[Education] Why not eat minced meat? This joke is everywhere.

In the history of Jin Huidi, because of a sentence: "People have no millet to eat their hunger, why not eat their minced meat?" And laughed at for thousands of years.

Today, this is not uncommon.

It is understandable that Emperor Jinhui did not know the sufferings of the people. After all, because he was in the palace compound, he lived a luxurious life and was isolated from the world.

But now many children are subjectively divorced from reality.

In the morning, Xixi said, "Mom, you urge the courier to send my toys earlier."

"Cherish cherish, the weather is so hot, uncle express is also very hard, we have to understand them. You don't like being asked to do things in the hot sun, do you? "

"But mom, aren't they driving?"

"Driving is also very hot."

"There is air conditioning in the car."

"Who told you there was air conditioning in the car?"

"Dad's car has air conditioning."

"Not all cars have air conditioning, and many couriers even drive tricycles to deliver express delivery ..."

Unfortunately, he is still obsessed with his toys, and he can't understand why the courier drives a car without air conditioning.

So, I had the idea of when to take him to the door and wait for the courier, so that he could see how the sweaty courier delivered the courier to him.

I remember reading an interview about Jet Li. He said that he really wanted a bike when he was a child and pestered his mother for a long time. Her mother bought it for him at last.

But then his mother took him to buy vegetables and participated in knowing the expenses at home. Only then did he know that bicycles were their family's living expenses for several months.

Mother didn't say anything about him, but he was embarrassed to sell bicycles in the second-hand market.

Children have their own conscience, but they also have greed.

Why do some children restrain their greed and take on family responsibilities? Some children are getting greedy, take it for granted?

Parents have an unshirkable responsibility.

"No matter how hard you suffer, you can't suffer your child" is the biggest lie. We try our best to reduce everyone's space with the strength of a family, just to satisfy children's wishes, or even surpass them.

This is not love, this is hurt.

As a member of the family, children should participate in the construction of the family, not just take it. As he grows older and gradually assumes corresponding responsibilities, he will become more and more responsible.

We can't suppress the child's desire. When he is full of longing for a better life, tell him to work hard and everything will be fine. But we can't fully meet the child's requirements, and try to meet them when he asks.

This degree is really difficult to grasp.

Mr. Wang is wise. Once he told me, don't worry too much, just treat the child as a member of the family. He is an ordinary person like you and me.

Because it is ordinary, it is not necessary for all the stars to hold the moon.

Because it is ordinary, it has rights and obligations.

Let him know that you can't get anything, just open your mouth and you can get it.

The hand that pushes the cradle pushes the world.

Educate children's minds and plan the future.

Good Night!