How do leftover women come into being?

First, I have always thought that I am excellent, and I have a high evaluation of mate selection. I am very picky about the man's appearance, talent, education, personality, economy and region, which leads to a narrow range of mate selection.

Second, women's rights consciousness is very strong. When getting along, once the man has a different idea from himself, they will immediately feel disgusted.

Third, habits make them only pay attention to their own feelings, becoming more and more personalized and self-centered. For example, many "leftover women" have cleanliness addiction, and once the other person has something she doesn't like in hygiene habits, she can't stand it.

Fourth, the monkey left the valley and finally missed the best mate selection period. Before being a "leftover woman", they were often pursued by many men, but she always felt that there would be a better man waiting for her and was finally dumped.

Many people may be hurt by an unforgettable love and stubbornly believe that she will never have true love again in this life. So there is a kind of self-harm psychology.

6. Pursuing career success is not only what she thinks, but also encouraged by her family, friends and colleagues. Coupled with emotional injury and emptiness, she hid in her career as a sustenance.

Seven, feminist thought, self-esteem, mental injury, etc. Almost all the leftover women have different degrees of psychological barriers. They are afraid of being laughed at for not finding a better man than the husband of their female friends.

Eight, influenced by bad ideas such as late marriage and late childbearing, unmarried infertility. Even thought it was a fashion, but realized it was too late.

Nine, the attitude of passive waiting

Ten, poor family education, can not be weaned. A considerable number of leftover women live with their parents as long as they are unmarried, even if they are 30, 35 or 40 years old. They are taken care of by their parents, and their status in the family will always be "daughters" rather than an independent single woman. They are single in law, but not in lifestyle.

Eleven, pale and conservative lifestyle. Many leftover women have been living a two-point and one-line lifestyle since they were students, and universities also go home every day, as if they were senior four, senior five and senior six. It's still 2: 11 after work, but the school has changed its work unit. Friends are kittens who have learned from middle school to college. When they leave school, they seem to have lost the ability to make friends. This is the life of many people in China. There is only family and professional life in life+,but there is no very important social life, and there is no social life at all. Leftover women are used to reducing their life circle to "I have no social life because of my work characteristics".

Twelve, when love is a fairy tale, frustration is poor. Many leftover women are 25 or 30 years old, but they can't wake up from the fairy tale princess dream. They have no experience of love, only imagination. Once the first love fails, it will be painful, and then completely deny men and the pursuit of love. The most shocking typical sentence is: love hurts so much that I don't believe in love anymore.