"My brother's home is my home", and my sister-in-law showed her real estate license and kicked out her sister-in-law who had lived for three years. What do you think?

"The water spilled by the married daughter", when the daughter is married, she will form her own small family, and naturally she will put her family first. Your mother's family is still your home, but only if you take care of your family first. If you can't distinguish between primary and secondary things, it's your own fault.

Maybe everyone has seen all kinds of jokes about "brother in law" and "sister-in-law" making waves at home. It's not that children should not go home because they have a family, but they should consider the primary and secondary, and don't dump them at both ends. In this case, their parents and their families will be in a mess.

For example, if the daughter at home has become a family, the first place in the family has changed from "maiden" to her own. As a major member of the new family, the first thing to do is to take care of her own family. You can go back to your mother's house, but don't stretch your hand too long and do things beyond your authority.

As an elder in the family, the role of mother-in-law is also extremely important. For a daughter-in-law, she is an elder first, and then a mother. You can't acquiesce in your children's involvement in housework just because you spoil them. When a daughter-in-law marries her own family, she should take care of her daughter-in-law's mood, instead of doting on her children all at once. Ignore the behavior that affects family harmony and put yourself in the other's shoes. If your daughter is treated like this when she marries someone else's house, how chilling it will be for her mother.

In a blink of an eye, Nana is married, her husband is working hard, and her mother-in-law is kind to her. Nana also feels that she has not married the wrong family, and her life has always been beautiful, but her sister-in-law is a bit complicated. She is not only arrogant, but also often ignores her as a sister-in-law and often tells her what to do.

Nana is still good-natured. She thinks that her sister-in-law is the youngest girl in the family since she was a child, and everyone will inevitably indulge her, so she doesn't care about her rudeness and arrogance. I'm a daughter myself, and I understand her mother-in-law's feelings. My daughter is married, so I can't stay with her every day for fear that she won't be taken care of, and it doesn't hurt to spoil her.

Sister-in-law quarreled with her husband and rushed back to her family overnight. It's already 11 o'clock in the evening, and my parents-in-law have already gone back to their rooms to sleep. Sister-in-law made countless phone calls on her way back, but no one answered at home. Sister-in-law was furious and went to her door, kicking the door wildly and trying to wake up her family. Unexpectedly, she woke up her neighbors without waking up her family. Several neighbors opened the door and accused, "Why are you crazy here if you don't sleep tonight?" Hearing the noise outside, my parents-in-law quickly got dressed and opened the door. When they saw their little daughter standing at the door with tears in her eyes, they hurriedly pulled their daughters in and apologized to their neighbors one by one, so they gave up.

the publicist hasn't sat down yet. Sister-in-law began to indiscriminately accuse her parents-in-law of not answering her phone and said that her family no longer regarded her as a daughter. Mother-in-law explained: They go to bed at ten o'clock every day, and when they are old, they sleep relatively dead and don't hear the phone ringing. Sister-in-law is still adamant: where is my brother's wife? Why didn't she answer my phone? She can't go to bed as early as you. I think she just deliberately didn't answer my phone! My mother-in-law quickly explained to me: your sister-in-law caught a cold and took cold medicine early in the morning and fell asleep. Sister-in-law stopped, and her mother-in-law helped her clean up the room before going back to sleep.

I don't know if you still remember Su Daqiang, the TV series Everything's Fine, who is the elder of his family and works at home all day, clamoring for hand-ground coffee all day. Nana, the arrogant and willful sister-in-law, is simply a replica of Su Daqiang. I didn't plan to have children at a young age, so I stayed at home all day. I have never gone out to work since graduation. I was raised by my parents at home and my husband after I got married.

Idle around all day and don't do housework at home. My sister-in-law's husband not only has to work to earn money to support his family, but also does housework and cooks for her every day. That day, because her husband's company had to work overtime, she arrived home an hour late. I didn't expect her to be furious and accuse her of not taking herself seriously. Sister-in-law's husband really couldn't stand her unreasonable troubles, so he argued, which led to her going back to her mother's house late at night.

My parents-in-law knew her daughter's temper, but she couldn't help it, so she had to call her son-in-law to coax her. Unexpectedly, her son-in-law came, but her sister-in-law insisted on not returning. Mother-in-law couldn't help it, so Nana let her go home first and let her sister-in-law calm down here. Sister-in-law's husband also shook his head reluctantly to show that he would go home first. Nana didn't expect her acquiescence to cause so much trouble later.

Sister-in-law lived here for three years. Only after she settled down permanently did Nana realize the seriousness of the problem. Because she doesn't have a job, her sister-in-law stays at home every day, chasing plays and sleeping, so she turns upside down day and night. At night, everyone is asleep. Sister-in-law watches variety shows and eats snacks alone in the living room, so it doesn't matter if it doesn't affect her. However, the laughter of Sister-in-law watching variety shows is louder than the sound of variety shows, making her fall asleep at 3 am.

the next day, I was going to talk to my sister-in-law about keeping my voice down, but I found that my sister-in-law was not awake at all, and the living room still had the snacks left over from yesterday. Nana sighed and went to work without saying anything. When she came home at night, Nana found her sister-in-law watching TV in the living room, and the garbage on the table was still not lost. So she gently suggested to her sister-in-law that the TV should be turned down next time, so as not to affect everyone's rest. After all, everyone had to work the next day.

Who knows that my sister-in-law gave Nana a white look and said, It's none of your business if I watch TV. This is my home, so I can do whatever I like. After that, I turned the TV play louder. Nana had no choice but to go to the kitchen to prepare for cooking. Unexpectedly, when I first entered the kitchen, I saw that the kitchen was a mess, there was still instant noodle residue in the pot, and the rice that my sister-in-law had at noon in the pool was not washed. Nana silently cleaned the kitchen and cooked dinner.

at dinner, nana couldn't help but spit out a few words with her mother-in-law. I didn't expect her mother-in-law to be unhappy immediately after hearing this. That's my daughter. What's wrong with staying here for a few days? Don't you have the stomach? Before Nana finished, she dropped the bowl on the table and went back to her room. Nana was speechless for a moment and could only silently hold back her tears.

at 1 o'clock in the evening, my sister-in-law is still watching the variety show in the living room. Nana went out to turn her voice down, but her sister-in-law still doesn't take Nana's words seriously. After Nana went back to her room, her sister-in-law still didn't turn down her voice. So I pushed my husband aside and let him take care of who knows that her husband told Nana not to go looking for trouble, saying that her sister is like this at home, so that Nana, a sister-in-law, should not be so stingy, and had no intention of going out to let her sister turn down her voice. She also said that Nana could not hear it when she fell asleep quickly. Only then did Nana realize what a wrong decision she had made to let her sister-in-law stay.

Nana doesn't have to go to work on weekends, so she is going to sleep in on weekends. Unexpectedly, at five o'clock in the morning, my sister-in-law knocked on the door of her room outside, saying that she was hungry and asked Nana to cook noodles and send them to her room. Then he went back to his room and lay down. This time, Nana didn't bear it, just opened the door and said, Cook it yourself, or get out.

When Sister-in-law heard this, she immediately jumped up and shouted at Nana: My brother's house is my home, and my parents are here. Why should I leave? If you want to go, you should go. Get out of here and don't interfere with our family. After hearing this, the mother-in-law not only didn't persuade her daughter to stop at once, but shouted at Nana's pettiness. The sister-in-law was still arguing with her sister-in-law, saying to herself, I don't know if my son is blind, so why did I find such a woman?

Only when she heard this did Nana realize how ridiculous her once forbearance was at this moment. Turning back to the room, the mother-in-law bowed her head and hurriedly coaxed her daughter, saying, Don't argue with her, and let your brother drive her back to her family directly next time. No sooner had I finished than I heard the door open.

Before her sister-in-law reacted, Nana threw the real estate license on her, pointed at her and said, Open your eyes and see whose name is on this real estate license. This house is mine. You have lived there for three years, but it has nothing to do with you. My sister-in-law won't give up, saying, my brother also paid for this house, and it doesn't matter if you say so. Nana smiled and said, If you don't leave today, I will divorce and sell the house, and no one can live. Sister-in-law stayed where she was, and her mother-in-law was afraid that Nana would really divorce her son, so she packed her bags and sent them home overnight.

The ending is very exciting, but there are still many people living in the shadow of "little sister-in-law", and the fear of being dominated by little sister-in-law has been lingering. Whether as a married daughter or as an elder's mother-in-law, we should first put our family first and don't act beyond our authority.

A daughter who marries abroad is still her own daughter, and a daughter-in-law who walks in the door is also her own daughter. A bowl of water is flat. You can't mistreat another "daughter" just because you love your daughter. An elder should behave like an elder, and don't put on airs. If the family balance is broken, then the family will only be a mess.

Although many women said that after their long marriage, their families became in-laws and outsiders themselves. In fact, this is not the case. In the eyes of parents, children are always children.

Parents' love will never change. As a junior, we should respect the new family members, because we are also our own relatives when we enter this home. Don't bully others by taking advantage of our parents' arrogance. Parents' tolerance does not mean that others can tolerate themselves unconditionally. To put it another way, I don't want myself or my children to be treated like this. Therefore, you should have a steelyard in your heart to understand what you can and can't do. Life is long, let's be a peaceful and warm person together.