I am a stepmother, and the children around me often tell my children that I am not her mother. What should I do if I am in a bad mood?

Idle people gossip, although they care, but a good life needs to keep a good mood. The emotions in my heart need to be properly vented (doing something I like or talking to someone I can talk to, etc.). ), can effectively release my stress and emotions.

(Personally, I think the following are the key points)

About children, after all, you have seen storms, but children's hearts are still growing and their endurance is limited. This requires adult intervention. Personally, I think that if the child's biological mother abandons the child, then the child will have resentment against his biological mother, have a bad feeling about his biological father marrying his stepmother, and all kinds of dissatisfaction derived from it, but there is no way to vent it, so he can only hide it in his heart, which will have different effects on the child's growth (especially on his personality).

How to solve it? Since he can't solve it alone, let's do it together, you and his biological father and other family members. Try to get into his heart (but your attitude can't change too fast, for fear that he can't adapt). This is a step-by-step process, just as planting saplings can't help them. However, to care too much is to spoil.

In a word, in my opinion, education is an arduous task. Of course, we can also choose to ignore or skip. In other words, our own choices can affect our future development. The key is how to choose and how to do it. This is my personal opinion and some humble opinions.