Will the rural hometown be looked down upon without a son?

In the countryside, if there is no son, someone will say something behind his back. I think this is also a remnant of feudal thought. Although it may be really looked down upon, families without sons will always feel a little inferior. So now in the countryside, there are still many people who desperately want to have sons.

In our country, this phenomenon is obvious. Every small family basically has a boy. If there is no boy, we must have another one anyway. There is such a family in my mother-in-law's alley. The couple have given birth to two girls. I remember that family planning was very strict at that time, and my wife had been ligated. But in order to have a boy, they sneaked into the city, went to the hospital to get the fallopian tube back, and then gave birth to a boy before going to the village.

One of my husband's classmates has three brothers at home. He is the boss. After the family planning policy was liberalized, his two younger brothers had boys at home, but there were no boys at home. He is the boss of the family, and his children are older. So he decided to buy a good house this year and have children next year. Now they are almost forty years old. When the child was born, his wife was also an elderly woman. And have a boy, fight.

In our place, this kind of situation is really many. A friend of mine, too, has two daughters. The first one was delivered by caesarean section, and the second one was found to be a girl. In order to get pregnant for the third time, she took risks and chose a natural birth. Now throw the two children to my in-laws, regardless of their studies, and go to Suzhou with their husbands to have children.

Many times now, people are troubled by their inner thoughts. In fact, in my opinion, aren't all boys and girls the same? However, some people just don't think so, preferring to increase the family burden and have a boy.