What does a person experience to suddenly mature or become wise?

My opinion: A person will suddenly mature or become wise only after experiencing great joy and great sadness. This is because after experiencing great joy and great sadness, you may have a thorough understanding. After thorough understanding, you often show sudden maturity, but suddenly become great wisdom, which should be difficult for ordinary people to do.

Great joy and great sorrow-fully realize great joy, here refers to the big surprise, which means that you have experienced the best and happiest things in your life.

Great compassion here refers to great compassion, which means that you have experienced the saddest and most painful thing in your life.

Why do people experience great joys and sorrows before they can fully understand?

This is mainly because this experience of great joy and great sorrow has given us strong stimulation and even impact, which makes us rethink, doubt, deny or even overthrow our own values, outlook on life and world outlook.

After experiencing strong winds and heavy rains, we will appreciate and feel the beauty of gentle winds and drizzles.

Only after experiencing ups and downs can we have the experience to deal with the impermanence of the world.

When we are in great joy and great sorrow, we can only recognize our true selves when we calm down.

In the ups and downs, we will distinguish between true and false friends when facing the facts.

In great joy, we will be extremely excited and cry with joy-great joy is silent and great love is silent.

When we are in great sorrow, we will be heartbroken and want to cry without tears-great sorrow without tears and enlightenment without words.

It can be said that because great joy and great sadness touch our souls, we may suddenly wake up.

Therefore, great compassion will enlighten us, of course.

So, we suddenly matured, as if people suddenly grew up and began to understand.

Shi Yuzhu fully realized that Shi Yuzhu's youth was successful. After a series of failures, he became the "first poor man" in China with a debt of 250 million yuan, but he finally rose again with his "brain platinum" and "journey", which is a legend in China business circles.

When the company was in crisis, Shi Yuzhu was faced with a very helpless situation and suffered a great blow.

From 65438 to 0997, debt-ridden Shi Yuzhu felt that life was worse than death. With this contempt for life and death, he climbed Mount Everest.

When I went down the mountain, it was getting dark, lost in the glacier, exhausted and difficult to breathe. Shi Yuzhu felt that he was dying step by step, and was finally rescued by the rescue team.

After coming down from Mount Qomolangma, he felt that he had died once, thus feeling the preciousness of life.

At this moment, he was depressed and looked down upon, just like ordinary people, but he finally understood the meaning of life. He completely looked down on life and death, reflected on his failure, regained the courage to start a business again and decided to make a comeback.

It was his unforgettable experience of finally climbing Mount Everest that made Shi Yuzhu enlightened.

Shi Yuzhu clearly realized that his past failures were all caused by his hot head and underestimating the difficulties.

After coming out of the mountain again, whether it is melatonin, Journey, or shares in Huaxia and Minsheng Bank, it has done very steadily and beautifully.

After Shi Yuzhu's success, he kept a low profile, did not cause trouble, and did not expand. Pay close attention to the situation and relax. It reflects his superb insight, as well as the big pattern and great wisdom he already has.

Conclusion How to see the rainbow without experiencing ups and downs, and how to know life without experiencing ups and downs.

How to enjoy without experiencing great joy and cherish without experiencing great sadness.

Experienced, can precipitate the harvest. It is a kind of luck to meet it.

If you figure it out, you will make continuous progress. If you see through it, you can increase your wisdom.

Life goes through the turmoil of great joy and great sorrow, and then it can grow up with great enlightenment.

Since then, we have become smarter: with vision and height; With thinking, there is depth.

Since then, we have become completely different: we have pursuit, courage, goal and motivation.

Since then, we have become smart: with brains, we have a pattern; Have insight and strategy.

Maturity needs more experience, and wisdom needs more hardships.

We should and need:

Meet the ups and downs in life calmly and walk through the ups and downs in the years easily.

Face the joys and sorrows of life calmly and bear the ups and downs of life bravely.

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The trigger of every event in the process of spiritual practice will make a person move from naivety to maturity, and the events that touch the soul will make people wise and enlightened.

The eagle can only roam the sky after being tempered by the storm. Babies who have just learned to stand can only understand the balance of their bodies after falling down and learn to walk in a balanced way.

The road of life is full of countless unpredictable dangers and hardships. Only by bravely facing the reality and practicing can we gradually mature.

Everyone longs for a smooth life. In fact, nine times out of ten, the course of life is unsatisfactory. No matter whether you are born in an imperial noble family or a poor family, you have to go through different life practices to realize your own life value independently.

On the road of life, after learning from one thing, maturity is tempered countless times. It is the accumulation of a person's usual knowledge and ability. After experiencing an unexpected event that touched the soul, he suddenly became mature and had great wisdom.

There is not much difference between normal people except congenital genes. In the course of life, due to the different social cognition and acceptance of events, the acquired differences are caused.

Some people become insensitive after all kinds of unexpected events, and some people experience different events, from which they will sum up experiences and lessons, realize the true meaning of life, and then suddenly become mature and have great wisdom.

It is not easy to take the road of life. We should face the reality, adjust our mentality at any time and deal with unforeseen events that have happened or will happen soon.

In prosperity, there is no difference between people. People only appear in adversity.

In what kind of adversity? That is, despair, but not everyone will experience things that will be mature and wise.

This is related to a person's cognition. In Jiang Erlang's view, it is very important to grasp two paths if you want to gain wisdom through some experiences.

Rule number one: experience despair!

The second one: there is expert advice!

Why go through a desperate situation? Because despair not only makes you psychologically mature, but also makes you awake.

See yourself clearly, see others clearly, and finally improve yourself. This is an opportunity to bottom out. Many things are done by people, and so are failures.

The reason why awesome people stand out is that they persist for one minute longer than the average person in a desperate situation, because one minute may bring you opportunities.

Because of desperation, your life experience will also deepen and become a bargaining chip for your life to turn over. We often talk about this truth.

A friend of mine, before starting a business, was impetuous. Later, due to investment mistakes, the debt was 1 more than ten thousand, and it was faced with dunning from all directions. Every day, his life is worse than death.

Later, after adjustment, I worked hard and worked for more than ten hours a day, earning tens of thousands from the past to the present. The point is that this person is calmer than before, and he is not as good as before.

Next, let's look at the second path. Why do you need expert advice? Not everyone has a good understanding, many people are facing some difficulties, and it is easy to fall into the misunderstanding of thinking.

No matter physically or psychologically, there is no chance and condition to fight back again. Just like Lin Yufeng and Liu Bing in heaven are such examples!

Faced with this situation, it's hard to see why this happened, and it's hard to know what to do next without the help of nobles and the guidance of experts to improve his cognition. Form a vicious circle over time!

For example, it is best to understand that no matter what state you are in at present, you must go somewhere. In the process of going, I need to call some passers-by or consult some passers-by because I am not familiar with the road conditions and other uncertain factors.

The process of going again is your experience due to various factors, and consulting some people is expert advice. By combining the two, you can reach your destination more easily, and the next time someone comes to you, you can help others solve their problems.

Just like the drama from heaven, whether it is Ouyang Xue, Han Chufeng or Xiao, including Wang Miao Village, without the guidance of Ding Yuanying, they would not have this opportunity in the stock market and poverty alleviation projects.

To sum up: the more you experience, the more people you contact, and a virtuous circle will be formed over time, and then you will become more and more mature and smarter.

The above sharing hopes to help those who see it. This problem is definitely not that complicated. Just grasp these two points, because I have been there before, that's all.