Wang Zhenbiao's aversion to "parental love" obliterated Zhang Guiying's efforts. What would you do?

If there were to be a vote in the audience, who would be the most annoying character in Parents' Love?

Wang Zhenbiao!

It must be him. Who else?

Although Jiang Defu and I are working partners and live next door, it is obvious that Jiang Defu is not close to him, but keeps a superficial friendship. Compared with natural relatives like Mrding who are fond of joking and drinking, they are far behind.

Why? It's not just because Wang Zhenbiao has a personality problem. When I was at work, I went online to sort out other people's black materials, broke up the marriage between Mrding and Ge Meixia in the name of the organization, and even accused Jiang Defu of his childish behavior of leading dogs to wear military uniforms. Especially the daughter-in-law died soon after she got sick, and she married Ge in a hurry, which was ugly.

Wang Zhenbiao's attitude towards his original wife Zhang Guiying is really chilling.

On one occasion, he and Lao Jiang came home from work. First, he met an angel who was carrying water. Jiang Defu hurriedly "flatter":

"You are not let wei carry water? Why are you still carrying water? " An Jie replied with a cold face: "Where is a jar of water enough to wash clothes ..." Jiang Defu continued to please: "Then don't wash so much." Angie didn't like him. He just said nice things, snorted angrily and left.

Seems to be deliberately in order to form a contrast, at that time, Wang Zhenbiao's wife Zhang Guiying and Jiang Dehua two people talking and laughing loudly all the way, no one's watching. Zhang Guiying was soaked to the skin. Wang Zhenbiao looked at it in disgust and asked coldly, "What is this for?"

Jiang Dehua smiled and reported that they were sailing at sea, Guiying's sister-in-law fell into the sea, and Zhang Guiying herself was laughing all the time.

Wang Zhenbiao probably hates the crazy appearance of both of them. In front of Jiang Defu, he really can't say anything, so he snorted at Zhang Guiying. Unexpectedly, Zhang Guiying immediately turned his face and shouted back: "Who are you humming?"

One is male chauvinism, and the other is ill-fated, and both husband and wife do not give each other face.

Jiang Defu praised Zhang Guiying's ability, hard work and great strength in the chat, and Wang Debiao blurted out:

What does a woman need so much strength for!

Full of disgust, don't want to hide.

I was so angry that I couldn't wait to rush to him and yell at him: What did you say you were going to do? What jobs in your family are not done by others?

As a husband, this sentence is really heartless, completely obliterating Zhang Guiying's usual contribution to the family. People can get a glimpse of his heart. Beneath the gentleman's appearance, they are dismissive of rural daughter-in-law.

If a man is dissatisfied with his daughter-in-law, then in his eyes, whether she cries or laughs is wrong and not pleasing at all. And his heartfelt disgust, like a blown soap bubble, will gurgle at any time.

Zhang Guiying, a housewife from the countryside, why was she rejected by her husband as a political commissar? There is nothing to watch in this TV play. However, compared with Ge who was remarried by Wang Zhenbiao, his shortcomings are obvious.

No culture, no lady, black and thin, never dressed up.

In fact, in the eyes of others, Zhang Guiying has many advantages. Not only Dehua likes to associate with her, but even the lofty Anjie finally climbed onto the roof with her to see the scenery.

She is very capable. She manages everything by herself, carrying water, cooking, making quilts, driving the sea and taking care of children. Wang Zhenbiao is a shopkeeper of cutting.

She is honest in everything she says and does, and there is nothing to hide. Touch this on Angie's fancy clothes and cups, look at that, clap your hands and laugh: "My God!" " "This makes people feel that she is a simple child.

She has a kind heart. Angie carried water for the first time, fell down and was laughed at by a group of children. She scolded and shouted, helped her get the child away, and then carried water for her house without saying a word.

Such a person can get along well with everyone except her husband.

In addition to Zhang Guiying, this "official wife" from the countryside, Mrding's original wife, Wang Xiue, and Jiang Dehua.

Because of their similar origins, they have many similarities in their bones. They are all rural women, uneducated, arrogant and super-capable, married to senior officers. Even being rejected by your own man is very similar.

However, the three people's ways of fighting disgust are not exactly the same.

Zhang Guiying, this is a rude return.

Zhang Guiying's attitude towards her husband is never to buy or show weakness. It is a "hard" word from the inside out.

Wang Zhenbiao's dislike for her naturally understood, but it didn't seem to be hit at all. She is bent on her own way and won't be fooled by you at all!

You don't like it because you are unhappy. I still talk and laugh with my sisters, and my life is lively and moist.

Therefore, the two couples have no feelings at all, but simply live together.

Wang Haiyang is an only child. Doesn't that mean anything?

Wang Xiue complained while giving it.

Wang Xiue's unsanitary and untidiness are particularly prominent.

However, in addition to her frankness and kindness, she is also good at cooking and housework. She serves Mrding and their son with a big smile. Mrding their military assessment, go home at night, there are always hot meals waiting, and his wife and children to take care of.

In the face of Mrding's daily disgust and reprimand, she talked back, defended herself, and did some minor damage from time to time. Most importantly, she also put her dissatisfaction in the light. "Why don't you like me talking about her?" "Don't you just miss others?" "Your heart has long since left us girls!"

Her strong Henan accent, coupled with a snot and tears, really made Mrding helpless and funny. She can only stare at two big eyes to shut her up. Their quarrel seemed like a cross talk, which made people laugh.

In this way, Wang Xiue, a woman, is very attentive to her man. So she will feel wronged, complain frequently, and become an ally of Radwa.

Generally speaking, Mrding can still listen. Although she appreciates and admires Anjie, Wang Xiue keeps a safe distance from Anjie because of Mrding's good personality and "knocks" from time to time.

By the way, they are husband and wife and have four sons! (Ha ha ha ha ...)

Jiang Dehua served, while coquetry, mouth criticized like a knife.

Jiang Dehua told Mrding that it was really good. The whole model is that he owed others in his last life and paid his debts in this life.

Serve Mrding with four kinds of food and clothing, give birth to a little daughter for him, and support Mrding in front of his brother and sister-in-law. Who dares to deviate from Mrding? She is the first Ji Yan!

Although Dehua has no culture and is very aggressive, he has been in contact with Anji for so many years, and his dressing, personal cultivation and treatment have been greatly improved. Therefore, Mrding's aversion to her is uneducated. Mrding is often defeated in daily quarrels, which makes their married life more interesting.

Their only conflict makes people laugh and cry. Mrding drank too much and hung a picture of Angie in their house.

It's unbearable! Jiang Dehua directly scold, scold Mrding shameless, his family still hung portraits of other people's wives!

Mrding defended himself that it was a work of art, but Jiang Dehua wouldn't listen. She directly carried out Wang Xiue's sister-in-law, saying that she was right, while Mrding was eating a bowl and looking at the pot.

This is really the double scolding of two daughters-in-law! How can Mrding put up with this?

Later, when Mrding went to work, Jiang Dehua moved these paintings to four rooms, so that Angie's portrait could "enjoy" four kinds of smelly feet, haha!

Of course, this painting was finally taken away by Jiang Defu and Anjie. Jiang Dehua even scrambled to stop for Mrding, saying that Mrding said, this is art ... art what!

No wonder Mrding said Dehua: "There is really nothing to say except illiteracy ..." Although the noise in life is inevitable, the two people still care about each other.

Women always feel rejected. It should be noted that he doesn't like you more than you feel.

A little sister said that her husband was always impatient with her. Does she think he is a little disdainful and dislikes her? However, on second thought, I don't think so. He can take care of her very tenderly when she is ill.

What I want to say is that when you feel that the person you love has begun to dislike you, I will send you a heartfelt message-his dislike for you must be 10 times, 100 times stronger than you feel.

Give up fantasy, don't be confused by his occasional guilt and gentleness, so as to face up to the problems in feelings and start looking for solutions.

Wake up! Self-paralysis, blindly escaping, blindly making excuses for each other's dislike and indifference will eventually make the marriage die of rigidity and your inaction.

What should we do?

First, we must resolutely correct our mistakes.

I think, if it's really your fault, try to correct it.

For example, Wang Xiue's careless and unhygienic cooking is good for her family and herself. Why not?

You can count on Comrade Jiang Defu for this. So senior officers, after being with Anjie and being a "three-wash husband", have not actively reformed themselves, stopped eating and improved their personal hygiene habits. Later, on the basis of getting rid of bad habits, his family's family education was rigorous, and several children were excellent.

How annoying it is to know that the problem is determined not to change.

Second, there is a gap as short as possible.

If you distance yourself from your husband, you will naturally be rejected. It's no use complaining, so you can only catch up with or even surpass him.

You see Dehua, in Mrding's eyes, illiteracy is a serious injury, but she has won the respect and love of Mrding because of her quick response and quick work.

During the May 4th Movement, most of the original wives of many great writers were uneducated. For example, Zhu An, Lu Xun's original wife, refused to listen to Lu Xun's repeated letters asking her to put it down and study culture. When I got married, I began to worry. I can't believe I stuffed cotton into my shoes to fill my feet. I didn't expect the sedan chair to drop its shoes.

You say, can Lu Xun not abandon it? I have never regarded her as my wife in my life.

Third, we should try our best to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.

As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots.

Sometimes, no matter how clearly you see your mistakes, no matter how timely and accurately others remind you, it is difficult to correct them. As for Rainbow Xiue and Zhang Guiying, if you let them pull out three layers of skin, they will not become beautiful and smart women like Angie and Geshamei.

then what My suggestion is to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. Be good at digging and packaging yourself, not only to see your own shortcomings, but also to see your own strengths, carry forward your own strengths and let it shine on you. Make it your personal brand, cover up your shortcomings, and let people only see you and that bright spot.

For example, Lin, with her peerless talent, covered up her two shortcomings: small personality and weak body.

I have known such a woman all my life. Her weakness is that she is informal and not very good at tidying up the house. After a few years of honeymoon, my husband began to obviously dislike it. At the same time, my husband himself was promoted in the enterprise and became the department head. The level of women he contacts is getting higher and higher, and he is increasingly dissatisfied with his wife's shortcomings.

If nothing happens, I never like what a classic story it is to break up.

And my female friend, after being angry, angry and even crying, gritted her teeth and insisted on studying. Later, I was admitted and directly changed from a teacher to a government official.

During the exam, she won the first place in the written interview among hundreds of people, so she was particularly proud. This great success really shocked her husband. He is not only impressed by his wife, but even proud of it. He bragged everywhere and said, look at my wife, she has been admitted to a popular government agency! Even, from time to time, I asked my wife to help me with some small things between relatives and friends and small troubles between colleagues.

Can't clean the house? Talking carelessly? It is a manifestation of innocence and true temperament.

Fourth, always keep the courage to turn around and leave.

You don't have a grandfather here, you have your own!

Rainbow Zhenbiao doesn't like the manners of rural women in Zhang Guiying in his bones, so even if she tries hard, she won't get her husband's favor and make him change his mind.

Then, at this time, you should turn around and leave.

Influenced by that era, Zhang Guiying, as a housewife, found it difficult to leave, so she had to make do with it.

But now, you can.

Your honey is arsenic, and you can always find someone who appreciates and likes you. Never hang yourself from a tree, so that you can keep the courage to leave at any time.

Really, don't believe it-sometimes, his dislike is the opportunity and motivation to push you to the other side of happiness.