If a daughter wants to get married, the other party can only give 20,000 to 30,000 as a bride price. Do you agree?

When my second aunt married a woman, she asked the man to give a bride price of 50 thousand anyway. I don't understand. I advised my second aunt, as long as they are both good, why not find happiness? You don't need that money either. My second aunt replied that she didn't want his money. Even if there is, she also wants to tell the man that it is not easy to get a daughter-in-law. It is too easy to get, and he will not cherish it. And she told the man's parents that her daughter was formally married to your family through a ceremony. You can't bully her, and don't think that you have no family to rely on. When their marriage is stable, give them money if necessary. If their marriage fails, they will stay with their daughter. Sometimes the bride price can reflect the family's attitude towards their daughters. I think this statement seems to be true. Later, after the relationship between the two was stable, they did need money for a while, and the second aunt gave 654.38+10,000 alimony without saying anything.

First of all, I am firmly opposed to the bride price! Won't charge a penny. My son is talking to a person whose parents happened to be in Zhangjiagang, Wuxi, where the bride price was prevalent … We were embarrassed and had an unhappy relationship with our in-laws … Suddenly one day, our in-laws changed 180 degrees, and we didn't want them. I can understand that both my daughter and parents are afraid of losing money. At present, the divorce rate is very high. If anything goes wrong, the woman will always be at an economic disadvantage ... of course, in the final analysis, it is only economic strength. That is the reality. My son graduated from Nanjing University and went to tokyo institute of technology to study for a doctorate. And took her to study for a doctorate. Once she went to the bank to withdraw money and took my son's by mistake.

Anyone who wants a bride price must be in a poor rural area. We don't want bride price here. It is usually given to the girl when she meets her husband's family, which means that the girl is one in a million.

When most girls get married, the bride's family will give a dowry, such as a car or a set of household appliances.

If my daughter gets married, I won't ask for a bride price. Not only will I not ask for a bride price, but I will also give my daughter a generous dowry. I will send her a full set of home appliances and a car.

I don't know whether my uncle is satisfied with my daughter's dowry or whether there are any other requirements. Welcome the uncles who are about to enter the marriage hall to leave a message for discussion.

According to the customs of various regions, the bride price is finally given to the daughter. It's no use asking for nothing. Let's give an example. My friend's sister-in-law got married without a bride price. The man's parents bought a car with a down payment, and the car was in the man's name. The woman's parents gave her daughter tens of thousands of dollars in dowry. Divorced after a year and a half of marriage, that is to say, the woman slept with the man for more than a year, but she also got a second marriage name. Finally, the woman left without a dowry. Imagine that if the woman's parents had asked the man for tens of thousands of bride price and saved it for their daughter, there would be nothing now.

The child is her aunt. When she got married, she didn't care about her family. People must be filial to their parents. When she got married, she was only 1 10,000, and others wanted to give her 6000. Someone gave her 50, and her mother-in-law threatened to die if she didn't agree. It's no use. Now my brother-in-law is still a good man, but he is not good to her. Both of them spend their own money, which is the fault of their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As soon as I told him that people and children need money and want to make some money in business, he said that my aunt was too poor to love rich people, and she was too poor to marry you. There is nothing wrong with being poor. Poverty is the problem. No money. It doesn't hurt, and it's stupid. She brought so many dowries to make a fish during the Spring Festival. Her father-in-law asked if it was salty, and they all said it was salty. My aunt was easy-going and said it was salty. The old man came over and said, stop eating ... speechless.

What does it matter as long as the daughter can have a happy bride price?

When my husband and I got married, the bride price was only 30 thousand. In our place, the bride price is high or low, and 30 thousand yuan is normal. Before I got married, my parents told me not to pay the bride price. As long as you are happy, save more for your future use. There are still many places to use money in the future. But my husband still listened to my advice, mainly to prevent neighbors from making fun of our family, because neighbors always compare the bride price of their daughters. If they don't give it, they are mainly worried about their parents' face.

Less bride price doesn't mean that the in-laws don't value you. On the contrary, they can get their love and respect, because they think that their son has found a wife who really loves him and is willing to work with him, and they will be happy for his son. Just like myself, although my husband's family didn't give my family much bride price, they respected my views and opinions. My mother-in-law took care of me when my baby was young. As long as my husband says I like it, she will buy it for me, and she is not willing to eat it herself. My husband said that I love cherries in confinement, and I would buy some for me every day, wash them and bring them to my room for me to eat. She doesn't mind spitting directly. I advised her not to eat, but she wouldn't listen. I am also very grateful to her for being so kind to me, even better than my sister-in-law. My sister-in-law also said that only I can convince my mother-in-law, and none of them can convince her.

So the happiness of marriage has little to do with the bride price. Even if you give millions of bride price to your mother's family, no one cares about it in her husband's family. Is it worth treating you as a servant?

How much bride price is appropriate?

The amount of bride price is related to the attitude of husband's family. If the woman is valued in her husband's family, how little? What if the man keeps saying that he loves your daughter because he has no financial ability, and you ask him to take a little bride price to protect her future, and he says that you sold your daughter? This in-laws daughter insists on getting married. What should I do? You can only ask for more bride price. If my daughter is bullied in the future, at least there is a guarantee. Therefore, the bride price is only a standard to measure the attitude of the husband's family, and it is not doomed.

I didn't ask for any bride price when I married my daughter ten years ago. Not only that, the son-in-law is still a "three noes" youth: no house, no car and no deposit.

At that time, the son-in-law had just finished her Ph.D. and her daughter had only finished her master's degree for one year. Two children have nothing. But they are all very motivated and hardworking. Ten years later, they have everything. Seeing them chatting happily, I am happier than receiving any bride price.

By the way, I didn't give my parents-in-law a penny as a bride price when I got married.

I agree. The man my daughter is going to marry will belong to her family in the future. Why does it have to be counted? When my sister got married, my brother-in-law's family was in a bad condition, so my mother asked her to take 8 thousand lucky money home and give it to my family as a wedding dress as far as possible. When I got married, my parents-in-law didn't want a bride price, so they paid me to start a business. When my brother got married, the in-laws in the city didn't want the bride price, and the family paid for the daughter to be sent to our country home happily. After getting married, he also asked my brother to take the entrance examination. My brother-in-law married a An Wei woman and gave her lucky money on her wedding day. We are all living well now, and our in-laws have a good relationship. Don't forget that unity is strength.

When my husband and I got married, there was no wedding, no wedding dress, no bride price, no flowers, no ring, no house, and the house was rented. Moreover, my husband's economic conditions were not good at that time, so it can be said that he was married naked! But what I want to say is that we are very happy every day! We have our own house now! Personally, I think marriage values love more than money, because money can be obtained through your own efforts! No matter how much money I give you, what's the point of being unhappy?

I got married without a bride price. Let's look at the economic situation of the two families and the degree of love between the two people. Marriage is the birth of a new home, which has something to do with money, but it is not the most important. My married mother-in-law made simple furniture such as beds and cabinets, and her family didn't marry her, only a few quilts. We don't even have a TV, we are miserable, and we don't have any household appliances, so we are very happy.