Is it always a good thing to be famous?

Recently, the second season of "Braving the Wind and Waves" started broadcasting, and I watched two episodes in the evening because I was bored.

In this episode, two sisters, An Youqi and Allen, caught my attention. Because these two sisters have an obvious label: debut is the peak. This sentence seems brilliant, but I don't think it is necessarily a good thing. Because debut is the peak, that is to say, even if it doesn't go downhill after debut, there is no breakthrough.

I'm not familiar with Allen's sister. After finishing her initial grading, Hua Du said in the judging room: If Allen wasn't lazy, he would have a different life now. This sentence gives me the feeling that Allen should be a more powerful figure. Later, I also searched her experience. At the age of 2/kloc-0, he was signed by Aihui, the largest record company in Asia, and made his debut in Japan. At that time, many famous songwriters composed and wrote lyrics for her, and the songs she sang were once on the Japanese charts. It can be said that she reached the height of life that ordinary people can't reach when she was very young.

And sister An Youqi, who turned out to be the first super girl champion, surprised me. Because I often watch Super Girl when it's hot, I have an impression on my sister Baby Zhang (not influenced by the first season of Braving the Wind and Waves), but I really have no impression on my sister An Youqi.

I'm a little confused and don't quite understand why this phenomenon occurs. I remember Zhang Ailing saying that it's time to become famous, but what's the use of becoming famous so early? Sisters like Alan and An Youqi who became famous early, at least so far, reached their peak when they debuted, and have been going downhill ever since. So it's really a good thing to be famous early? Not necessarily.

I think we should seize the opportunity to become famous, not catch it early. If your ability doesn't match the coffee table, even if I give you a supreme honor now, it will soon disappear in people's hearts.

People need to grow up and go through enough tempering. Suffer enough in a long time, and then slowly precipitate the gained experience into your own strength. If a person succeeds without too much effort, he will naturally think that success is hard-won, and he will not study hard in the later days, leading to a continuous decline in life.

Therefore, the best time to become famous is after you have experienced all the failures, sadness, happiness, pain, helplessness and doubts. At that time, your mind has become mature, your talent and ability coexist, you are no longer afraid to face difficulties, and most things can be faced calmly.

Some people may think that early fame is equivalent to a good start. As the saying goes, a good start is half the battle. But you should know that this is only half the success, not all the success, and the remaining half is the key to success. If you have no ability and can't persist hard, then the first half is nothing. Because there are not many shortcuts in life, sooner or later, you have to suffer. What you left behind in the past will be made up for you in countless ways in the future.