How should I be myself?

For self-improvement, we should replace "resentment" with "nourishing qi"

For career progress, we should replace "passion" with "kindness"

Life is blessed, but people are not satisfied. Thinking about things is tired and bitter, and leisure is bliss. Thinking about hardships, peace is bliss.

considering illness and hardship, health is a blessing. it doesn't mean that I am inferior to others, but there are still many people who are inferior to me. Retreat and think about the width of the ocean, and contentment in front of you is bliss.

It's better to say that you are made by money if you make money desperately and excessively. Because money has taken away your youth, time, physical strength and life.

in a hurry and in a bitter pursuit, it is cold and warm to spend the spring and autumn. To plan your family day and night,

you are in a daze. When is right and wrong, when will you stop worrying?

take a step back and let the three points be calm!

where there are people, there will be right and wrong. If you regard him as normal, you won't be sad. Because we are all ordinary people

happy with contentment, enjoying ourselves, helping others and being happy every day.

people don't live to be a hundred years old, but they often worry for a thousand years.

idle people have no fun, and busy people have no right and wrong. It is better to talk less than to talk more, and it is better to talk less than to talk better.

don't gossip about anything, right and wrong often lead to gossip.

if you talk too much, you will lose. Try not to give yourself such opportunities.

there is no me in the field of words, and there is no me in the land of right and wrong. The world is for me, not for me. People only have the right to use, not ownership. In the den of right and wrong, people use their mouths and I use my ears. In the lively field, people move forward and I move backward.

before you speak, you are the master of words. After speaking, you are the servant of words.

nonsense doesn't help others, but it does harm to yourself.

be lenient with others and be careful what you say. When you speak, what you say must be more valuable than your silence.

every time a person tells a lie, it is considered unimportant, but he doesn't know that he still needs to make another 2 lies to maintain his first one. Why bother?

a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts people in June.

people who have no knowledge always talk about others' ignorance, while people with rich knowledge often find their own ignorance.

don't say that others are short and long, but say that they will suffer; If you can keep your mouth shut and hide your tongue, it is the first party to practice.

people said to do it, but I did it. People don't necessarily do what they say, and if I do, I don't necessarily say

No one in the world can be so cunning that people don't know that they are cunning.

the method of dealing with right and wrong

1, not listening to right and wrong. 2, don't say right and wrong. 3, ignore right and wrong. 4, don't pass on right and wrong. Right and wrong happen every day, and if you don't listen to nature, there is nothing. It's better to be careful than eloquent, and it's better to refuse appropriately than to compliment.

I have a big chest, but I can't hold it.

when you talk too much, others will criticize you; When you talk less, others will criticize you; When you are silent, others will criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized. Because you are constantly criticizing others. Before criticizing others, think about whether you are perfect or not.

It is better to tolerate people's slander than to argue; I am also insulted by people, and it is better to be able to prevent it than to prevent it.

you must be cautious in prosperity and patient in adversity.

If you don't regret the past, long for the future, and worry about yourself, you will be healthy physically and mentally if you grasp the present and keep your feet on the ground.

I can't do good without one person, and I can't do bad without one person.

Good things need you, me and him to achieve together. So, don't be prejudiced by you, me and him.

it is better to endure everything than to argue. The life of a passer-by comes and goes in a hurry, and life is just a passer-by in the world. What people should ask themselves is, have you left some memorial beyond haste?

True wealth is joy, not wealth. True poverty is ignorance, not lack of money.

when you ride a horse and I ride a donkey, I'm not as good as before, and when I look back, I see the cart sweating, which is more than enough.

success is the exertion of advantages, while failure is the accumulation of disadvantages.

a person who has a lot of troubles worries him about trivial things. A wise man, nothing big can bind him.

Money is a relative need: when you need it, it is very important. When you have used enough money and put it in the bank, all that remains is a sum.

master a center: health first. Two basic points: be confused and be smart.

everyone's greatest weakness is that he thinks he is the cleverest.

never waste a minute thinking about anyone you don't like.

this body only lends us temporary accommodation, such as housing. When you reach the end of your life, you have to move. Don't be persistent.

if the heart is uneasy, life will form punishment, teasing and suffering for life.

most people have only done three things in their life: deceiving themselves, deceiving others and being cheated.

it's easy to deceive others, but it's the hardest to deceive one's own conscience.

people are very strange animals. They don't know themselves, but they want to interfere with others every day, which makes them miserable.

to change others, it is better to change yourself first.

if you always think of "now", you will accomplish many things. If you often think "one day", you will accomplish nothing

Sometimes the stupidest way is the smartest way.

Things are as busy as running water, so don't worry about fame and wealth. You can't insist on wealth and splendor.

you don't have to ask for work, but nothing is work. You don't have to feel virtuous, but complaining is virtuous.

it's better to be quiet and timid than to follow the fate. Being poor and worrying less is a blessing, and fame and mountains increase karma.

a light meal can fill a full brocade, which will take thousands of years. Life and death are the biggest in the world, and white jade and gold are in vain.

praise others in public; Blaming others must be done in private.

peace of mind is better than peace of mind, and breadth of house is better than breadth of mind. Tell more jokes and deal with things with humor, and life will be easier.

Listen to what others have to say, and don't express your opinion in a hurry. All in all, in a word, more encouragement is better than blame.

The meaning and value of life are not based on the likes and dislikes of a few subjective prejudices.

Smart people, beware of yourself from other people's mistakes!

I fell asleep tonight, but I still woke up in the Ming Dynasty. How can I say that I will get over it after my death?

people who know how to live are just right!

if people haggle with you, they are not as good as you. If you haggle with others, you are not as good as others.

people who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will certainly live a more troublesome life!

my happiness is not that I have more, but that I ask for less.

it's not "someone bothers me", but "I worry about myself with someone's words and deeds".

Some people often get upset because they intentionally accept an unintentional remark from others!

I just saw it in a vase, and suddenly I saw the flowers withering and abandoning the roadside. If people like it, they will smell the fragrance everywhere.

"Walk with the front foot and put the back foot" means: let him go of yesterday's things and concentrate on what he should do today.

There are thousands of rooms in the vast building, but he sleeps only seven feet at night; Delicious and delicious, only three meals are needed for an eclipse. Ten fingers, long and short, have their own uses. What are you fighting for? What remains of this world is only what we offer; Everything we get will disappear with us when we die.

Heart is the biggest liar. People cheat you for a while, but they cheat you all their lives. Those who hurt others in front of you will certainly attack you in front of others!

it's hard to be smart and confused, and it's even harder to change from smart to confused!

Actually, no one binds us. The biggest constraint is ourselves!

when you point your finger at other people's mistakes, there are three fingers pointing at yourself. When you give a thumbs-up to others and admire them, there are four fingers pointing at yourself.

when you learn to look at everything with a normal mind, you will have less troubles.

money is for use, not for death.

Life is simple, and if we insist on making it complicated, it will also become a burden.

The stupidest person is the one who bothers himself with other people's mistakes!

if you don't frown all your life, there should be no gnashing of teeth.

don't do evil, but do good. Don't do it with small kindness, and don't do it with small evil.

Everything has two sides, so you must look at it comprehensively. Then, when happiness comes, you won't get carried away; When the pain comes, you won't lose your heart.

when you are in good times, you are indifferent; Take adversity in stride.

There are two things in the world that can't wait: First, filial piety. Second, do good.

not afraid of many things, only afraid of many things.

Life is like a play, because we meet by destiny. It's not easy to get together until you are old. Should we cherish it more?

there's no need to look back and think about it for a trivial matter. I am not angry when others are angry, and there is no one to replace me when I am sick.

who will be happy if I am angry? Besides, it hurts and is laborious. Don't compare with your neighbors and relatives, and let your children and grandchildren do their chores.

patience is a treasure. I can't bear the anger of one dynasty, and it's a big disaster to fight for strength, and I can't bear the anger.

I'll haunt you for life, so what's the harm in letting others take a step? A great deal of happiness is a great worry.

if you don't think twice, don't regret it. People can bear it without worry.

Being angry means beating yourself up with the other person's mistakes; To hold a grudge is to torture yourself with each other's mistakes.

There is a business in the world that always loses money, and that is losing your temper.

it is better to endure everything than to argue. Silence is the best answer to slander.

A person's personality determines his fate. A person's wealth lies not only in how much he has, but in how much he gives!

if you want to know how rich you are, just look at what's left when you lose money.

I don't see you treat me, but I see you treat others!

a big belly can accommodate many troubles; Smiling, forming an infinite joy.

You don't do things for others, but do things for yourself.

it doesn't have to cost money to make a good marriage, just use your kind words to persuade people; Seeing others do good deeds, sending a happy heart, admiring the heart and making the other person achieve, are all good marriages. Even persuade others to do good deeds, and they will also be rewarded.

Life is very short, but if we only pay attention to its brevity, it will be worthless.

life consists of two parts; The past is a dream, and the future is a hope.

life is impermanent, and life is only in the breath. If you can't pass the customs in a second, your life will be over. Therefore, we should seize every minute.

the achievements of decades in life are accumulated by words and deeds every day. Therefore, we should take care of our words and deeds every day.

Young people have plenty of health, so they waste it. Once you feel that health is worth cherishing, it is like being the black sheep who has lost his money.

everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't know life.

when you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal; When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal. When you are upset, you have to tell yourself that all this is false. What are you upset about?

Don't keep your eyes open so wide. Let me ask you: After a hundred years, which one in the world is yours?

The world doesn't belong to you, so you don't have to abandon it. What is to be abandoned is the persistence of everything. Everything is for my use, but not for me.

Things in the world were originally "for our use", but the insatiable have been reduced to "being used by things" because of lack of wisdom.

Learn to live in a simple way, and don't let complicated thoughts destroy the peace of life.

Be reasonable and be harmonious, and be reasonable and forgive others.

a wise man can give up, and if he can give up, he can get it and get infinite happiness.

People are obsessed with it because they are too smart, too worried and have too many troubles.

The more you have the ability to detect delusions, the less trouble you will have.

if you want to give something in return, it will certainly bring trouble.

People are troubled by the word "I", so we should take the word "I" lightly.

it is better to ask for peace than to ask for longevity. Peace is to add longevity.

it is happiness to live a safe day.

Frowning and smiling are both action expressions. Why not smile?

everyone starts to slack off the minute they forgive themselves.

people who can't get ahead are because they review their past achievements again and again.

Buddha said: confidence, perseverance and courage are all there, and nothing is impossible in the world.

Rich people decorate their houses beautifully; A virtuous person perfects his body and mind.

The facial movements, proper manners and manners are all achieved through self-cultivation and humiliation in daily life.

to appreciate others is to respect yourself.

it's hard to ask for something in life! If you just ask others blindly, you will bring endless pain to yourself.

Doing nothing every day is the consumer of life, and giving actively every day is the creator of life.

A contented person is open-minded, so he won't care about people or things.

Looking at the world from another angle, the world is infinitely wide; If you change your position and treat others, people will feel insecure.

Buddha said: people should know the blessings, cherish them, and then cultivate them.

doing nothing is an empty life; People who can benefit the society for a long time are full lives.

There is no one I don't love, no one I don't trust, and no one I don't forgive.

being able to serve others is more blessed than being served by others.

to be a truly successful person, everyone must accommodate you, and you can accommodate everyone.

don't seek to reduce your responsibilities just because you are greedy for purity; We should strengthen our courage and take on more important responsibilities.

be careful, don't worry or worry.

don't underestimate yourself, because people have unlimited possibilities.

Joy is a kind of self-restraint, which can make people around you feel "like bathing in the spring breeze".

people who often make others happy must be happy themselves.

people are good, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away. Man-made evil, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing has been far away.

In this world, we can't idle away our lives. We should use our conscience to benefit the people.

once people idle away their time, their spirits will be depressed and life will lose its meaning.

people are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves.

goodness is like a pine and evil is like a flower, and a pine is not as plain as a flower. One day, when it was thick in first frost, there were no flowers in the pines.

if you pay more, you will get more.

the heart should be on the soles of your feet, not in your mouth, just say no.

people who are praised by others are the most vulnerable people in the world.

a contented person is still happy when lying on the ground; Those who are not satisfied are not satisfied, although they are in heaven.

people don't know happiness when they are blessed, but they don't know it until they lose it.

if you throw an axe into the sky, you will surely fall to the ground; Defaming others will only hurt yourself.

What you have now will become others' with your death, so why not give it to those who really need it now?

air conditioning may not be able to get rid of our heat annoyance, but only by calming our hearts can we be cool forever.

the way to get along with others lies in infinite tolerance.

people are always happy when they are satisfied with everything, and they are always proud when they don't want anything.

Things are busy like water, so don't worry about fame and fortune. The Great Wall of Wan Li is still here today, but I don't see Qin Shihuang.

the more people feel small, the more they appreciate the greatness of others.

rather than afterwards.