After reading these 68 highly praised questions and answers in Zhihu: Change yourself, when are you going to act?

Two days ago, I saw the 68 god answers that made people suddenly enlightened in WeChat official account of People's Daily. The last time I saw it, it was three years ago. After reading it, there was a feeling that the clouds would clear the sky. After reading it, record these 68 high praise questions and answers in your notebook with a pen, and read them from time to time to understand!

In the past, at school, the teacher repeatedly said, "If you don't understand, you should ask." But at that time, the information was blocked, and the answer given by the teacher was simple and one-sided. If you chase after it and get to the bottom of it, it is beyond the teacher's cognitive scope, then he will earnestly and expect to tell you all about it: study hard, get into college and get out of the mountains.

With the rapid development of network information, we can broaden our horizons and make more comprehensive, rational and objective choices. When you encounter things that you can't make up your mind or problems that you don't understand at all, upload them directly to various knowledge platforms, and professional people will give you advice and help you avoid lightning!

what is the function of knowledge? According to my own understanding, people with knowledge can be more forward-looking than the average person before things happen, more comfortable when things are going on, and better at finding and filling gaps after things are over. By your side, when someone asks you why you insist on reading and writing, you say: I want to be a writer in the future! Others say: the future will be handed over to the future, and now it is time to play. You said: the future depends on the present, and the best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now; When others are wantonly squandering their bodies, you are trying to sweat and keep your vitality forever. "Body is the capital of revolution", others just say; I know I know, but only you are doing it, because you know better than others: many people know a lot of truths but still can't live this life, mainly because they only know some truths in a simple way. Those who can really live this life are integrating knowledge with action, because knowing that they can't do it means not knowing!

For me, these 68 high praise questions and answers are bright lights that give me direction and strength when I am confused and confused! At the same time, I hope more people can carefully look at these 68 high-praise questions and answers, and use these concise and practical answers to answer all kinds of questions in real life, so as to make life richer and more complete! (The full contents of these 68 high-praise questions and answers are attached at the back of the article, and I would like to share them with you! )

68 Q:

1. What do you mean by seeing the world?

can enjoy the best and bear the worst.

2. What are your criteria for making friends?

A wise man born, a strong man who entered the WTO, or an ordinary person with normal sunshine. ?

3. how to define "think clearly"?

"think clearly" means that if something goes wrong in the future, you can only blame yourself and never complain about others.

4. "Don't let your child lose at the starting line" is reasonable?

comparing with others all your life is the source of life tragedy.

5. What can I do to improve my quality of life? ?

throw things regularly.

6. what do you want to know when you are young? ?

the inner feelings are more important than the outside truth.

7. Is it more appropriate to use tuition for studying or to travel around the world? ?

Without sufficient knowledge, even if you take Wan Li Road, you are just a postman.

8. What is the perfect love in your heart? ?

there can be imperfections.

9. What "right and wrong" have you changed from your long-term life in a foreign country? ?

many things are just different, and there is no right or wrong.

1. How to make this world a better place?

? Let yourself be better first.

11. What foods abroad make you feel better than staying at home? ?

I got the sky and lost the earth.

12. how can I be sure that the other person is someone who can stay with me for life? ?

Qian Zhongshu commented on Yang Jiang as a model of ideal marriage: "Before I met her, I never thought about getting married; Having been with her for so many years, I have never regretted marrying her; Also from? I never thought about marrying another woman. "

13. how to refute "be realistic, this society is like this"?

your world is what you are.

14. What is your understanding of freedom? ?

the ability to say "no".

15. It is the same that others are better than themselves. Why do you sometimes have jealousy and sometimes worship? ?

Those who are near will be jealous and those who are far away will worship; Those who can reach it will be jealous, and those who can't reach it will worship; Those who have conflicts of interest will be jealous, and those who have no conflicts of interest will worship.

16. Why do people usually respond with "That's nice, what camera do you use" when they see good photos? And when you see bad photos, you often joke that the photographer's level is bad? ?

people are used to attributing their success to themselves, their failure to the environment, others' success to the environment, and their failure to themselves.

17. which skills can bring great help to people's lives after a short period of study?

compliment others.

18. How did you get out of the haze of life? ?

walk a few more steps.

19. how to "not complain"?

those who know themselves don't complain, while those who know know life don't complain.

2. What animal can't swim in the world?

daughter-in-law and mother.

21. What kind of person lives the happiest? ?

people who don't compare with others.

22. Why should people work hard in this life?

The most painful thing is not failure, but I could have

23. How can I work hard to become a great person?

as long as you bury your head in your own hurdle, naturally some people will be distracted and backward. In the end, you are naturally a very powerful person.

24. where is the dividing line between the first half and the second half?

at this moment.

25. What is the most lonely sentence or poem you have ever heard?

nine times out of ten, it's no different from the speaker.

Is it reliable to start learning writing, English and music at the age of 26.3?

the best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now. 27. What are the good ways to save money?

before buying anything, please keep in mind the nine-character motto: you like it, you need it, and you are suitable (for many things, including feelings)

28. How to understand "knowing and doing as one"? How to apply it to real life?

knowing that you can't do it is equal to not knowing.

29. What behaviors are easy to offend others, but not easy to detect? ?

treat others as our own.

3. What behaviors are a waste of time?

thinking without learning and hesitating.

31 if good people are not rewarded, why should we be good people? ?

we insist on one thing, not because it will be effective, but because we firmly believe that it is right. ?

32. Why are some things easy for others, but they don't want to help? ?

Do something not because it is simple, but because it is worthwhile.

33. What do you think of "when you are young, you need friends, not contacts"? ?

communication without purpose can really touch people's hearts.

34. What are some examples of low EQ? ?

Be respectful to strangers, and be furious with your own people.

35. What is the most exciting sentence for you to learn? ?

you can't give the world to people who despise you and despise you.

36. What are the reasons that you don't believe when you read it, but you don't listen to it until you experience it yourself? ?

never underestimate your ability and never overestimate your perseverance.

37. What is the most important thing for two people to get together after marriage? ?

consider this marriage not yet married.

38. How to judge whether a beggar is true or false? ?

whether a beggar is true or not, when he begs from you, he is really a beggar.

39. how to refute the logic of "you can do it"? ?

Tianya famous sentence "I comment on a refrigerator, but I have to know how to refrigerate myself."

4. What do you wish you had known or understood when you were young? ?

the inner feelings are more important than the outside truth.

41. Why do some people get the impression that "smart and intelligent girls are all taken care of by simple guys"? ?

Seriously speaking, I think, either the girl just looks smart, or the guy just looks stupid ...

42. What is the moment of letting go of love?

"At the departure station, she got on the bus. I didn't watch the bus disappear like before, but walked home without looking back."

43. How to be an thoughtful person?

Have you ever found that people with great ideas are often "cheeky"? I mean: they are not afraid of being considered an idiot after saying an idea. There are too many people who have ideas, and too few people dare to speak out.

44. Why are you determined to leave a company?

There is a saying that if you want to stay in a company, just look at the lives of your colleagues. If their lives are not what you want, you can leave. The reason why I left the first company is that I need to change my life.

45. Is it that the more mature a person is, the harder it is to fall in love with someone? ?

it's not that the more mature you are, the harder it is to fall in love with someone. But the more mature you are, the more you can tell whether it is love or not.

46. What is the value of suffering?

Never believe that suffering is worthwhile. Suffering is suffering. Suffering will not bring success. Difficulties are not worth pursuing. It is because suffering cannot be avoided that you temper your will.

47. How to distinguish kindness from cowardice?

In the face of the enemy, being able to hurt others but unwilling to do so is called kindness; In the face of the enemy, having the ability to hurt others and not daring to do so is called cowardice.

48. Should we boycott foreign goods? ?

we want to boycott foreign goods, not to smash our own foreign goods. We should do better than it in all walks of life. Our officials are cleaner than them, our streets are cleaner than theirs, and then our bridges are stronger than them. And our young people have more future and hope than him.

49. How to face the accusations of your colleagues?

? 1. Are you wrong?

jump to 4 if there is a mistake, and jump to 2 if there is one.

? 2. Is he sick?

If blaming others is his hobby, skip to 3, otherwise skip back to 1 for reflection. ?

3. Leave him alone and do your own thing.

4. correct your mistakes and accept them with an open mind.

5. My new boyfriend solemnly said to me, "Can you not tell me about your past in the future? I don't want to know and I won't ask. I'm afraid there will be psychological shadows. Can you promise me? "What does he mean?

"the essence of getting along with my sister is: if she is not wet behind the ears, show her the prosperity of the world;" If her heart has changed, take her on a carousel. " However, for a man, if his heart has changed, he just wants to live quietly with someone!

51. How to make recommendations or suggestions effectively without instilling and forcing people? ?

? Persuade others not to appeal to reason, should seek benefits.

52. Why do many programmers like to stay up late when doing academic work, and their work efficiency is extremely high after midnight?

a girl asked me, why do academics stay up so late? Is it only in the evening that they are inspired? No, girl, learning is not inspired, but the guilt caused by the mediocre daytime.

53. How to enlighten a girl with a dark heart? ?

it doesn't matter what the method is. The most important thing is: once you decide to approach her, never take the initiative to stay away from her. Once she starts to approach you, never try to push her away.

54. Why are some things easy for others but they don't want to help?

? Some people don't love the world and people in the world enough. Some people don't trust the world and people in the world enough.

55. How to conquer the whole universe? ?

conquer yourself.

56. Is there really a way to reward hard work? ?

success requires luck, talent, background, contacts and so on. Diligence may be just a humble condition. But this does not mean that if you give up diligence, you can have other conditions. For most people, they have no choice but to be diligent. The world is unfair, but unfairness is no reason not to work hard.

57. How can I work hard to become a great person? ?

If you are destined to be a great person, the answer to this question lies in your blood. If you are not destined to be a great person, then you just need to be yourself.

58. What is the biggest difference between amateur and professional? ?

experts play with themselves, while parallel imports play with others.

59. Walking on a small enough planet, are we going uphill or downhill? ?

feeling tired means going uphill, and feeling relaxed means going downhill.

6. What ideas have you encountered that make your eyes shine, enlighten you or change you greatly?

? Talent determines the upper limit you can reach, and the degree of hard work determines the lower limit you can reach. With the low level of efforts of the vast majority of people, it is far from reaching the point of fighting for talent.

61. There are so many good books, movies and cartoons in the world that they are doomed to be inexhaustible. What attitude should we take to this fact?

I'm afraid of endless truth, and every inch I enter will bring me joy. -Hu Shi

62. How to be frank and gentle?

when I think that everyone will die one day, I think I should be kind to the person I like, that's all.

63. What is the main reason for employees to resign? ?

If you have less money, you will be far away from home, and your position is low, your power is light and your responsibility is heavy.

6 4. After marriage, the other half doesn't feel the freshness at the beginning. What should I do? ?

It has always been believed that the so-called novelty is not to do the same thing with unknown people, but to experience the unknown life with known people.

65. Why do everyone want to go to college to find a job, but they don't like driving a taxi, opening a small shop or opening a restaurant on the street early?