"Brother-in-law, you have two houses, give me one to get married." What should I do with such a brother-in-law

My name is Dong Ming. My wife and I met at a blind date. My wife and I both graduated from graduate school. After graduate school, we are both older. At that time, we fell in love and got married. We fell in love for half a year and chose to get married. I know my wife has a younger brother, three years younger than him, but not married. I knew at that time that their family preferred sons to daughters, but I didn't expect it to be so serious.

After my wife and I got married, my brother-in-law began to come to our house frequently, sometimes for days at a time. As a brother-in-law, it's not that I don't like him coming to live at home, but think about such a big guy who doesn't go to work every day and doesn't make money. I really don't know who will marry such a man in the future. His wife's family conditions are average, and her home is in the countryside. He can't earn much money all the year round, but his brother-in-law wants to be a master without a master.

My wife and I earn a lot of money. Usually after my brother-in-law comes to our house, my wife will give him living expenses. Maybe this is what caused him to come to our house frequently. Usually we get along well, and I have no idea about money. I bought my own house before I got married. After we got married, my wife and I paid together to buy a house. At that time, we didn't rush to decorate after buying it. During this time, we thought about decorating it first, but it was useless to keep it, so we were ready to decorate it and rent it out. My wife agreed at that time.

A month ago, my brother-in-law fell in love, but he had no money to buy things for his girlfriend. He reached out for money to buy things for his family and wife. Usually a little better, but falling in love is not good for him. I always thought he was my wife's favorite brother-in-law Usually let him go out to earn money if he has no money. I also talked about his wife at ordinary times, but I was afraid of hurting his wife's heart.

Just a few days ago, our home was renovated. The decorator just gave me the key, and my brother-in-law was on it. When he saw that the new house was decorated, he said to me, "Brother-in-law, you have two houses. Give me one to get married." The brother-in-law said such a thing, which surprised the decoration master. The master made a polite remark and left. I ignored my brother-in-law, and then my brother-in-law told me the same thing. After listening to it, I told him directly: "800,000, I will sell it directly to you." My brother-in-law blushed at that time.

I work hard to earn money to buy a house. How can my brother-in-law say so easily that he wants a house? If my brother-in-law said he wanted to borrow a house for a few years after marriage, I wouldn't say so. If my brother-in-law comes up, he just wants my house. Why should I give it to him?

Summary:

My own brother knows how to settle accounts, what's more, he is only my brother-in-law, and I won't allow him to directly take away the fruits of my own efforts. I also know that relatives should help each other, and help is right, but I don't agree with poverty alleviation. Even if I try my best to help him, he won't achieve much. If my brother-in-law pays for my house, I will give it to him at a low price. Personal feelings are ok.

What would you do if you had such a brother-in-law?