Henan is now a sky-high bride price! 60 chunks+whole pig samples+300 thousand, why is the bride price so high in rural weddings?

Not only in rural areas, but also in Henan, the discussion about "bride price" is very intense all over the country ... and in most areas, "bride price" is increasing rapidly.

The author believes that the main reason for the "curve rise" of bride price is inseparable from the current social background of "more men than women"; It's like a group recruiting talents. Once talent is scarce, those people can naturally "wait for the price to sell"!

Moreover, this phenomenon is temporarily uncontrollable. Many government departments have introduced policies to curb bride price before, but the results are often very small! ..... Personally, I predict that the standard of "bride price" will continue to rise in the next few years, which is definitely much more stable than stocks.

Take the "sky-high bride price" in rural areas of Henan as an example. Personally, this is a very bad start, which once again indicates that the bride price in China is climbing to a higher stage. ...

65438+ 10 16, a video of a "high price bride price" broke the news in Yucheng County, Shangqiu, Henan Province, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens.

In the video, the man bluntly said:

Look at the present bride price, 60 boxes of big items, 8 flower heads, whole pigs and whole sheep, more than 10 boxes of fruits and more than 300,000 cash. ...

It is reported that Shangqiu has repeatedly issued policies to curb the phenomenon of "sky-high bride price";

The Ministry of Civil Affairs has been shouting: unhealthy trends such as sky-high bride price and vulgar marriage should be rectified! ..... Rectify unhealthy practices such as sky-high bride price, extravagance and waste, vulgar marriage quarrels, comparison and gifts, and promote the improvement of social atmosphere.

However, with all due respect, such a policy can't play a substantive role at all ... because moral restraint and compulsory stop are two different things.

As far as the current situation is concerned, 300,000 bride price+items may not be a "sky-high bride price" at all. Because now the average level in many areas is almost reaching this height.

Under such a trend, we can only say that "some people are happy and some people are worried" ...

Families with daughters don't have to worry. Families with sons will be miserable, especially those with two or three sons. In the end, most of the burden falls on parents.

Parents used to give up as long as they raised their children. What about now? It's time to bring up the children, and it's time to buy a new house, a new car and a bride price. ...

Young people have just stepped into society. Who paid for all this money? Not all parents ... what is the final result? Young people have become "neets", putting all the pressure on their parents.

..... Thought of here, the author is very worried. Isn't my son committing iniquity by doing so?

I can't do it anyway. Married a few years ago, I didn't let my parents buy a house, didn't buy a car, and didn't talk to my wife's father-in-law about the bride price. Now this family is very happy.

I think a sincere heart is definitely much more useful than the hundreds of thousands of bride price; Families that make enemies before marriage are doomed to be short-lived!

Should "bride price chaos" be rectified? I am most afraid that this trend will continue, and there will be jokes about parents selling blood for their children to get married in the future. In that case, the world would be inhuman and everything would be in chaos.

Should "bride price chaos" be rectified? ..... rules, of course. Government departments have also been talking about rectification. However, this is the "business" of two of a kind! How do government departments intervene? The key depends on the attitude of the parties. ...

How can a family be happy? Give you 1 ten thousand yuan, give you 1 ten thousand yuan ... how many hundred million will you give him? No, the most important thing is that two hearts can be together. ...

Love based entirely on material things has evolved into a kind of "family first" and "parents' orders, matchmakers' words" in feudal society ... That disgusting tragedy that year felt deja vu. ...

So whether the bride price goes up or down depends entirely on the individual ... In my diary, the bride price is just a symbolic thing. ...