If you have no manners, your life can only be like this.

In modern society, people are used to keeping in touch with electronic devices at any time, and it is also very common to communicate in meetings through social media. Since the development of media and social media, the boundaries between our life and work have become increasingly blurred, and at the same time, the standards and norms of traditional business etiquette have been blurred. Many people think that in the workplace, as long as you work hard and don't understand workplace etiquette, it doesn't seem to matter, but don't forget that China is a human society and a country of etiquette. If you want to get ahead, you have to be seen by others, appreciated and trusted by customers, and the simplest and most effective way to prove it is meticulous and thoughtful workplace social etiquette.

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A few years ago, kevin, a colleague of mine, came to the company for an interview. It happened that the company's big boss and executive creative director decided to interview in person. At first, my colleagues thought he was hopeless, because among the ten applicants who participated in the final interview that day, only one of them was a "little white" who just graduated and had any industry experience. But to the surprise of all of us, only he passed the final interview, and the reason given by the boss at that time was simple. In the afternoon, "he was the only one who put his seat back when he left and signaled that the next candidate could enter, and the only one who nodded goodbye to us when he went out." The advertising industry is an industry that needs a high sense of responsibility and service awareness. It is right to choose him. " In this way, Kevin became my colleague and later proved that the boss's choice was right. This colleague has been developing well and soon became the backbone of the company. Many years have passed, and now this colleague is a senior brand manager of a listed company.

My colleague won the start of his career with a little gesture of etiquette. Actually, it's the same at work. It is not enough for a person to have ideals, talents, confidence and enthusiasm, but also to know manners. A rude little gesture may ruin your brilliant workplace image; And proper manners can help you show your perfect self and add points to your workplace.

I still remember when I took the driving test. The coach lectured us before the driving test, saying that the driving test was the easiest part. Take it easy. Finally, let me tell you a little secret. When you get off the bus, you must come out sideways, get off facing the instructor, and bow to thank you. If you don't stretch your head, your ass will come down. Your pouting may make your share disappear. It seems like a joke, but it's actually time.

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Once, the company had a case in which a customer was in a foreign country, and it was necessary to find a local executive company to cooperate with the large-scale brand landing activities. A brand planning company with considerable scale in the local area had a very good communication with our project leader in the early stage and basically reached a cooperation. Finally, before making a decision, the general manager of the other company hosted a banquet for the boss and the project implementation team, and they had a good discussion during the meeting. Finally, when we left, the boss told us that the company gave them a small project execution link to cooperate with, and the overall coordinator of the whole project chose another one. The reason is that in the dinner tonight, only the other boss is busy, even the last step of paying the bill is done by the boss himself, while several other colleagues who come with the other party seem to be guests, leaving their own boss to serve. So the boss told us that he may be a "lonely hero", but our project needs a partner with strong team execution, so they may not be suitable.

If you have a business dinner with the leader in the workplace, remember not to let the boss get up and pay the bill. Of course, if it is a daily dinner between the boss and colleagues, it is another matter. I remember when I first entered the workplace, every time I went out for a business dinner with my boss, the boss always gave me her bank card in advance and told me all the details. In fact, this is an example of our business banquet etiquette.

Good business etiquette can convey value, better show your strengths and advantages to customers, and sometimes decide whether the opportunity will come. Because etiquette is a message that can convey respect and sincere feelings, proper etiquette can gain the goodwill and trust of the other party in business activities, thus promoting the development of things.

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Once, the company I worked for held an annual trade fair, and invited many big coffee makers from the same industry, invited important officials from the local and subordinate county governments, and important people from the same industry to attend. As a result, the story continued to the opening day. First of all, when the host of the opening ceremony invited the guests to take the stage, the host missed the name of a deputy director in charge of the industry. Because all the routines were arranged in advance, all the guests lined up on the stage in advance to wait for the roll call, but in the end, the name of the deputy director was left out. At that time, it was obvious that the director was embarrassed on the stage, but it was not easy to get angry.

After the opening ceremony, there will be a forum. As many important people were present, the meeting arranged the seats in a U-shape. On the same day, the leaders of the Municipal Bureau and the owner of the organizer sat on the U-shaped cross head to preside over the meeting, while other county leaders and industry punch cards attending the meeting sat on both sides of the U-shaped. At the meeting venue on the day of the meeting, the guests found their seats according to the arranged seats. At the beginning of the meeting, they found something wrong with the atmosphere of the meeting, and some guests began to whisper. At this time, the boss found a big problem. Only the position of deputy director was arranged at the ends of both sides of the U-shape, and the deputy director stood in front of the seat and turned blue. Although a leader sitting in front immediately invited him to move to the front, it was inevitable.

In fact, business etiquette is the norm of a series of behaviors, which makes us work and live relatively easily, guides us how to cultivate good relationships, reduces unpleasant social interaction and helps us achieve professional success. Today's post-90s generation may pay more attention to freedom in management, but it does not mean that basic business etiquette can be subverted. If you are a white girl who just entered the workplace, it is better to know more rules so as not to be destroyed.

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China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times. "There is no China after Cliff Mountain, and there is no China after Ming Dynasty." With the accelerated pace of social life and the rising pressure of life, people's beliefs are gradually lacking. Money worship, indulgence and impetuousness are people's mental state and belief concepts at present, and many etiquette cultures are being forgotten and ignored.

Rites come from vulgarity, and vulgarity turns into ritual. Etiquette comes from the most acceptable practices in our interpersonal communication. Have you ever been knocked down by a strange lunch opened by your neighbor in the office? Have you ever been accidentally injured by a ninja turtle carrying a backpack while riding in a car or elevator? Have you ever been suddenly interrupted by the roar of your colleagues on your mobile phone while you were meditating on creative copy? Etiquette exists around us anytime and anywhere, which is the basic interest standard.

Whether you are a white or an old bird in the workplace, please remember! It is definitely not enough to have ideals, talents, confidence and enthusiasm. If you don't know manners, your life will end here. A rude detail will ruin your image, and a decent etiquette will help you show your perfect self and add points to your workplace!