Are you a bargaining parent with your teacher?

what's the most important thing these two days?

the final exam results are distributed! Is the child finished playing? After that, have a happy winter vacation!

About the little "God beast", the handover between teachers and parents has finally been completed.

All kinds of jokes about "May your mother be kind and filial" are flying all over the sky.

what's worse than having a pupil at home is having two pupils at home.

I have deeply felt their existence these two days.

or pull me: mom, mom can't stop talking.

either playing with toys makes a lot of noise.

Either the two sisters fight and find me to settle the lawsuit ... my forehead lawsuit!

In winter and summer vacations, parents are the biggest, and teachers are the biggest when school starts. School starts to prevent parents from going crazy, and holidays are to prevent teachers from going crazy ...

There is a fire about the joke about accompanying students. Although it is a joke, it really sticks to parents and teachers.

As for children's learning, teachers and parents are like tug-of-war, pulling them over.

As for children's learning, teachers and parents are just like doing business and bargaining.

If you are a parent who often attends parent-teacher conferences, you will be very familiar with a word-home-school education.

(even if my father can't find a classroom when attending a parent-teacher meeting)

*** The most important thing is how much you do and how much I do!

There must be many parents around you:

"Now teachers are too relaxed, and everything is arranged for parents!"

"Why do you want me to check the signature of your child's exercise book? I have checked out all the mistakes. What do you want the teacher to do? "

"I paid to send my children to school, and children's learning is the teacher's task!" "

...

Whose business is that child's study?

To make this clear, let's first understand the background knowledge-modern education.

Modern education refers to the education after the industrial revolution began in Britain in the 18th century and the machine industry replaced the original handicraft production in the workshop.

why did modern education come into being at this node?

because the era of machine industry needs a large number of skilled workers, technicians and managers.

In the farming era, education is a luxury and has a high threshold. There are also various ways of education, and the knowledge taught is not uniform.

when machines need a lot of workers, modern education is born.

Modern education is based on modern big machine production.

This background doomed modern education to be basic and public.

It is the function of modern schools to let the largest number of people enter the same school, learn the same knowledge and form a unified concept.

It can be said that the school is the largest "factory" in the world, which is responsible for the production of standardized modern people.

Let's talk about our children after school.

Some children run well, some children have a glib tongue, some children are good at drawing, some children like singing, some children are sensitive to numbers, and some children are sensitive to words ...

There are no two identical children in this world.

what happens when you put the same thing in different containers?

You can try to find all kinds of bottles and put them under the faucet with the same water output. When you wait, you will get different water.

so is education!

The school's task is to add the same amount of water into the bottle at a uniform speed, but some bottles are too big and some are too small.

The school is learning in batches, and there is no way to refine the manual canning one by one.

The assembly line can only fill identical containers. Are our children the same?

what does the rest depend on? Depend on parents!

how important is the parent part?

I want to tell you that the role of parents is even more important than that of schools!

Because schools have the same output of sex education, even if children are unified containers, even if they absorb enough, so much will be absorbed.

1 points is the limit. All the textbook knowledge is learned so much.

what is the final spelling of children's future?

What you spell is the unequal input part-the part that parents input to their children.

How much you can input to your child determines his future height.

It is the school's obligation to "teach all classes", and it is the parents' responsibility to "teach students in accordance with their aptitude".

Look at your child. Who do you think knows him best in the world?

I dare not say middle school. It must be my parents who know him best in primary school.

Only parents can give him the most suitable learning method.

Only parents can help him broaden his mouth to absorb school knowledge.

Only parents can give him more knowledge and ability.

This is the responsibility of parents, and it is also the bottom line that teachers can't bargain with.