Why do some people dislike honest people?

Because too many people are cheating with honest people now. I like kind boys, no matter whether they are honest or not, honesty does not mean that people are necessarily good. Why do honest people have no girls? A woman's kindness to her means a sense of identity with others. She can be envied with you,

Compared with others, you are more dazzling and special than other men. To put it simply, if everyone thinks that man is not so good, even if the man's economy is ok and he is good to his sister, her sister will not like it. On the other hand, if everyone thinks that man is great, even if he is lukewarm to his sister and gives cheap gifts, even if he is a little violent, her sister will still think that he is particularly excellent.

As an older single young woman, I have successfully transitioned from marriageable age to older leftover women, or "Buddha in the battle" on the Internet. When I was upgrading at the level of leftover women, blind date was a major event that I had to face, and as I grew older, I was urged to get married and blind date from time to time.

For the first time, I know that my mother's parents have such a wide network of contacts that there are people in Beijing, Tianjin and even Suzhou and Hangzhou. I need this network to find a job, which can be said to make people very happy. The level of blind date with me is generally not very high, it depends entirely on my own conditions. My mother thinks it doesn't matter if the other person is divorced, widowed and has children, as long as they are nice, but in my opinion, many young people who have not been married for a long time after marriageable age must have their own reasons.

For example, I, from this perspective, my mother sees those messy men from the heart. Apart from poor material conditions, all the people I date have a common "advantage" that is honesty. When every introducer told me about a blind date, he said, "This kid is too honest to find a date." This is not the most terrible.

What I fear most is this kind of honesty: "This kid is too honest. Listen to his mother and find whatever his mother wants." "Honesty" has many terrible degrees. The most terrible thing is to find someone his mother likes. Living with such a person is simply not terrible. Long-term selection focuses on men with "reliable personality and stable/high income". Long-term love is handsome in long-term marriage. Long-term choice means that "love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism".

Short-term selection of men who focus on "looking good, listening and playing well" can bring the greatest happiness in the short term. Short-term choice is "don't care about eternity, only care about what you once had". Long selection and short selection are mutually exclusive to some extent, which is human nature, and it is also because most girls can't have their cake and eat it.