How to find a topic when chatting with girls?

If this girl is your blind date, or someone you like, then you can talk to her about anything, just don't talk to yourself very enthusiastically, completely ignoring that the other person can't get in a word at all and is not interested.

When chatting with girls, you must pay attention to their emotions. Always pay attention to whether the other person is interested in this topic. If the other person is not interested, just change the subject naturally, and don't deliberately show that you care about her feelings, otherwise it will put too much pressure on the other person and cause unhappiness.

Let the girls be interested in the topic through simple questions, and let the other party participate in the communication. When she starts chatting, don't interrupt at will, just listen and agree from time to time to show that you are listening to her carefully.

After the girls finish, you'd better praise them in time and naturally. Girls like to hear compliments. Except for those who are particularly deliberate, that kind of hypocrisy is insincerity.

A little girl who just graduated went on a blind date and invited a boy to a restaurant. The two chatted while eating. When a girl saw the boy for the first time, she was a little stiff and didn't talk much, mainly because of the boy Kan Kan.

What did the boy say? Starting with how to arrange time in his university, he talked about how to make some important decisions wisely, the reasons why he chose this job, the rapid development of the city and his views on some hot events. He keeps talking about it, and he can't even drink water.

The little girl, with a straw in her mouth, was bored drinking and embarrassed to eat by herself.

Finally, it is natural. The little girl thinks that man is too arrogant and doesn't care about others' feelings at all.

Now she has a boyfriend.

When the boy saw her for the first time, he asked her if she had seen xxx movies recently. The girl said she didn't see it, and the boy said, let's go. There will be a performance later. Let's go and have a look.

When watching a movie, two people laugh and cry together. After watching it, I talked a lot about the film. After that, the boy asked the girl's opinion and invited her to eat a meal. At dinner, the boy asked the little girl what she liked. He seems to have found the treasure, and he is surprised to say that he likes it too. The two men exchanged a lot of opinions. After dinner, the boy politely sent her home and agreed on the time for the next meeting.

Therefore, if you want to win a girl's favor, you must make her feel that you value her very much and that you are like-minded.

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