It's not that he doesn't know how to care about people, but he doesn't want to care about you.

Xiaowen and her boyfriend Zhong Lei have been dating for more than two years. They met on a blind date, and their feelings have always been tepid. At arm's length, they always feel that there is something between them, which makes Xiaowen feel unable to enter his inner world. Fortunately, Zhong Lei is tall and handsome, and his work is excellent. She is also very modest and polite. Xiaowen is not satisfied with anything, so the two get along.

Zhong Lei is a career-oriented person. He put his work first. If he doesn't have time to meet and date often, he will forget it. I often send him a WeChat for half a day, which is distilled to only one or two words: "Hmm." "Busy." "Besides." I couldn't say a few words on the phone: "What's the matter? I am very busy, I will talk about it later! " It's like you can't find him if you have nothing to do.

At first, Xiaowen didn't feel anything wrong. It is always a good thing for a man to have his own career, which shows that he is an ambitious man and can provide better protection for their future.

She thought, maybe that's his character, he doesn't know how to care about people, and besides, he can't expect his boyfriend to stay with him all the time and do well at work. That's too hard, as long as he has me in his heart.

Therefore, although Zhong Lei is not particularly considerate and caring, Xiaowen accepted the reality and felt that she would get better if she got along slowly in the future, as long as she understood tolerance as much as possible.

It's just that Xiaowen hasn't been feeling well recently, and his roommate is not here. If she wants to drink some hot water, she has to struggle to stand up and burn herself. Xiaowen was a little at a loss, so he called him and wanted him to come and see for himself, but he just said, "Have you seen a doctor?" Drink more water and have a good rest! I will come to see you when I am busy. " Hang up the phone.

Xiaowen began to feel a little bad after listening. You said that as a boyfriend, no matter how busy you are at work and your girlfriend is sick, there are only a few words that are neither salty nor light. Who can stand it? I can understand that you are busy at work, but you can't completely ignore my feelings.

A few days later, Zhong Lei finally came and said a few words of apology when they met. Xiaowen's anger didn't go away, thinking that he was such a person, and his emotional intelligence was a little low, so he didn't care about it.

The two had a meal outside together, and the atmosphere was not bad. After all, I'm an adult, and I can still care about this little thing. Xiaowen is going to turn it over. There happened to be a movie with a good box office reputation. Xiaowen has always wanted to see it. She suggested that Zhong Lei go with her.

Just then, Zhong Lei's phone rang. After he answered a few words, he hung up and said to Xiaowen, "Sorry, I have something urgent to deal with now. Why don't I send you back first and watch a movie next time? "

Xiaowen was really speechless, sighed and said, "Forget it. I'll go back by myself. You go and get busy."

Xiaowen is a little bored and has nowhere to vent and doesn't want to go home. She wandered about the street in dismay until she came to a street corner. She saw several men and women standing in front of a bar not far away, talking and laughing loudly. One of the familiar people is Zhong Lei, who just said something and left in a hurry. He led a young woman outside, moving softly, and she spoke in a woman's ear. Her expression is gentle and caring that Xiaowen has never seen before.

Xiaowen saw the woman's face through the street lamp. It was in the photo accidentally taken on her mobile phone that she saw herself-Qin Man, a college classmate now, and a woman who heard that she had gone abroad after graduating from college five years ago.

Xiaowen, who suddenly saw this scene, was a little embarrassed. She doesn't know whether to go in or go back. She finally chose to stand in the shadow of the street corner and watch them go away.

Facts have proved that Zhong Lei is not an indifferent person who doesn't know how to care. He just doesn't want to give himself his tenderness and care. It seems that his unilateral understanding has become a joke in the past two years, and his heart has been occupied by others. Now everything has a reasonable explanation, why he is always at arm's length and polite, because he has never entered his world.

Xiaowen doesn't know how she got home. She just curled up in the quilt and looked at the ceiling all night. The next morning, she sent a message to Zhong Lei: Goodbye and wish you happiness!

Then she deleted his wechat and phone, and she thought, this is the best. No contact and no meeting in the future.

Even if I'm sad, it's better than another one-man show.