Some people say that "class reunion is rubbish from all sides". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?

A few years ago, several students in our class wanted to get together, and most of them still settled in the county town, and few of them went to work and live in other places. It is reasonable to organize them.

There are also secretaries of directors and deputy mayors among the students. Although there are not many outstanding people, the cosmetic use is still good. But why did it end in vain? Nothing more than: real leaders look down on these and only look up; Poor and not asking for it, classmates are embarrassed; Most of them are inferior to each other. Let's get together to eat and drink, brag, and break up. ...

Objectively speaking, class reunion is at least one of the most rubbish, if not the most rubbish.

To be realistic, I have always disliked attending homecoming, whether in college or high school. However, there is a lot of helplessness in life, and many times you don't like it and you can't solve the problem. Sometimes, you know it's a garbage party, but you still have to go.

Early last Saturday morning, just after breakfast, I was about to go out when my cell phone suddenly rang. A look is a high school classmate who works in D city.

Old classmates, some students from F city came over this afternoon, so you can take time to get together.

Before I could speak, the students in D City gave orders without hesitation, and even called the roll! Face is big enough.

After lunch, I had to drive from S city to D city. It was only an hour's walk. Because there were many cars on weekends, there were traffic jams everywhere and I ran for more than two or three hours.

Go and have a look. Those who play mahjong play mahjong, those who buy horses buy horses, and the remaining one or two have nothing to do but drink tea by themselves.

I can play mahjong, but I don't like to bet a hundred and twenty on a few horses. All the people who win or lose five or eight thousand a minute are classmates. It is not good to win, and it is even worse to lose.

At 7 o'clock in the evening, more than a dozen students finally arrived, and the dinner officially began.

As a result, almost all the topics were focused on the beauty of the school flower, and all the male students seemed to be admirers of the beauty of the school flower.

The beauty of the school flower seems to still enjoy it. In fact, the students all know that in the years after graduation, the life of the beauty of the school flower is not satisfactory, and everyone just tacitly understands it.

Just as the students were talking to each other in full swing. Students in D City suddenly came to a sentence: So many students in our class like beautiful students, but why didn't anyone marry her?

A word is like a bomb, which instantly blows up all the sounds. Everyone looked at each other a little and didn't know what to say at once.

Fortunately, student D was sharp-eyed and raised his glass. Come on, let's go together. * * * I wish beautiful students youth and beauty.

As a result, everyone clinked glasses with wine and toasted beautiful classmates, and the embarrassing situation finally ended.

Finally, after dinner, mahjong is better, people who buy horses continue to buy horses, and people who drink tea still drink tea. Conversation is still inseparable from the beauty of the school flower.

So I stayed until after ten o'clock in the evening. I really didn't want to stay any longer, so I got up to say goodbye and drove home.

This is the latest class reunion. In fact, every reunion before is similar. Almost no substance, no level of self-cultivation, no spiritual nutrition. This is better than competition and showing off. It really doesn't make much sense.

It's best not to attend the reunion. Why do you say that? If you attend the reunion, you should first think about whether you are doing well. Although the organizers of the reunion are well-intentioned, it is a good thing to organize a reunion that they haven't met for more than ten years or decades after graduation. The original intention of the organization is just to talk about the feelings of classmates, the nostalgia when studying, and the memory of the student life and campus feelings in the ivory tower when studying. But after getting together, you may not get this effect. Students who mix well may be uncomfortable and a little proud. To tell the truth, I am the worst among my classmates. It's not my first time to attend, not that I don't want to attend. In fact, I really want to attend and chat with my classmates I haven't seen for decades. Dozens of people have changed from teenagers to middle age, and I may not know them at first sight after decades. But because I didn't mix well, I didn't dare to attend. I had to face my classmates and teachers. Fortunately, I didn't attend, otherwise I would be ashamed. At school, some students were born cynical, and they remained so in their twenties. Fortunately, they have self-knowledge, so they didn't participate, and they didn't participate for the second time, and they won't join in the future. This kind of reunion will make people feel that it is not a party, but a show off. Bad students will feel uncomfortable only if they are cut off. It's better not to attend this self-defeating party. Stay away and let these mixed students show off.

Not exactly. Everyone has his own lifestyle and habits. Not in favor of reunion, or it will be over. Every day, many students come to the party from all directions. Don't people distinguish between good and bad! It's easy to sniff out your team by asking such questions. I really shouldn't.

This phenomenon may exist in society, but it cannot be generalized. Students in our class got together three times, the first time to the second time crossed 1 1 year, and the second time to the third time, with an interval of 3 years. There is no problem of showing off, we are very polite to each other, and we especially sympathize with students with poor family and poor health. One of them was blind, and everyone volunteered to help. After the party, form a group and go to the home of the classmates who can't attend the party respectively to visit the classmates who are in poor health in the local area. We are all retired people at our age. Although everyone's family image and economic income are different, the disparity is not particularly obvious. Everyone was restrained, and the party brought us a good mood.

Tell me about my class reunion!

I only started partying twenty or thirty years ago. I am embarrassed not to go to every classmate's date. I always say in advance who will pay the bill this time, just bring my stomach!

I'm actually the last person who likes lively parties, but I'm still popular at school, so I can't sincerely invite me not to go to every activity. I still don't drink. I am on pins and needles at every party. First, I don't like that you can't make dirty jokes, but some people can't drink without them! Second, I won't, I won't, and I don't like to brag, but someone drinks for this! Third, married and not young, I don't want to get too close to my female classmates. However, some people can't get together without female classmates, and they like to cater to them together. Fourth, every time someone gets drunk, send them home. The embarrassment of drunken family members and those of us who send people home is worse than being drunk!

Two days after a party, a female classmate asked my son if he had a girlfriend on WeChat. I said I don't know. He probably won't. She said I would introduce one. Of course I agreed politely, but I'm not worried about my son finding a girlfriend at all. Who knows what she said next? I can't answer the phone. I asked how many suites there are in our city. I said I didn't have much. She said that there was a girl who was very long and beautiful, and she asked for at least three houses in the city. Then she said that she also had a headache and was in poor health these days. Of course, you should express your condolences and ask what happened. She said that her daughter was admitted to four state-owned banks, and I don't know which one to go to. I was speechless for a while, but I ended the chat awkwardly and never got together again!

Think about your life!

Some people say that classmates' affection is the purest and truest of all emotions, so we should get together more. I'm 60 years old and never attend class reunion. I don't have a classmate's contact number in my mobile phone. Why? Judging from the experience after graduating from high school and college entrance examination.

When I was in middle school, I was a top student everywhere. I didn't expect to pass the college entrance examination for the first time! What a shame! I'm afraid to go out! The day after the results were announced, three of my best classmates came to my house. Two of them passed the exam and one failed. I was so moved that I immediately opened three bottles of soda and didn't want to drink it. When they came in, they said, what's wrong? Is it Tsinghua or the North? When is the treat?

They know I'm not online, unbelievable! Actually! Actually! How dare you say such things! I thought they came to comfort me, encourage me and teach me how to learn, but I didn't expect that! Actually! Actually! Only seventeen or eighteen years old! Young, incredibly! Actually! Actually! How vicious!

Dude, I didn't understand until I grew up. Don't talk about love. When you are unlucky and frustrated, it is all fake!

Because I have seen through many feelings, I have spent my main energy on work and study for decades, which is actually better than many students. You can buy more steamed buns for breakfast without any pressure!

Our class reunion is pure. Today is the 43rd anniversary of graduation from high school. For more than ten years, we have held homecoming every year. We all recall our life and study experiences as students, as well as our current living and health conditions. At the same time, we also provide advice and help to students with difficulties. We also attend class reunions in junior high schools and primary schools, and sometimes we are invited to attend students' class reunions, but we have never seen the behavior of jumping. This key depends on the ideological and moral quality of the participants, and the reunion of classmates cannot be generalized.

Identify, identify, identify: Say the important things three times.

It was in 2005 that our high school classmates met for the first time in three years, and it may be the last time! A classmate of the public security department in my class actually found the contact information of our classmates, and the notices were in place one by one. At the same time, establish a class qq group, and everyone will pay 500 yuan as the activity fee.

On the eve of the party, I contacted Fen, a classmate of Jiangyan, only to know that the male classmate in our front row in my class lives in huangqiao town, and his liver cancer is in its advanced stage. We met at Huangqiao Station that day and took fruit to the Xu family. Although we live in the town, the decoration in the room is very simple. My classmate is terminally ill and has no strength to speak. Look at him. He's thin. Fortunately, my classmate met a wife who loved him very much and stayed at the bedside all the time.

After the party, Fen gave me the party photo album. I listened to Fen talking about the party while looking through the photo album: there were 6 female students and 36 male students in the class, and the head teacher, his wife and several teachers brought four tables together. At that time, the party was initiated by two wealthy businessmen in Hainan. The purpose of the party is to discuss how to donate money to Xu. Most of the photo albums are light and shadow cups on the party table ... Fen said that the students seem to have endless words, endless feelings, endless songs and endless drinks ... No one mentioned Mr. Xu at all, and everyone didn't go back to the hotel until midnight to rest. The next day, the administrator told everyone that the party was 385 yuan per person, and the rest was given to Mr. and Mrs. Xu by the administrator representative! Finn is in the business of cake ingredients. By the way, he went to a party to promote his products, and the result has been there! Finn has been urging me to take our products!

I really don't understand what the real meaning of class reunion is. Are you showing off in front of old classmates, or are you going to continue your high school classmates for three years? If the purpose of this activity is to help xu teacher, then simply give him everyone's 500 yuan, and you will achieve your goal!

So: Homecoming is the most rubbish of all parties, and it is an appropriate description, I agree!

There are often classmates' parties. I get together with my classmates once a month, my colleagues at work and my old neighbors. Comrades get together once every two to three months, and more widely, they get together with classmates. More than forty students get together once every six months to recall their days in the countryside and have a New Year's Eve dinner. We started the AA system last year. Originally, I took turns to be the host, which is basically the case. There are still many such lively words, but the liquor is obviously reduced. In the past, male students wanted 4- 15 bottles, but now 3 bottles will do. It means that you are old and can't accept it! When classmates and friends get together, don't be snobbish, treat them equally! My temper is: get along together, be happy together, don't be narrow-minded, it hurts the true feelings of classmates, friends and neighbors! Friends, it is not easy to have a chance to live, so cherish it!