What kind of mood is it to be looked down upon?

What kind of mood is it to be looked down upon? To tell you the truth, I am a real person. I am an indomitable person, especially at school, and I get zero or four or five points in every exam. Every time the teacher announces my score, the whole class laughs. Because I got another big zero, the whole class laughed, and I couldn't help laughing. The teacher criticized me and scolded me. You have no sense of shame. Want a face? Smile if you have a face. Go crouch behind the door. Every time, the teacher scolds me from time to time. You don't go to school well now, and you have no future when you grow up. You are a slave's life. You must beat the calf in the field and plant it for a lifetime. I'll never get a wife in my life. You are a beggar, and you have to starve to death. Every time the teacher criticizes me, he scolds me or says me. I never took it to heart. Because going to school can't change fate. Can't people come into this world without going to school? Do you have to starve to death if you don't go to school? Slave if you don't go to school? If you don't go to school, can't you really marry a wife? Every time I listen to the teacher say this to me. I feel that what the teacher said is ridiculous and unreasonable. So when I was in primary school, I always felt disgusted. I dropped out of school before I finished the third grade. To tell the truth, I am still the richest man in our local countryside. Every time I go back to my hometown, I smile when I see my teacher. I took out a cigarette for the teacher at the first time, and the teacher was very happy to see me. To tell the truth, without the anger, ridicule and contempt of the teacher, I might not have today's glory. I sincerely thank my teacher and wish him good health in his later years.

In this world, some people say it is good and others say it is looked down upon by others. As long as you don't care, it's okay to pretend not to exist. Mouth grows on others, say whatever you want.

But if you want a good life, you have to work hard to make money.

When you make money, people who looked down on you before will come to you. Do you believe it or not? But on this premise, we must be able to earn much more money than his, so we will. I am a treasure mother, and I have experienced being looked down upon by others before. But I have children. I have no choice but to work hard for my children. I turn a deaf ear to other people's opinions and don't care. Or go in one ear and out the other. People who looked down on me before have come to curry favor with me now, because I used to be on the same level as him. But I work hard to earn a well-off life for my children. I am satisfied to grow up with my children again.

Everyone has different fireworks. When we are depressed, there are always some people or things that make our mood plummet, but life has to go on, and we must work hard to live. At this moment, we will make up our minds to turn our despised feelings into motivation to inspire our hearts and make ourselves stronger.

I remember when I first started working, I found an industry selling electrical appliances. Many elites in the sales industry see that they sell many things every day. Many customers buy things as if they don't want money every day. They can let customers take things away, whether they have money or not. Customers who don't have money deliver goods to their homes to withdraw money. As long as they come in, they will not go out empty-handed. I'm confused. I didn't know how to wear it back and forth among the customers who came in at first.

However, I found a secret, that is, they always smile, and they should constantly learn the functions of machines and master the characteristics of each machine. One day, there were many people, and the leader just came to inspect. When you see someone else busy, tell me at once that you ate for nothing, which makes me feel bad. I was inspired by that sentence in the afternoon.

Let me have a profound lesson in my later life. My sales start here. So far, I have taken that sentence as my encouragement and encouragement. I am very grateful to the leaders, and I am even more grateful to those who look down on me in this life. Thank you, without their contempt, we can have today's achievements, and I thank all the encounters.

I just graduated and interviewed a teacher in a remedial class. The interviewer didn't think I was suitable for this position, so I went in. He thinks I look too kind and soft-tempered to be a teacher. My first reaction was speechless and a little choked up. Although it looks soft, I still have my own way to get along with students, so I am doomed if I don't talk, which is a bit helpless. There is also the college exam, which usually doesn't look very good. As a result, in a formal exam, I passed and they failed. They said that people like you can still live? At that time, my heart was very complicated. Although I didn't like acting very much at ordinary times, it didn't mean that I was poor. It's hard to be looked down upon, but try to be stronger in the future!

What kind of mood is it to be looked down upon?

First of all, thank you very much for your invitation. This kind of mood can be said to be mixed and very uncomfortable, because no matter in life or at work. We always meet some people. They talk and act. Always look down on us. What we want to do most at this time is to hide far away. Still really want to find a gap to drill down. Yes, this is everyone's normal psychology and reaction. I remember when I first married my husband, my mother-in-law looked down on me. Let me do all the work. My eldest sister-in-law, parents-in-law let me serve. And don't give a good face. Mr. Wang doesn't know. Speak for me. I was particularly desperate at that time. I once told him about it, and he even said, "This family should have been served by you." I really felt helpless at that time. Even, I have been cooking for them during pregnancy. I also wash my own clothes. Now that I think about it, I really don't know why I was so strong. But then I really didn't want to live like this anymore. I will resolutely live apart from them. Although they will still nag and say some unpleasant things about me, I don't care at all. Because if a person wants to change his view of others. You have to change your situation first. Later, I studied writing hard. There are all kinds of blows and sarcasm. But I don't care. Later, slowly, you can have a little manuscript fee. At this time, I found that their attitude has changed. So I want to say that when others treat you as worthless, finding ways to make yourself valuable is the best counterattack. I wish everyone who sees it can become strong. Finally, good luck to everyone.

Mature people are looked down upon, and their self-esteem will be hit, but with the growth of age and the deepening of experience, they will gradually look down on everything and their mentality will be peaceful. I always have something better than others, find my own advantages and learn from each other's strengths. If someone looks down on me, they can just say, "I just can't do it in this respect."

When my father was young, two uncles were in business. My father didn't talk about farming at home and gave birth to four daughters, which must be looked down upon by the villagers.

When I grew up, I asked my father, "Why did I have a younger brother under such difficult conditions?"

"Look up." Father sighed: "I don't think so now." Who says I'm incompetent? Just say so. I just don't have the ability to make a big career, but I planted good crops. " Who said I wouldn't feel ashamed when I gave birth to my daughter? I trained all my daughters. "

So being looked down upon by others, not by others, but by ourselves.

Who can look down on us without our own permission?

The attitude of others being looked down upon depends entirely on ourselves. As long as we don't let ourselves be looked down upon, we will always have a broad vision! ! !

Believe in yourself! ! !

I always remember what a colleague once said to me: Who is better than you?

This sentence has been hidden in my heart until now.

At present, both my children have been admitted to the university, and they are independent and confident.

My husband and I get along well and are very happy. I think this way of getting along suits me very well. We care about each other and help each other solve problems when necessary or necessary.

Everyone has their own independent space, and when they are not together, they do what they like, not because of some trivial things in life.

My colleague who once looked down on me is having an affair with her husband, having an affair with a local tyrant, and her husband is unable to divorce her, so he hangs on. Even so, she still bossed her husband around, looking unreasonable and embarrassed.

Some people say that 30 years in the east and 30 years in the west, that is to say, the passage of time will change a person in the changes of the world, and even change the fate of a person's life.

Ten years ago, I just graduated and was assigned to a better institution in our county. At that time, there were many girls, and there were many things between them. Now that I think about it, it was all fleeting, but I really enjoyed it at that time.

The standards of being a man are different, and the bottom line of being a man is different. Some people specialize in progress, some people value themselves, some people are willing to join others to form small groups, and few people really manage themselves to cultivate their own self-cultivation.

After more than ten years of life, some people's surface aura has been quietly faded by the waves, but the essence of life left behind allows us to see their respective States.

People who have problems with the three views often go to extremes, and the standards for seeing problems are different.

Even now, the colleague who once looked down on me still thinks his life is the best. She hasn't thought about what she will do in the future. The child is already a teenager. How does she explain her behavior to her children? Have you ever thought that what you do is likely to be looked down upon by children? Or is it because it affects the future of children?

And I, who was looked down upon by her, was always calm and plain. Maybe I don't look vigorous to her, but in recent years I have been as calm as water and look down on everything. I don't think everything is as happy as myself and my family.

It will also be envied by many people, saying that my child is sensible and independent, that I get along well with my husband, and that I am too worry-free. These are the fruits of my own entrepreneurship over the years.

I know I live my own life. I don't ask questions.

As for what the process looks like, we can only see it after practice.

No matter how people live, they must have a correct self-concept, so that children's education as children can last for a long time and they can see the good state of their children when they mature more than ten years later; See what kind of life you want to live in your family life.

So one person's conclusion is not something that another person has the right to make, but it often reflects one's accomplishment.

People who are looked down upon by others should not be discouraged. As long as you have a strong heart, an upward belief, an upward spirit and strength, you will be what live high wants. Sunshine and confidence.

I am a psychology major. Let me answer this question. To be honest, I am often looked down upon. I once felt that I was nothing. Undergraduate garbage, graduate student, now give up studying for a doctorate and live a shallow life as a first-line oil producer. I have been reflecting and remembering. I also keep admitting my past mistakes. First of all, I chose to play hard when I should study hard, and I didn't get into a good school. Secondly, I overdraw my body and play games in Internet cafes all night. Finally, sometimes I am young and frivolous, too proud and self-abased, and don't care about my relatives and friends around me. Telling others all these questions along the way will be looked down upon by others. However, when I look back on my journey, I also have a lot of pride and many good honors. So, I will smile and say to myself, "You may be looked down upon by others, but it doesn't matter, you also have your pride".

There is no doubt that people who look down on others have quality problems, and he himself is not that good. People with real ability and quality will not look down on others. We won't discuss this for the time being. From our own point of view, it is certainly uncomfortable to be looked down upon. But we should also realize that others look down on you, which means that you must be looked down on. When you realize that others look down on you, what you have to do is not to become angry from embarrassment, nor to be indifferent. Instead, you should reflect on yourself, find out the reasons why you are looked down upon, and then stand on your own feet and change yourself, so that you can become excellent and powerful, and make those who look down on you feel ashamed and regret. My brother's family used to be in a small town, but later they came to the city. His child has just entered junior high school. They come from a small place, have never seen the world, dress a little rustic, and will not be liked by teachers. His teacher looked down on him. The child felt the teacher's indifference. In order to make the teacher change his mind, he studied hard and ranked in the top three in his class. He took an active part in various school activities and gained a good reputation among his classmates. When developing league members, the opinion poll was unanimous, but the teacher said in front of the students: to develop league members, we can't just look at academic performance. I just didn't let him join the league. After the child came back, he was particularly depressed. Grandma was very angry when she heard about it and wanted to talk to the teacher. But the child said, forget it, didn't the teacher look down on me? One day I made her regret it. From then on, he worked harder and was admitted to a key high school with the third place in the whole school. Later, his college entrance examination score was 65 1, and he was admitted to Fudan University with the first place in science. Now the young man has a successful career. Once he attended a class reunion, the teacher also went. He pretended that nothing had happened. I asked him: You didn't tell the teacher about that year? He said: it is not necessary. It's not worth mentioning now. I admire the child's mind.

There are quite a few times when people look down on me. After all, I'm not that kind of person.

For example, if you interrupt, people don't understand at all. For example, if you say that you have danced before and won a place in a speech contest, people will look at you with embarrassment, and then they will soon ignore you and continue chatting and joking with others.

When you are looked down upon, most of the time you want to live up to your expectations and try to be better. In the final analysis, it is because you are too weak that you will be looked down upon.

Bai and I came to work at the same time. Now I belong to the forgotten people, so I am dispensable. When you come early, you will take the initiative to strike up a conversation and actively integrate into the group. Later, they even ignored me, so I stayed quietly in the office to stir up all kinds of things, read novels and watch TV.

And Bai became good friends and best friends with them.

Being looked down upon is because there is a gap. Work hard, don't respect you for others, just ask yourself to speak and walk with confidence.