I get along well with a good sister, but because she always speaks in front of outsiders, it doesn't give me face and has shortcomings. I just care too much about my friendship with her, but

If you are a friend, will she always talk about your shortcomings? Of course she would say something, but it was just a joke or something. But you know, everyone needs to be recognized. I'm not worthless. Why do you keep exposing my shortcomings? Is it the same with others? Don't be sad, see the reality clearly. She just regards you as a gap between classmates, colleagues and friends, which is dispensable. Maybe you will feel sad, sad, my words are not credible, but. Think about it, why doesn't she care what you think, and why, after you talk about her, she keeps talking about your shortcomings and embarrassing you. Because you care too much about her! People who are favored are always fearless.