Brother and sister fight, who should let who?

Big ones don't necessarily give way to younger brothers and sisters. Young people make mistakes, and parents also need education and guidance. Those who manage big will feel unbalanced and unfair. Young people are easily spoiled by their parents, bullying their sisters and brothers, and even their peers.

Traditionally, some parents will say that it is obviously unreasonable for you to let him go, or that older children have grudges in their hearts and resent their parents and grow up rebellious; Either they endure injustice and become passive Nuo Nuo, and they don't know how to fight for their own interests.

This is all because of parents' partiality or ignorance of education. They think that as long as they give up, their sisters and brothers can learn to be tolerant and their brothers and sisters can be taken care of. Actually, this is not the case. It only aggravates the contradiction between brothers and sisters and lays a hidden danger for their future disharmony.

When I was a child, my sister never gave way to us. When I want to listen to the radio, she watches TV with her voice turned to the boss. Finally, she hit me, and my mother sent her again. Each is unbalanced. However, because of her persistence in character, she was particularly independent from childhood and was not bullied. As for me, I admire her independence and respect her.

At the same time, because parents love us equally, a bowl of water is flat. When we grow up, we love each other and care about each other, which is quite harmonious. Therefore, whether you are a parent or a child, don't advocate and believe that making way for your brother will cultivate your sister's kindness and obedience. Otherwise, children bullied by their older sisters will be independent, while children bullied by their younger brothers will lose their self-confidence and self-confidence. Believe me, I speak from experience.