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Why is the divorce rate very low in Chaoshan area?

The reasons for the low divorce rate in Chaoshan area are as follows: First, Chaoshan people think that the purpose of marriage is to "make friends with two surnames", and if divorce is to "make friends with two surnames". In Chaoshan area where family values are strong, it is very undesirable to have two surnames or feuds between two families. Therefore, when the family feelings in Chaoshan are in crisis, both the husband's family and the mother's family will try their best to persuade the two sides to live in harmony and put harmony first. Secondly, Chaoshan women are very patient. I have to admit that as far as Chaoshan area is concerned, the root of marriage problems mostly comes from men. Faced with her husband's fault, most Chaoshan women turn a blind eye and think: "Marriage is the life of husband and wife, no matter good or bad. So no matter what the reason, they don't want to divorce, and they won't agree to divorce their husbands. " Thirdly, Chaoshan parents have a strong sense of family responsibility. Divorce means personal liberation, but more importantly, divorce means the pain of the next generation. Therefore, for the sake of the next generation, Chaoshan parents refused to divorce from the bottom of their hearts. This is where Chaoshan people attach importance to rationality. In addition, divorce, whether male or female, is mostly regarded as a shameful thing, which will be widely criticized by public opinion and damage the reputation of in-laws, parents and families. Moreover, Chaoshan people have a weak legal concept. The so-called weakness is not because they don't know the law. Many people know the truth of "wanting a divorce lawsuit". However, out of boredom with lawsuits, most Chaoshan people will seek private relief under social ethics to mediate conflicts instead of divorce proceedings, which is also related to Chaoshan people's natural distrust of public power. ? 0? 2? 0? In addition, from one to the end is not one-way, but two-way. It is not only reflected in the wife's death from one wife, but also in the husband's death from one wife. That is to say, in Chaoshan area, except for a few people with prominent status and moral defects, most people adhere to monogamy, even in ancient times; Let alone in the local area. ? 0? 2