It’s been half a month since I returned to my parents’ home. My child’s father hasn’t even called me. I have a tough temper and he won’t hit me. I called him one day and asked him where he was and wha

It’s been half a month since I returned to my parents’ home. My child’s father hasn’t even called me. I have a tough temper and he won’t hit me. I called him one day and asked him where he was and what he was doing. He said

1. Why did you go back to your parents’ house for half a month and act so arrogant? Conflict? This isn't the first time! (This is your last resort!!!) But now that the matter has come to this, we have to find a way to get closer

2. If you have a stubborn temper, you have no bottom line and no principles. What does it mean to go back to your parents’ home: I won’t live with you. Already? Can this really solve the problem? You should know that this just puts the problem on hold and does not solve it

3. Any conflict between two people has problems, especially between husband and wife, and you ran away from home first Yes, although you are returning to your parents' home, you still don't believe that you and your husband have children, and you are still willful. It's okay between husband and wife, but you are obviously being unreasonable!

4. Now you begin to distrust each other! You suspect him of cheating, but he doesn't believe you when you say that the child is really sick, and thinks that you want to use the child to block this conflict. In his opinion, he just walked back by himself!

Even if your husband cheated on you, why? Do you think he is the only one who is disloyal? However, it was you who gave such an opportunity to make room for you. Who should you blame? Maybe you should take revenge

5. As mentioned above, remember not to argue about right or wrong. It is just a poor way of handling the problem!

6. The first priority is to ensure that your child is safe and sound. Originally, the child can enjoy the care of his parents, but you have made him lose his father for half a month for no reason. This is unfair. ! No matter what you have, even if it is a big thing, the child must be safe and unaffected by you!

7. If you continue like this, one day you will not be able to come back even if you want to, and then your children will have psychological shadows throughout their lives and be afraid of love and marriage

8 , your husband just thought of a way to punish you and return to your parents' home. You have been like this too many times, think about it! If you are your husband and your daughter-in-law has gone back to her parents' home for half a month, no matter what you say to anyone, others will know that you have quarreled again. Besides, it is a matter between two people. If you go back to your parents' home once, your parents' family will treat your husband badly. No matter how you look at it, how do the people in the same village think about it, they will laugh at him, but that is your husband, do you love him? Do you love a home run by two people, but do you always let your home be gossiped about? Your children are still small now, but they are now grown up! If there is a problem, the two of you can deal with it quietly. It is not a matter of principle. If you go back to your parents' house every time, it will only make the problem bigger. Although you find that it works the first time, it is because he loves you. , he is the father of your child and your husband - but you are always like this. He has no self-esteem and no ideas. When he has no face, he will still come to pick you up because he loves you, but when he starts to treat you He is speechless, speechless, and being laughed at. Do you think he won't do something?

You can’t just be allowed to go back to your parents’ home without allowing him to resist

9. Even if he really cheats, you deserve it. But you have a child, and you have to think carefully about whether you want to raise the child together! Fifteen days, even if it started after you got married, she will never be the "major wife". Since you are so stubborn (at best, she is your husband's adult tool, or a sexual partner to put it nicely, but not to that point), you must be able to think of it. Get your child's father back!

10. Evidence must be mastered and used with caution!

A. When the child is able to go out, take him home. When the child is well, admit your mistake about returning to your parents’ home and express your attitude. As for the previous ones, don’t bother with them anymore. If you want to deal with them: God Why did we arrange for you two to meet, stay together, get married and have children!

B. To express your stance, you can send him a text message telling him: Husband, I’m sorry, I didn’t take good care of the child. The child was sick, and I was anxious and didn’t know what to do, but the first thing I thought of was to call you. Although you didn’t come to pick me up, I knew you thought I was teasing you, and I’m not angry with you. On this day, I realized that my future life cannot be without you, and my child cannot be without his father's love. You see, he is acting like a spoiled child in these few days. Let's live a good life and never do this again, okay?

Girls should be careful and write a love letter to their husband. It's like falling in love.

————This is retreat in order to advance!

C. If your husband responds in time, you can live a good life and don’t mention the past. So many storms in life have passed, and there are still so many difficulties that you need to face together. , while loving your children, don’t neglect loving your husband. Every man needs love, especially after breastfeeding. Most men are psychologically disfavored. (In love and marriage, women should actively guide each other, especially after marriage, don’t worry about trivial matters, don’t wait, ask for love from your husband, there is nothing shameful about it)

D. Even if you are slow or unresponsive for a long time, you should still give him some reaction time, or simply exceed it, let him relax, and catch him. This really does not need to be taught. The question is, do you want to use love to win him back, or use means to get him back? A child without normal parental love depends on both of you. As long as he doesn't mention divorce, life will continue as usual, just let him fall in love with you, fall in love, and love your children.