What kind of "jokes" would a man who secretly has a crush on you make with you? Women shouldn't be so stupid that they don't understand?

There are no simple jokes in this world. Behind every joke, there is actually more or less intention. Precisely because these words are too critical and too stubborn to be spoken, you can use jokes and focus vaguely on the past. I have seen many people take advantage of "joking" to sweet-talk people, or they are afraid of being rejected, or afraid of being seen through. Just because they are worried that there will be no results, they quietly bury their little thoughts, but they pass you by unwillingly. . I hope every woman can understand the love behind the jokes: Only when a man secretly loves you unrequitedly can you make these 4 "jokes" with him. Women, don't be so stupid that you can't understand!

01 "Whoever can marry you in the future will be really lucky."

When a man is in unrequited love, he always hopes to be with the queen of unrequited love. , but they are very rational when it comes to love. They often dare not express their unrequited love, just because you are a very good being in their heart. If there is a man who often jokes and says: "The boy who will marry you later is very lucky, I wish I had such good luck.", then it means that he has already been deeply in love with you. He hopes to be the person who spends his life with you, but he is worried that he is not good enough and is stagnant.

02 "It would be fine if I had you by my side at that time"

Boys usually behave more tenaciously in life or work. No matter whether he is lonely or confused, he will not confide in others casually, but if he stays alone for too long, he will inevitably feel lonely. If a man often says: "It would be fine if I had you by my side at that time. With you by my side, I wouldn't be so lonely and lonely.", then it means that he has long been nostalgic for himself. This is not a simple joke, but there is great emotion hidden in it.

03 "You are so good to her, aren't you afraid that I will lose my temper?"

When a man is full of love for himself, he will usually grow unlimited love from his heart. I am so possessive that I hope I am the only person of the opposite sex around you. A man's pettiness actually doesn't matter much, because love is the only one, and they cannot tolerate the interference of a third party. If you have other friends of the opposite sex next to you, he will always say jokingly: "You are so good to her, aren't you afraid that I will lose my temper? If you coax me now, I will forgive you, otherwise we will cut off contact with you for three minutes." !", you thought he was joking, but you didn't know that he was actually feeling uncomfortable inside.

04 "What do you think of me?"

This is also a very playful "joking", but different people express it in different pictures, and the meaning is different. . When a man says something like this to you, no matter whether he says it inadvertently or not, he must like you, otherwise he would not be able to conduct this kind of test on you. What seems to be a casual joke is actually that he has been planning for a long time. He hopes that you can gain your opinion of him in this way, and then yearn for your next step.

Emotional message: Although boys sometimes seem to be nervous, when it comes to feelings, they will become thoughtful. All joking tests are real tests; all joking and dodging are manifestations of humility. They are worried that once they confess their love, they will not even be qualified to make friends, so they have no choice but to test you with jokes and love you deeply in the name of friends. If a man often says these four joking words and a woman still pretends not to understand, it’s not that she really doesn’t understand, but that she is politely refusing.