Feel oneself postpartum depression, how should do?

What is postpartum depression? As the name implies, it is a psychological disease of pregnant women after delivery. Negative emotions and depression are the main symptoms. It is a disease between postpartum depression and postpartum depressive psychosis. Clinical manifestations are depression, sadness, fatigue, insomnia, solitude, fidgeting, frustration with things, and often guilt.

Postpartum depression is not uncommon in life, and many clinicians at home and abroad have reported the probability of postpartum depression. Foreign articles report that the probability of postpartum depression is 8.5%-40%, and it is 6.5%-43. 1% in China.

Postpartum depression has become the ruin of mother? The culprit? At about 7 o'clock on February 20th, a young woman fell from a tall building and died in Jiafeng Beiyuan Community, Xiaoshan, Hangzhou. The reporter learned that the woman surnamed Lai is 28 years old this year. The family said that the woman suffered from depression before her death. It is said that the baby had just been breastfed before the incident. After the incident, the police of Xiaoshan local police station arrived at the scene for an inquest. At present, homicide is basically ruled out.

Postpartum depression not only appears in ordinary families, but also exists behind glamorous stars, many of whom died of depression. Therefore, women should not take chances and face postpartum depression correctly.

How terrible is postpartum depression? Please pay attention to the people around you in time and understand the reasons. The right medicine? 1. The older the mother, the higher the probability of depression.

The high incidence of female depression is 30 to 40 years old, and older women are in this special period, so older women themselves are more likely to suffer from depression. Clinically, this may be related to the changes of hormones in postpartum body.

Older primiparas are often pregnant for the first time, and often have excessive tension, fear, depression and anxiety, and worry about accidents due to their older age, especially when they are about to give birth. Coupled with the high incidence of pregnancy complications, complications and cesarean section, it will greatly increase their psychological burden.

2. Family economic status is also closely related to postpartum depression.

From the moment the child is born, it means a lot of expenses. Bottles, milk powder, clothes, toys, beds, etc. , has changed from the consumption of two people to the consumption of three people.

Unemployed mothers lose their financial resources after giving birth to their children and think about their children's lives every day. If the family is not rich, they are no longer willing to buy new clothes and shoes. Over time, there are only children in the mother's world. They began to lose themselves, become insecure and unwilling to communicate with others. Even standing in the crowd, they feel inferior everywhere, and may even give up on themselves.

3. The relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more estranged.

Many couples have children. Because babies cry too much at night and husbands have to go to work the next day, they usually choose to sleep in separate beds. So there is no communication between husband and wife. Every day, besides going to work, my husband comes back from work happily with his children in Doby, and plays mobile phones when he is unhappy. So what will the wife who is working hard to bring up the baby at home think?

I am the most vulnerable time, but there are endless things in front of me every day, and I still can't get recognition and care from others. In the long run, they will be disheartened by their husbands and feel that this marriage is unnecessary. Therefore, after having a baby, fathers should take some responsibilities for this family in addition to their daily work.

4. Reasons for childbirth

There are two forms of delivery, the first is caesarean section, and the second is natural delivery. As a treasure mother, it may be better to give birth naturally, but if your own conditions do not allow it, you need to follow the doctor's advice.

I once heard a story from a nurse friend. There is such a family in the hospital. Mother-in-law felt that the birth was good and insisted on letting her daughter-in-law have a natural birth. However, due to a large amount of bleeding during the natural delivery, there is no way. The doctor suggested an immediate caesarean section, otherwise both the fetus and the mother would be in danger.

But this mother-in-law said that she gave birth to several children that year, and they were all born like this. If there is no problem, she will definitely have a natural birth. The maternal husband is also a graduate student with a high degree, but he chose to listen to his mother at the critical moment. Finally, the doctor can't sign it himself, and directly give the parturient a caesarean section. Of course, it caused some controversy after all.

Afterwards, my mother thanked the doctor very much, but at the same time she didn't know how to get along with her family. It is conceivable that if the problem is not solved well, how sad it will be to face such an incident just after giving birth to a baby.

5. Postpartum complications affect their health.

After most women give birth to babies, it doesn't mean? Mission? End. We all know that the birth process is very painful, and there will still be many problems involving them after birth. In addition to daily parenting, long and short babies generally face delivery complications, such as difficulty in defecation due to perineal wounds, a lot of hair loss, and lack of sleep. It is necessary to take good care of the baby around you when the body is not ideal. Naturally, there will be a lot of grievances, which will lead to depression over time.

6. The troubles of family chores

Ma Bao, who just gave birth to a baby, has to breastfeed every two hours. The child cried for no reason, and no one around her felt the same way. Usually friends are at work, even if they want to vent, they can't find an exit.

Bao Ma who has a baby should have experienced it. When she can't even eat, the baby will keep crying when she leaves her sight. If you take care of the baby with your mother-in-law, you will encounter the most normal mother-in-law problem. An unreasonable mother-in-law wants to be the master of everything. After a long time, every day is contradictory, and naturally she will not be happy.

It is very common for a second-born mother to bravely face up to herself who overcomes postpartum depression and returns to healthy sunshine. Of course, fighting postpartum depression is definitely not her mother's business. As a husband, we must understand and care about our wives, take the initiative to share housework, and deepen communication and exchanges between husband and wife. Postpartum mothers should not get caught up in things and relax themselves properly. Finally, I wish everyone a happy family.