Stereotypes that affect intimacy in jokes

How to attract women:

Praise her, snuggle up to her, kiss her, caress her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, spend thousands of dollars to buy laughter, offer food and wine, listen to her when she is sad, take good care of her when she is slightly ill, stay with her forever, always support her opinions and travel around the world for her.

How to attract men:

Take off your clothes and bring beer.

Although this joke is very interesting, it is a bit inappropriate because it reinforces people's stereotypes:

In intimate relationships, women pay attention to tenderness, while men only seek sensual satisfaction.

In fact, there is little difference in the expectation of intimacy between the two sexes, and they should not be "opposites".

Although there may be great differences between men and women, the average difference between men and women is very small. In other words, both men and women want their intimate partners to be caring and warm.

What if you mistakenly think that all men are the same and have nothing in common with women?

Will make both men and women feel pessimistic and helpless.

But in real life, many of us consciously or unconsciously think that there are great differences between the two sexes.

Therefore, in the face of contradictions, they will think that the opposite sex is an alien from another world, which is not conducive to repairing the intimate relationship with the opposite sex.

At the same time, it also hinders the understanding of your partner's point of view and prevents both sides from helping to solve problems.

Therefore, I still suggest that we abandon the stereotype that there is a huge difference in the expectation of intimacy between the two sexes from the bottom of our hearts, which is more conducive to the development of intimacy between the two sides.