What if my boyfriend thinks I'm fat and wants to break up?

Before choosing, do one thing, that is, talk to your boyfriend, "If I am always so fat, will you always dislike me?" Look at his expression and answer.

If he really loves you and just thinks you are a little fat, then he will choose to lose weight instead of breaking up.

If you feel from his expression and language that he doesn't really love you and thinks you are fat, then choose both, both breaking up and losing weight. Being fat and thin is not the standard to measure love, but since it affects love, it needs to be taken seriously. I think this problem can be considered from the following points:

1. Do you think you are fat?

regardless of your boyfriend's opinion, how do you position yourself?

If you don't feel fat, there is no need to lose weight, and you can tell your boyfriend what he thinks, and I believe he can understand. If he still insists that you are too fat, it is recommended to find out the reasons and analyze the specific reasons, such as breaking up, such as losing weight.

If you feel fat, you can choose the right way to lose weight on the premise of ensuring your health. I believe he will be very supportive.

2. Do you only care about being fat or thin?

I think girls have a subtext about many things, and the subtext of "My boyfriend hates me for being fat" may be "My boyfriend doesn't like me";

And boys can't read the subtext at all, so you can try to coquetry with him, let him coax you, or just tell him, "I'm fat, I want you to keep it!" It is estimated that two people will not break up.

3. Love is not easy, study together.

I think it's not easy for every relationship to come together, from the heart to the confession, and then to the heart.

Therefore, it is not a matter of principle. Don't talk about breaking up easily. If he is wrong, don't hesitate.

If it's just a harmless joke, it can still be solved in a better way, such as slimming out lightning and corona him again; Or fatten him up so that he doesn't dislike your confidence; Love is not easy. Let's study together!

Finally, my suggestion is to lose weight first. The reasons are as follows:

1. Even if it is not for my boyfriend, I should think about my health. Obesity will cause and threaten my health.

For example: inconvenient exercise, chest tightness, myasthenia, edema, hypertension, hyperglycemia, osteoporosis and hypocalcemia.

2. Obesity will also affect work. If you are too fat when you are young, the scope of work choices will be narrowed a lot. Because of the image problem, you can't trust some jobs that require image.

3. The social scope is not wide, because obesity will definitely affect self-confidence, so going out to get together with friends or make friends will definitely be restrained. Looking at the sexy and slim figure of same-sex friends, I feel inferiority complex and have to stay at home.

4. In terms of dressing, if you are too fat, you can't start standing in front of the mirror and don't know what clothes to wear. No matter what you wear, you feel like a tiger's back, which is particularly awkward.

if you lose weight successfully, you will be a completely different person, comparable to plastic surgery. It's not just the current boyfriends who pursue it. You can have more choices and better boyfriends waiting for you. To sum up, it is time to choose to break up and lose weight.