In the process of growing up, there are also some people who will come to see you and say that you can't do it, or even laugh at you by virtue of their cleverness. you are

Questioner: First of all, you should know that when you grow up, it is also a process of learning and understanding truth, goodness, beauty and ugliness. People have to experience many people and things in their life. People have accidents, people can't live without accidents, people have too many accidents and no friends. Therefore, if they have too many life experiences, they will be insensitive to people and things, their mentality may be distorted, and they may be indifferent to life. There are many people and things in life, sometimes it takes many years to understand. We didn't understand this until we were mature. Now I know, not that I don't understand, but that I am helpless. However, human nature is to be happy for a lifetime, but it will also bring a lot of troubles, and the appearance of troubles will be smoothed out one by one. Therefore, people and things who can't figure out their hair hurts and feel distressed might as well be indifferent ... because we are neither saints nor great men and have no ability to change the whole society and let society change us, so that we won't be so upset and feel better, don't you think?

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