Nowadays, more and more people don’t like visiting relatives. What’s the reason?

First of all, "I don't want to go home, I will add it to myself"

Before the New Year, I accidentally heard the owner of the noodle hall saying that they didn't Back in the Spring Festival, I was curious and I was with them.

The boss was also blunt, I just said I didn’t want to go back, I added: “My hometown doesn’t have a good impression of me, my relatives are a group of white wolves, they are just adding to their impression of themselves. In other words, they are not as good as their lives. "

In chatting, I learned that one of them came out and took four to five years. So far I haven't gone back. When she said that, her tone became very serious, and I risked a hint of anger, so I didn't continue to ask.

The reason why I dislike relatives more and more now is because these points are very true

Secondly, why does the boss not want to return to his hometown?

I introduce fast food restaurants again . I saw their husbands and wives quarreling. I don't want to hear from the boss. "They are not used to us, they often dig me, say wind and rush. It will always say three or four, it is embarrassing, I don't want to see them again."

I realized that the boss was not at home The assessment is less, because the aspect is a little bit and relatives, they have not returned within four to five years, I also think that less than such relatives is the right choice.

The boss’s procedures are quite reasonable. Because except for parents in the world, few people will have unconditional feelings for you, and even fewer will come from you, such as money, feelings, human conditions, climbing, etc. It was the impetus for these interests to have a family and friends.

When talking about relatives, everyone may have different impressions, some are harmonious and generous, and some have a vicious edge. Based on the boss's attitude, I think her old relative is the latter. Some hometown relatives, that's really a lot of people, I want to tap into your life, I will go a long way in a year. If you don't see it all day, and the day is long, it's an unbearable one, and it gradually dies.

When relatives arrive, comparisons can inevitably arise. As the saying goes: "No harm done." So when it doesn't stop, some people start mouthing off and saying more. Personal attack. The boss may be impatient, frustrated, or alienated.

The relationship between worlds can be measured, even if there is no interest, even if there is no interest. The relative is also a stranger, has no interest and relationship drive, can be said to be completely unsatisfactory, and usually encounters some nodules.

Third, what other reason is there for relatives?

Relatives, it sounds warm, but the reality is ignorance. I will give you cold water. At best, the so-called relatives are not so friendly, it can even be said that they are not positive. They have to make it with you on the surface, but I don't know how much it is. Communication with people is instinctive, and there is something exclusive about threatening yourself. When you have a conflict with a relative, they won't hesitate to flush it in your face.

There is a phenomenon in society that when the elders of a family have passed away, they will find that the relationship with their relatives gradually dilutes. If you had better things to do, you would come and sit and drink tea. This relationship is slightly worse. So why, then, do so many people have fewer relatives now?

1. Busy with business or work

Nowadays, those who fight are not in the minority, most people choose to continue fighting. Especially during the Spring Festival, some people have their own stores outside, and the passenger traffic of the stores will decline this time. It's a really great opportunity for them and it's their choice. I spent time outside, I would go home from time to time, and gradually, I kept becoming distant from relatives, and I didn't go there.

2. Surround yourself with some very bad relatives

The world is not the average professional. Some relatives are really heavy. When they speak, they always have a thorn in their side and they have to be ready to reach the tie. The person being tied up will definitely feel uncomfortable. When getting along with them, you usually encounter this kind of confrontation, everyone is respectful and doesn't want to be with them.