How to evaluate Mother Kong in Know No?

There is an episode in Zhao's "Do You Know" in which Moran and Lin Xiaoniang, who have always fallen out of favor, are silenced by a calm and well-founded old woman. This old lady is Mother Kong, specially invited by Mrs. Sheng to teach her granddaughters at home.

Confucius is the childhood sweetheart of the old lady Sheng and the mother in charge of etiquette in the palace. She is not only an expert in etiquette, but also a very clever person. Even a little dispute between Moran and Rulan can be seen at a glance at the problems existing in the Sheng family. Mother Kong's wise words shocked the Sheng family.

Wisdom: See through Sheng Jia's situation at a glance.

Although Mammy Kong hasn't been to Shengjia for a long time, she made it very clear that everyone in Shengjia is thinking clearly. So after the three sisters quarreled, she gave Mo Ran this advice. Don't treat others as fools just because they are somewhat clever. You know, being smart is getting smarter. ?

In fact, this is why Moran became unscrupulous, because Xu Lin's cream was favored by Yi Sheng. Every time she made a mistake, she cried and pretended to be weak, pleading with Sheng, so she escaped punishment many times. However, the clever mother Kong saw everything clearly, so she was given such a piece of advice.

After several days' teaching, Mammy Kong also found that these six girls are the pearls of the three sisters, so she strongly praised the granddaughter who was raised on her lap since childhood. Therefore, she knows Ming Lan's embarrassing situation and what kind of person Ming Lan is.

She said to Ming Lan. The brothers and sisters of the whole family are connected by the same gas, and * * * glory * * * loss. In the future, you will be glorious and the whole family will be glorious; If you lose one person, the whole family will lose one person, and no one will run away. Although you are not wrong today, your sisters are all wrong. You are right and wrong. ?

This sentence seems that Mother Kong is deliberately punishing, but in fact it has the profound meaning of Mother Kong. On the one hand, it's true that Ming Lan has shallow feelings for his sisters at home. On the other hand, Mammy's face does not remind Shengji that this sensible girl is also her own daughter.

How did Mammy Kong persuade Lan, a spoiled girl?

She said:? If you want to know that disaster comes from your mouth, you must change your temper, or you will be in big trouble in the future. In my opinion, you should be punished more severely than your sisters. ? To persuade rulan.

A few short words will be as clear as Lan Jiaoheng's temper, and as embarrassing as Lan's exhortation, let her know that she is wrong and say that she will never talk nonsense again. It can be said that Mother Kong saw through the three sisters, so she was able to reprimand them.

Vigilance: urge all people who are not awake to make up their belongings.

After Confucius told the reason for the punishment, he aroused deep guilt, but Confucius later disagreed. Today, Miss Ming Lan's board meeting is to let several sisters know what family is. ? Reject Seung-il's request.

It seems that mother Kong is extremely cruel, but she is not. She did this to help her old partner, Mrs Sheng, and let Yi Sheng really understand that although the three sisters are different, they are all family after all. Yi Sheng should not be eccentric, but a bowl of water is flat.

At the same time, Guan Xuan thinks that in the whole play, the turning point of Mo Ran and Lin's fate is also because the position of mother Kong began to change quietly. Because it was Kong's mother who woke him up, he knew that Frost was just a concubine and Moran was just a concubine.

So this is what she said to Lin Xiaoniang: Lin Xiaoniang, I also want to say something about you today. People are expensive in knowing themselves. There are two things you don't know. You know who you are. Should you interrupt when I am talking to an adult or a lady? Fortunately, I am a good friend of the old lady. If it were someone else, wouldn't it make outsiders laugh and make Fu Sheng lose its rules? ?

This sentence is not only a warning to Xu Lin Frost, but also a warning to Yi Sheng. Lin's position is still concubine, but now she loves my concubine and kills her wife, making the same mistake as Sheng's father, and losing the face of her first lady and Sheng's family.

The most important thing is to remind Ming Lan. Don't be so cautious in everything and don't compromise so much. She is also a rich woman, just like Juran and Moran. Don't give up persuading your sisters for fear of provoking them. After all, they are family.

It is precisely because of mother Kong's remarks that she dared to smash Moran with mud at the polo meeting later, and refused to let her go to the men's banquet, so as not to discredit the Sheng family with such shameless behavior. Mo Ran, after all, was born in a prosperous family, and his improper behavior naturally affected the whole family.

Although Mammy Kong is only a mother who teaches etiquette in the palace, his words can clearly reprimand everyone in the Sheng family, which shows Mammy Kong's cleverness.

But mother Kong's remarks were not simply reprimanding the three sisters, but awakened almost everyone. It's a pity that I didn't wake first frost and Moran in Xu Lin. From then on, the fate of Sara and Moran began to plummet.