nice to meet you."

I almost took this as a joke. However, after laughing, tell her that "nice to meet you" is common courtesy and doesn't make any sense at all.

Fans are unconvinced: "Everyone says he likes me, and everyone can see it."

"Everyone says they like you, so did he say it himself?"

"No."

Girl, everyone says they like you, but he doesn't count if he doesn't say it.

If a man really likes you, then he will tell you that no one can stop him.

A man wants to see you. He will come to see you when he crosses the mountains and seas.

Don't make up your mind that he is shy and introverted, he can't find you, he doesn't have your contact information and so on. For a person who likes you, these are not problems.

There is a TV series in America called "In fact, he doesn't like you that much".

Gigi, the heroine in the play, is waiting for a call from a boy at home, but she can't.

My best friend comforted her: "My husband and I met for the first time, and he called me 10 days later."

Gigi is full of hope and keeps waiting.

Fortunately, she met her life coach Alex later, and Alex hit the nail on the head:

"If he doesn't care about you, then he really doesn't care about you, without exception."

-3-

Three illusions in life: the phone rings, someone knocks at the door and he likes me.

In fact, when you feel that a person seems to like you very much, there is a high probability that you really like him.

If he casually says "Nice to meet you", you will take it seriously.

Before leaving, I perfunctory "I'll contact you later", so just wait.

His smile has special meaning in your eyes.

You can find 100 pieces of evidence that he likes you, and every piece of evidence gives you empty joy.

But, ah, you can't find an explanation that he doesn't confess.

There is paranoia about being killed and paranoia about being loved.

It's like playing golf alone. He hit the ball hard and it flew far. When he approached the ball, he found a woman about to hit the ball.

He said, "You hit my ball." Woman: "It's my ball."

The humanitarian said, "My name is on this ball. If you don't believe it, you can have a look. "

The woman picked up the ball and looked at it, saying, "It's too much, you actually wrote your name on my ball!" " "

This is what psychology calls mapping. When you care too much about one thing, everything should be explained clearly.

So, when you think someone has a unrequited love for you, it is your unrequited love.

-4-

On the way to the company party, one friend joked with another friend, "Does the new colleague like you today? I have been chatting with you. "

Ask friends mysterious smile, suddenly with open arms in the wind, while walking smartly, while answering:

"It doesn't matter whether he likes me or not. What matters is whether I like him or not? "

Yes, true love needs to be active, not waiting for death.

Why meditate: "Does he like me?" Isn't it more important whether I like him or not?

Knowing your heart makes everything easier-

People I like, I watch more and make money.

People I don't like don't need to look at me again.

A truly powerful woman will never be entangled in "whether he likes me or not", nor will she be paralyzed by a group of white lies from her girlfriends.

I won't peek at him and think he's peeking at myself.

Embarrassment, misunderstanding, pain, infatuation ... It was a little girl's play.

Those big women always dare to face up to their hearts and defend their thoughts.

I like him, he likes me, and everyone is happy.

I like him, he doesn't like me, and I can't afford to lose.