If you are divorced, why do you want to remarry?

Frankly speaking, remarriage for the sake of children is the most common reason used by many couples, but there is also a prerequisite for remarriage for the sake of children, that is, the two people agree on "remarriage". In addition, remarriage There are many reasons for remarriage, not only for the children, but also for feelings, maybe because the other party regrets, maybe for the interests of the spouse, etc. Of these reasons for remarriage, "for the sake of the children" is often the most commonly used reason for remarriage.

But if we think about it carefully, remarrying for the sake of children is actually the biggest lie and a joke. Remarrying is for the sake of children, so let’s push it forward. Before divorce, couples quarreled over trivial family matters. At this time, why don’t you think about how we should stop quarreling for the sake of our children? When couples are about to divorce, why don't they think that for the sake of their children, we should not divorce.

So, divorced couples should not remarry for the sake of their children. This answer is not reliable at all. Moreover, it is difficult for divorced and remarried couples to go back and remarry, and it will be difficult for them to be happy again. The reason is that the problem of previous divorce has not been fundamentally solved, and the problem continues after remarriage. Not only does the pain not disappear because of divorce, but it continues to grow because of remarriage.

Finally, the two people who remarried made the same mistakes again. The experience of those who have been there is that it is not worth it to get divorced and then remarried. It is difficult to reconcile a broken mirror. You thought the wound of remarriage would heal, but it is just that the scar is opened. It's just another injury, but remarriage is not without happiness. In the final analysis, it varies from person to person, and you know whether you are good or bad.