What topics should boys talk about when chasing girls?

What is the way of thinking of people who are particularly good at chatting?

1. Elementary Chapter - "Induced Chatting Method"

To put it bluntly, if you want to learn how to chat well, you must first learn to "shut up".

Many people, especially boys, have a deep misunderstanding about chatting:

“If you think you know everything and can talk eloquently, then you can’t talk to girls. Chatting will definitely not be a problem."

The result? When you are chatting with girls, you become an "annoying chatterbox". You chat about random things. When you meet a girl with a good temper, you will echo an emoticon or a modal word. When you meet a girl with a bad temper, you will directly Give you a smile, or stop talking at all.

Why is this?

Because your "coolness" when chatting is all based on the girl's tastelessness. You don't know what the girl wants to talk about and you can't grasp the girl's emotional point. Naturally, you feel like you Chatting, but in the eyes of girls, you are just talking nonsense.

For boys with this kind of jumping thinking, if you constantly throw topics that make them indifferent to each other, the other party will use their brain cells to answer you. If the other person is not interested in you at all, this awkward chat method will cause the other person great psychological discomfort.

Therefore, the "Induced Chat Method" chat method allows you to be a "listener" in the chat, transfer the initiative of the chat to the girl, and appropriately lead the topic according to the girl's emotions. Let girls feel interesting when chatting with you without being embarrassed.

①"Hi, southern girl~" "How do you know?"

"Because your circle of friends is very emotional, and southern girls are very soft and delicate in mind~"

②"Hi~ I haven't met you in the restaurant for a long time" "Hey, I have no appetite recently"

"What's the matter? Is there anything bothering you recently?"

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③"I have recently raised a cat, and I want to ask you something." "How did you know that I also have a cat?"

"Look at all the kittens on your desk. "Pendant, I guess you must be a competent shit shovel~"

Remember: extract the topics that a girl wants to talk about from her information points, and at the same time make reasonable guesses and induce out More information points for the other party.

At this time, it doesn’t matter whether you guessed correctly or not, because your opening remarks have already induced the other party’s desire to chat. If you guessed correctly, the conversation will continue with you. If you guessed wrong, it will not matter. I will explain the reason to you with a smile.

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You cannot forcefully lead the pace of the chat. Instead, you can induce the answer through an easy topic. This will not expose your strong purpose of chatting, and can also stimulate the other party to continue chatting with you. desire.