How to judge whether your husband is a good husband?

Many women regret marrying the wrong person after they get married. They were a good person when they were in love. Why do they change after getting married? In fact, it's not that the man has changed, but that you don't understand him thoroughly enough. No matter how much a person disguises himself, the underlying characteristics cannot be disguised.

You will know whether a man treats you well or not by looking at how he treats you after you get married. To know whether your husband is a qualified husband, you will know by looking at his behaviors.

Did you know? There are five signs of a good husband. If you get two of them, it means you are marrying the right person.

1. If you have a quarrel, no matter whose fault it is, be willing to bow your head first

Men are all face-saving, and they are all a bit chauvinistic. In some cases, even if he realizes his mistake , he will also refuse to admit his mistakes because he can't save face. This is also the reason why women get angrier when they quarrel in many families. In fact, sometimes women quarrel just to ask men to admit their mistakes.

Husbands and wives spend a lot of time together and experience a lot of things together. Everyone has their own way of handling things, so friction is inevitable.

If you have a good temper and are willing to take a step back, you can resolve the matter through friendly negotiation. However, many people are inherently short-tempered and get impatient when something happens. If both husband and wife are short-tempered, it will be even more explosive.

So in many families, it is normal for couples to quarrel. As the saying goes: couples quarrel, quarrel at the head of the bed and end at the end of the bed.

But what you need to remember is that home is always a place for talking about emotions rather than reasoning. Many male compatriots also know that if you win when trying to reason with a woman, you will lose her. When a woman quarrels with you, sometimes she only cares about your attitude, not the right or wrong of the matter itself.

If a man is willing to give up his face for his wife, then this woman must have married a good man and loves his wife more than herself.

2. Be willing to share the housework

Like in Russia, men will be laughed at by their buddies and friends if they do housework. If a man wants to help his wife share the housework, he will do it secretly.

Although this is not the case in China, the deep-rooted machismo causes many men to disdain housework. They think this is what women should do, otherwise why would they marry a wife?

But what I want to say is that there is nothing shameful in helping your wife share the housework. Now people are also happy to see a husband who is willing to help his wife share the housework.

Furthermore, the husband is willing to take the initiative to help his wife with housework, and the wife is very touched. It is a good phenomenon for husband and wife to understand each other and help each other. Husband and wife are originally one and the same body, one is prosperous and the other suffers. All lose.

A man who loves and loves his wife will definitely not want his wife to be burdened. He would rather be a little tired himself and help his wife reduce the burden. Such a husband can be considered a good husband.

3. Willing to spend money for you

Many men are willing to spend money before marriage. In order to catch up with a girl, they have to find ways to give it to their favorite even if they eat steamed buns and kimchi. The girl gives gifts.

But have you ever noticed that many such men change after getting married? Is it because they become poor after getting married?

It is true that after getting married, the pressure on men does increase, but the more reason is that they feel that they are already their wives and they cannot run away, so they will not spend time with their wives at all, and they are even more reluctant to leave them. Give your wife some small gifts.

They think that if they have spare money, they might as well buy a pack of cigarettes, a bottle of wine, or a skin in a game.

But please recognize the reality. Will your wife definitely stay with you for the rest of your life? It's just a grass next to you, but maybe it's a treasure next to others. If you don't want to be pampered, of course someone will be.

A person who spends money on you may not love you, but a person who is unwilling to spend money on you must not love you.

A good husband knows that being good to his father-in-law and his mother-in-law means being good to his wife. However, an unqualified husband will not know this clearly and is afraid that his daughter-in-law will turn to her natal family and take advantage of his own family.

When you have a good husband, he will be more considerate than you and will not forget your wife’s parents. This move also makes your wife warmer.

Three signs of a good husband: no matter whose fault it is, he is willing to bow his head first when there is a quarrel; he is willing to share the housework; he is willing to spend money for you and tolerates your little temper; he treats your parents You respect your parents as much as you do; if you get two, it means you are marrying the right person.