My boyfriend’s ex is seriously ill. My boyfriend cried in front of me and said that fate was unfair to her. What should I do?

Whether it is a boy or a girl, when they hear the name of their ex or related things from their significant other, they will definitely feel sad. Although I am his current incumbent now, logically I shouldn’t mind what happened before, but there are really not many people who can be so broad-minded that they don’t mind at all, unless they don’t like their current incumbent so much that they won’t mind his emotional experience. .

However, everyone’s situation when mentioning their ex is different. Some may be because they haven’t let go of the other person yet, and they will unconsciously pay attention to everything related to him. This situation is really known by the current person. It's very bad, and your current girlfriend will definitely have to bear a lot in his heart; but if you only accidentally know about your ex, and tell your current girlfriend that it's a normal thing, he might not be too sad. So your current reaction when you find out about this completely depends on your current attitude.

Similar to the situation you are facing now, your boyfriend’s ex is seriously ill. He is crying for her in front of you and saying that his fate is unfair. This scene makes me feel embarrassed just thinking about it. , I can think of your current situation. You must feel that no matter what disease she suffers from, it has nothing to do with you, but when you see your boyfriend feeling sad for her, you feel distressed and angry, and want to quarrel with him. But I felt that this was not a good time, and I had to endure my temper to comfort him, which was really frustrating. But you can look at this matter from your boyfriend's perspective. After all, the other person is his ex-girlfriend. Although they broke up, they once really loved each other. Even ordinary friends who are seriously ill will feel sorry for each other, let alone two people who are still together. At this level of relationship, regardless of whether he has not let go of his ex yet, this incident will have a huge impact on him.

So I suggest you not to quarrel with him at this time. A man will not shed tears easily. If he can cry in front of you, it means that he is really sad. Making trouble at this time will only make people angry. I think you are unsympathetic, which will be detrimental to your relationship with your boyfriend in the future. Besides, the other person is already seriously ill, so you shouldn’t worry about this with a patient. If possible, you can choose to accompany your boyfriend to visit his ex. This not only reflects your generosity, but also does not require you to think too much. It is a good solution.