A divorced man said: Although I have been divorced, I will not marry a divorced woman. What do you think?

An unhappy marriage is like hell. Fighting for a goose your entire life does not guarantee your safety. On the contrary, if you choose a satisfactory spouse, you can live in harmony for hundreds of years and enjoy endless happiness.

However, in real life, not all people are so lucky to meet love that can lead them into old age hand in hand. Most of us are just ordinary people, meeting an ordinary lover and living an ordinary and real life. Some couples choose to divorce if their relationship doesn't work out. Some women have to cut their losses in time because they met the wrong person.

Life is so long that no one can predict what will happen in the future. There are no hard and fast rules for love or marriage. It is a natural choice to stay with whomever you want for the rest of your life. If it doesn't suit you, break up.

And women have the courage to break free from failed marriages, get rid of broken emotions, and start a new life. That courage alone is admirable.

Don’t say that you have to be completely broken, and it doesn’t mean that you will completely forget each other in a short period of time. But you must maintain your principles and bottom line, keep your distance, do not do anything that violates morality, and do not say ambiguous words. Of course, if you have children, you must educate them well, and they cannot be indulged or ignored. If a person does not have his own understanding of feelings, his own knowledge, his own views on love and marriage, and if everything is not based on love for others, then you will fall blindly when you fall in love with anyone.

As a man, it does not mean that he cannot marry a divorced woman. The key is to have a clear understanding of marriage. Don't think that others will be happy if they marry a divorced woman. It is too arbitrary to draw conclusions.

You must not only consider whether you should marry a divorced woman from a realistic perspective, but also consider whether you can get the life you want by marrying a divorced woman from the perspective of your own needs. You should get married only if you are sure about it. If you are unsure or obviously inappropriate, avoid filling your face with fat, otherwise both sides will suffer in the end.

However, many men who cannot reverse their marriages have to look at divorced women through colored glasses. They are always self-righteous and think highly of themselves. This blind self-confidence marks that their value is too high and prevents them from considering it in light of their actual situation.

Everyone has the right to live independently. Whether a woman is good or not cannot be determined by a failed marriage. Everyone has the right to choose marriage, but remember not to be blind and don't take it for granted. Only by truly recognizing yourself and looking at everything calmly can you find the right person.