Going to my girlfriend's house, the mother-in-law-to-be cooks badly. What should we do?

I talked with my wife for a year and officially entered the marriage hall. But my mother-in-law's cooking really can't be said, there is nothing but salty taste! I want to go into the kitchen, but my mother-in-law won't let me, so I have to make do. Once my wife and I went to my mother-in-law's house again. My mother-in-law is not here, so she dug up the mountain. Haha, here comes the opportunity. I hurried to buy vegetables, chicken, fish, meat and vegetables. I cooked four dishes, and then went to the mountain to help my mother-in-law clean up, wash her hands and eat. After the first bite, the whole family asked us where we bought the cooked food. My wife said your son-in-law made it, so you must take me with you when you go back to your mother's house, or you won't be able to get in!

It's better that your mother-in-law doesn't cook well I remember the first time I went to my mother-in-law's house to cook, because her mother-in-law didn't eat onions, ginger and garlic. What do you think of these dishes?

It's my first time. I have no idea. My wife didn't tell me at the time. When I was eating, I felt that the food was tasteless. There was a shredded potato. I also said that it only smells good when fried in a garlic wok. I thought my mother-in-law fried shredded potatoes without garlic. After returning home, my wife told me that her mother didn't eat onion, ginger and garlic.

The second time I went to my mother-in-law's house for dinner, it was different. At that time, my wife and I were polite. When I was cooking, I saw two case boards in the kitchen, one of which had onions, ginger and garlic on it. I told my mother-in-law that there was no need to fry separately, and it was delicious without onions and garlic. Actually, I was wrong. At that time, my mother-in-law thought of me and added onions and garlic, which didn't mean to fry separately at all. My mother-in-law hardly touched chopsticks.

Since then, the number of times I have gone has gradually increased. Every time I go, I always take vegetables with me. Generally, I cook them. I try to avoid some dishes that need onions, ginger and garlic, or just fry one or two of them. My father-in-law said that they were not allowed to eat onions, ginger and garlic for a year. Now my mother-in-law still doesn't eat onions and garlic, but onions and garlic are allowed at home.

It's actually easy for you. My suggestion is that you learn to cook more at home and go to your mother-in-law's house to do it, which can also show your affection for your father-in-law. Or go to my mother-in-law's house to buy ready-made ones. Anyway, you will buy things when you go to your mother-in-law's house. It is the same for you to buy something to eat.

Do it yourself

My mother cooks very well, and my husband used to cook. He hasn't been able to cook since he got married.

I didn't know how to cook before. After I got married, I learned to cook for my children, and I did it well.

It used to be strange, and cooking was not complicated. Why do some people cook so badly?

Now that I am old and have experienced many things, I really can't help it. Some people really don't have this talent.

If you want to dislike your mother-in-law's poor cooking, you can cook by yourself. When the family is together, you don't ask your mother-in-law to cook!

This is not easy to do. If you cook delicious food, you can do it!

It's not that your mother-in-law is going to cook for you. Since people made it with their heart and it tasted bad, they tried their best.

It won't be a rotten dish for life. It is unrealistic for you to go to the chef school for further study. As long as it's not personal, people can accept it to this extent.

When I was in love with my husband, I brought him to my house for the first time and took dinner. I told him before I took it home. My mother is not good at cooking, and she is not necessarily delicious.

He said no problem, I cook delicious. That day, my parents and I sat on the sofa and waited. He is busy in the kitchen alone. Sometimes I go to give him a hand, but he cooks a table of dishes.

My parents also had a good impression on him that day. I thought that if I stayed with him in the future, he would definitely fatten you up.

Now every time I go to my house, my husband cooks. There is no rule about who must cook and who cooks delicious food.

Don't think too much as long as she doesn't deliberately target you and has no prejudice against you. After all, there is a generation gap between the elderly and the younger generation. If you have to care, you will not be happy for yourself.

You haven't eaten at her house. Don't think too much.

I wish you happiness!

Do it yourself Forty years ago, I went to my mother-in-law's house and cooked by myself. Our family is diligent (catering), and I feel that my mother-in-law's cooking level is average. Ordinary people can cook as usual, but some dishes can't. I have cooked in my mother-in-law's house for several years, and my sister-in-law and brother-in-law have improved their cooking skills. As a result, I have been asked to cook in Zhang Yue's home (Jason, brother-in-law's home) for more than 40 years.