After marriage, women "associate closely" with other men, and husbands choose to forgive them many times. Why?

There is a 40-year-old woman in Henan who has been married to her husband for many years. During this period, she put countless green hats on her husband and was caught by her husband many times dating other men in the hotel. However, the woman still refused to change her mind and her husband chose to forgive her. In this regard, the husband said that for the sake of family and children, he chose to forgive his wife. He loved his wife very much and didn't want to divorce, so he always endured it.

The husband forgave his wife many times for his family and children. Mr. Zhang married his wife Xu Li for 65,438+06 years. They have a son aged 65,438+02. Over the years, his wife has given him countless green hats. Mr. Zhang has become a joke, but for the sake of his family and children, he still chooses to forgive.

Mr. Zhang said that his wife Xu Li worked in a nightclub before she got married. They met through friends. Because her wife is beautiful and she likes her very much, their feelings are still very good after marriage. Mr. Zhang herself said that she was fine. As long as the wife wants it, she will try her best to satisfy it.

It's just that Xu Li often travels. Married for a year, she often goes to other places, and she is afraid to ask. Once her wife came back from a trip and said she was pregnant. The whole family was very happy and she became a treasure. After giving birth to a son, my wife still goes out as often as before, sometimes staying home for days and nights. Teacher Zhang also advised us to live a good life for our children. You should not go out often, but Xu Li said, if you don't let me go out, then we will divorce.

Of course, Mr. Zhang disagrees. Although there are too many machines, Teacher Zhang thinks more. He wants to give his children a complete home. For the sake of his family, Mr. Zhang put up with it.

My wife is even worse. She often dates other men in hotels. Once Mr. Zhang saw a message on her mobile phone. The other party said that the hotel had been booked, sent the time and address, and his wife went out, saying that she would not come back for a few days, took something and left. Mr. Zhang followed him to the hotel. After knocking at the door, a man opened the door and entered the room, only to find his wife lying naked in bed, but he didn't panic when he saw himself appear.

The wife said directly, since you found out, let's get a divorce and I'll go back in a few days. Faced with his wife's indifferent attitude, this is not the time for 1. There were many embarrassing scenes, but his wife didn't seem to think she had done anything wrong. On the contrary, Mr. Zhang has been enduring it. In the face of his wife's repeated divorce, Mr. Zhang will even stay, saying that for the sake of children and family, he can't divorce.

The husband loves his wife very much. In fact, he doesn't want a divorce because of his family and children. More importantly, Mr. Zhang really loves his wife. After all, they have been married for more than ten years. Although his wife has made many mistakes, Mr. Zhang still loves her very much. Not to mention Xu Li actually has a beautiful figure, tall and delicate. After marrying such a wife, Mr. Zhang is still very decent outside, but his wife has given him countless green hats. Mr Zhang Can can only crush his teeth and swallow it. Nobody can tell him. After all, this is a disgraceful thing. How could he tell anyone?

Therefore, because Mr. Zhang loves his wife very much, even if he made such a mistake, he still chose to forgive him. Such a man is really stupid. He thinks that his sincerity can win his wife's change of heart. In my opinion, this is impossible. There has been no change for so many years, but it has intensified. My wife doesn't care about Mr. Zhang's feelings. Even if she is found cheating, she doesn't panic at all. This shows that his wife doesn't care about him at all.

The author's information is the same as domestic violence. There is only the difference between zero and countless times. Don't think that if you are sincere to him, he will change his mind. It is out of the question. Just like Xu Li, she has always been addicted to cheating, especially after marriage. In fact, I suspect that her child is not Mr. Zhang's own. I wonder if teacher Zhang has any questions? Or did he also consider that the child may not be his own, but he didn't have the courage to verify it?

In my opinion, it is meaningless for Mr. Zhang to keep this marriage. Xu Li doesn't care about this family, and he doesn't care about Mr. Zhang and his son. Why else would she do such a thing many times? What's the point of keeping a woman who is irresponsible to her family and doesn't even consider her own children? Her mind is not here, leaving people here, just an empty shell.

Mr. Zhang might as well cut the gordian knot and cut off this relationship directly to make himself less painful. Having such a mother is also very unfavorable to the growth of children. If it is really for the family and children, divorce is the best choice.