How can I chat with my daughter?

How can I chat with my daughter?

Many parents don't talk to their children. What do they know?

Children are fine when they are young, and they will not refuse. In adolescence, if parents don't listen to a word, children will retort and end the conversation.

If parents' long-term methods are not correct, then there is nothing to talk about between children and parents.

I talk to my child every day, but I seldom talk to her about her studies and grades. I heard her talk about interesting things in my class.

I don't just talk to children, I talk with a purpose. For example, if the child has any bad behavior recently, I want her to correct it, and I will make myself fully prepared to speak. If I'm not sure, I'd rather not talk about it first.

More often, I talk to my children about people and things I met recently, or what topics are worth discussing in the book, and I will discuss them with them.

In the process of discussion, I mostly let my children assume that they are the parties. What will she do with it?

Because the child already knows that the current handling method is not suitable, she will think about what is a better way to handle it.

No matter how the child treats her, I will give her 100% affirmation! In this way, children will become more and more confident! I will put on a look and expression that I admire and admire her!

Over time, children like to discuss problems with me. Children also grow up by constantly discussing problems.

We should learn from other people's mistakes and grow up instead of growing up with our own mistakes.

So when people and things around me are worth discussing, I will go home and share them with my children.

For example, when I went to have a gastroscope yesterday, I would share the attitude of the front desk nurse with my daughter and discuss with her the importance of pronunciation and intonation in communication.

Through discussion, I think my daughter will be alert in this regard in the future.

We worked in a fixed group of several people, and the last night shift was very busy, so an episode happened. The nature of our work is difficult to distinguish responsibilities, and more often it is teamwork. The leader talked about it with one of his young colleagues.

This young colleague is in high spirits in our small group, but my kind persuasion is regarded as an outlet. The young colleague also said that the same is true in front of leaders.

A colleague in my group said it more appropriately than I did.

My daughter reminded me that I should learn from her. If I have no intimate relationship with this young colleague, I should be neutral and official, and I don't need to show intimacy.

For questions like this, I will discuss with my daughter and then ask her, if you are her, how can you talk to the leader?

When I kindly advised you, if it were you, how would you respond?

What happened to her?

Then the daughter will start a series of discussions.

Because it happened when a group of people went to work, we decided to talk to the leader as a whole.

During the discussion, my daughter asked me: What are you going to say when a group of you go to the leader tomorrow? Say something?

Asked by my daughter, I really didn't think about it?

So I immediately confirmed that she considered the problem comprehensively!

The affirmed daughter is naturally more confident!

I pay attention to the people and things around me every day. As long as there is discussion value, I will discuss it with my daughter.

Parents always want to make their children better, so they will reason with their children when they make mistakes. Wouldn't it be better if they could discuss other people's mistakes with their children and let them grow up?

Similarly, when we make mistakes, we are under great pressure to be discussed. When we are discussing other people's mistakes, we are relaxed and have a clear mind.

So I often use other people's mistakes to make my children grow up.

Children grow up in constant discussion!

They say that life can't be rehearsed, but I let my children rehearse life constantly! When the child really faces the society, the so-called problem is just one of the results of her rehearsal!

Whenever I chat with my children, they constantly gain knowledge and affirmation, and build a strong self-confidence system in their hearts. If a person's self-esteem is high, he will be self-disciplined and have a love and pursuit of life!