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Why can't I sleep with my husband when I go back to my parents' house after marriage?

Women can't share the same room when they get married and go back to their parents' house? Does such a thing sound a bit strange to everyone?

In fact, this kind of situation is real, and it is stipulated in many places, mainly in rural areas. Why?

The little helper asked the old people in our village, and they said it was still a custom left over from the past, which was superstitious. There are two main points:

1. A married daughter is equal to spilled water. In the past, if a daughter got married, she belonged to someone else's house. After returning to her parents' home, she needs to sleep in a room by herself or with her sister. She was never allowed to share a bed with her husband, because it would bring bad luck to her parents' family and lead to "disaster".

2. If a married woman goes back to her mother's house to sleep with her husband, it will affect her brother or younger brother (the specific aspects are not detailed, but it is health and disease), so parents will not let her daughter sleep with her son-in-law.

Of course, the above two points may be a joke now. Many people want to say that every time I go back to my daughter-in-law's house, I sleep in the same bed with my daughter-in-law, and I have never seen anything from my parents-in-law. With the continuous development of society, people don't believe it more and more. Now many parents may not necessarily take this matter to heart.

However, funny-looking customs still exist in some places (you can ask your friends or colleagues around you, which will surprise you), and the Spring Festival is coming. Some friends who go back to the woman's house for the New Year can only tolerate that the woman sleeps with her sister and the man sleeps with her brother-in-law (if not, sleep in a bed). I can't help it. Do as the Romans do. Just bear it for a few days.