Who do witnesses usually look for?

Who do witnesses usually look for? Let's go and see if the officiating person is a man or a woman, and what kind of talents the witness is looking for.

First, who do witnesses usually look for?

1. When choosing a witness, you must make preparations in advance to avoid the situation that the witness cannot be present on the wedding day for some reason, so be prepared. This witness had better choose a person who is close to his family or the man's family, trust him more and feel more at ease.

2. In addition to finding witnesses some time in advance, the same is true of marriage discourse. Draw up and arrange wedding words in advance for the selected witness, so that he can spend more time getting familiar with them, and ensure that the embarrassing situation on the wedding day can be expressed smoothly without making jokes; There is also the need to control the time not to be too long, otherwise it will give people the feeling of nagging.

3. Although the witness is not the main role, it is also an important person after the maid of honor and the best man, so the witness should dress appropriately and generously. If conditions permit, the couple can prepare a set for the witness in advance.

Second, is the married person a man or a woman?

The host refers to the host of the wedding, and it has always been the man's parents who play this role. So the wedding ceremony is held by the man, but with the development of the times, more and more men's families choose to hire the wedding ceremony, so the wedding ceremony is held by the man.

Under normal circumstances, the elders in the man's family will be chosen as the wedding officiator. Say some blessings or suggestions to the couple at the wedding.

Of course, if it is discussed, it is ok for the woman to go out. Now that the society is open, there are not so many rules and regulations, as long as the two sides reach an understanding.

Third, what kind of person is the witness looking for?

1. Company leaders

Most newcomers have the following considerations: First of all, letting leaders be witnesses is an opportunity for leaders to show their faces, and ordinary leaders are willing to do it. I feel that my subordinates will give him face and increase my impression of the new person, and I will take care of him a little later in the unit.

Secondly, speaking in this crowded situation is also the strength of leaders. To put it bluntly, it is "done", and the leaders are all people who have seen the scene. In this case, it is also the safest choice to let the leaders come forward, and there will be no mistakes and tension.

Disadvantages: If the relationship between units is complicated and there are several leaders with similar positions attending the wedding, it is necessary to be very careful which leader to choose.

2. elders

Second, many people's elders are also very happy about it. Because it is a very happy thing to watch your younger generation get married and start a family.

Moreover, as a family member, they generally know more about new people, and what they say will be full of love, which can set off a warm atmosphere.

However, the elders may not let go of their leaders, especially the older ones, and their thinking and adaptability may not be so clear, so they are easy to be silent.

Disadvantages:

(1) Old people generally have a limited educational level, usually stay in one place, and their dialects are serious.

(2) Old people may have poor memory, be nervous when going on stage, and forget words more easily. This situation should be very careful, on the other hand, it also increases the burden on the elderly.

(3) There are many elders in the family, so we must deal with them well, and it is easy to offend other elders carelessly.