Is it possible to be a happy middle-aged person by living a life that you really like?

The ancients said: At thirty, you stand tall; at forty, you have no doubts; at fifty, you know your destiny.

When a person reaches his fifties, half of his life is over, and his past experiences are as vivid as yesterday.

However, the second half of life has truly begun. I have seen all kinds of things in the world, tasted all the ups and downs, and experienced the warmth and coldness of people's hearts. I have gradually seen through life, looked down on it, and tried my best to do my best. , work hard, but no longer insist on results.

Busy every day, busy here and there, what are you busy with?

When I was young, I heard that life is very long, so I always lived my life carelessly. I always felt that the days passed very slowly at that time, the days were always long, and the nights were always too lonely, as if we would never be together. You will never grow up, and you will never grow old in life.

Until one day, when I entered the society, I saw that things in the world were so hurried. For life and the future, I started a real busy life, looking for a job, finding a partner, buying a house, getting married and having children, and taking out car and house loans. , busy running around at work and at home, working hard, struggling hard, no matter how difficult the days are, no matter how hard life is, we grit our teeth and persevere, never daring to stop our busy pace.

Looking back suddenly, I have been busy for so many years, what kind of life have I been busy with? I haven’t accomplished a few big things, my dreams have not been realized, I have come and gone in a hurry, and I have no time to appreciate the scenery along the way. , there is no time to calm down and think about life. It seems that most of the time is busy, and too much time is wasted on the road of life.

At fifty, you should understand that you can’t mess around in life, do everything according to your ability, let your heart rest, and don’t step too hastily. In the second half of your life, you need to slow down, calm down, and take good care of yourself. Feel the world and enjoy life.

I say I’m tired every day, and I work so hard that I’m tired of what?

It is said that when people reach middle age, they are so tired. The heart is tired, the body is tired, the emotions are tired, life is tiring, the days are tiring, and life is tiring. In fact, the most tiring thing is the heart.

People are very tired, my heart is very tired, and I work so hard, for what? For life, for dreams.

On the road of life, we often think blindly, procrastinate, and do things we don’t like, which consumes our energy. We always feel that we are in the world and can’t help ourselves. You must know that life is not for endurance. Work is not for suffering. If you push yourself too hard and consume yourself too much, you will feel that life is too tiring.

When a person reaches fifty, his body is changing, but the road of life must always move forward. You cannot stop or turn around casually, because the top has responsibilities and the bottom has obligations. Life is on the left and right, and you cannot slack off. , you cannot give up, but you need to keep moving forward.

When you reach fifty, your heart is tired, but you have to understand the true meaning of life. This is life. If you are more calm and indifferent, you will not feel so tired.

Extramarital? True love?, love comes and goes, love for what?

Love outside of marriage means further disqualification, taking a step back, unwillingness to give in, entanglement comes and goes, the relationship is tortured, and the marriage is harmed.

The love at home has been worn away by the years, infected by the fireworks, and has gradually become dull, but it is full of rich life emotions. It is a day and night, day and night hand in hand and love. Those who have worked together need to join hands until they grow old and realize the vows made in the marriage hall: hold your child's hand and grow old together with your child.

Love outside marriage, even though it is passionate, hot and sweet, makes people infatuated and crazy, but doesn’t marriage also gradually change from passionate and hot to dull and watery?

When people reach middle age, too many extramarital relationships are just relationships of interest and money. The reality is very heartbreaking. The so-called true love is just a self-deceiving joke.

Instead of struggling to pursue the so-called "true love" and never forget the "love" outside marriage, it is better to cherish everything in front of you, don't lose the good partner who will accompany you till the end of your life, and don't hurt you. The rest of your life in old age.

Is it worth it to be kind to others and put your heart and soul into it?

As you go along in life, sometimes, what you exchange for sincerity is falsehood, what you exchange for heartache and lungs is heartbreak, and what you exchange for truth, kindness and beauty is fakeness, evil and ugliness. ?

Because, in this world, not everyone deserves your kindness to them, and some people do not deserve your kindness to them. Therefore, in the first half of my life, I have seen through human nature and read people's hearts. In the second half of my life, I have understood myself. How to live my life, and I also understand which people are worth dating and which people are not worth paying for.

When you reach fifty, remember to be kind to yourself and be cruel to those who don’t deserve it. Don’t let your kindness become a weapon for others to hurt you. Those ungrateful people in the world are not worthy of you. Please is not worth the trouble you have to make yourself.

Is it worth it to chase fame and money and lose your health?

Life depends on health. An unhealthy life will always have too many regrets and imperfections.

Many times, there is an illusion that we have not lived well, have not lived seriously, and are not ready to grow old, but suddenly we find that we have reached fifty in life and are no longer young and energetic. Young and arrogant.

In the past, I was so busy for life that I was sometimes so busy that I couldn’t even eat a mouthful of hot rice, drink a mouthful of hot water, or even go home. Over the years, in order to live, I have been busy. For the sake of the family, only I can understand the pain and tiredness in my heart.

However, when I am over fifty, my body is obviously not as good as before. The second half of my life is all about health. It doesn’t matter if I lose a good body. The rest of my life is very expensive and cannot be wasted casually. Cherish the time in the future even more, live well and live healthily.

When people reach middle age, they realize that money, fame and fortune can all be thrown away, but health cannot be thrown away. Without health, everything is in vain.

To know destiny at fifty is to obey destiny and do human affairs; after fifty, you must rely on your heart and enlightenment, face life calmly, face the world, face all the past in life, understand yourself, and wake up to life.