Learn to shut up.

I think about it during the day and dream at night. I dreamed last night, and I became mute. I know in my heart that I can't say anything when I want to talk, but I can't make a sound. I'm in a hurry. The scene in the dream is real. I feel that I have a strange disease and spend the rest of my life in a silent world ... The first reaction when I wake up in the morning is to try to talk and make a sound, and the result is a dream. You should learn to shut up.

This not only reminds me of a public service advertisement in Singapore, but also tells us the horror of language violence. Some people never realize how hurtful their language is. Remind yourself that sometimes a few words will hurt the people closest to you, and it may be irreparable pain. It took us a year to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up ... I won't say much if I know it. Calm and confused, speak slowly. Don't say it unless it's true. Speaking is an art, not telling lies or telling the truth. Everyone in life is learning and growing. No matter what happens, don't forget to use words such as thank you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, I love you and so on.

Remember: never make any decision when you are angry!

The key to a person's elegance is to control his emotions and hurt others with his mouth, which is the stupidest behavior. We are not free, usually because of bad emotions from the heart.

Remember: a person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win a city.

The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive. It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us decades to learn to shut up.

Remember: speaking is an ability; Not saying is a kind of wisdom.

1, emergency, speak slowly.

In case of emergency, if you can calm down and think, and then calmly make things clear, you will leave a stable and impulsive impression on the listener, thus increasing others' trust in you.

2, small things, humorously said

In particular, some kind reminders, said in a joking way, will not make listeners feel stiff, they will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance their intimacy.

3, uncertain, cautious.

For those things you are not sure about, if you don't say it, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it strictly, people will think you are a trustworthy person.

Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen.

People hate people who make much ado about nothing. If you never speculate or talk nonsense, others will think you are mature, cultured and conscientious.

Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do.

As the saying goes, "Without Jin Gangzuan, don't make porcelain". If you don't easily promise what you can't do, it will make the listener feel that you are a person who "keeps his word" and is willing to believe you.

6, hurting people, can't say.

Don't use words to hurt others, especially between close people. Don't say anything that hurts others. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

7, sad things, don't see people say.

When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if you talk to others, it will easily make the listener feel too stressed, suspicious and alienated. At the same time, it will give people the impression that they don't think about others and want to pass on the pain to others.

8. Be careful about other people's business.

Everyone needs a safe distance, and not commenting and spreading other people's affairs easily will make people feel safe in communication.

9. Do your own thing and listen to what others say.

Listening to outsiders' opinions on your own affairs can give people a modest impression; Second, people will think you are a reasonable person.

10. Listen more and talk less about your elders.

Older people often don't like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful, modest and studious person.

1 1, husband and wife, come and discuss.

Between husband and wife, what they are most afraid of when they encounter something is to blame each other, and to discuss with each other will play the role of "affection" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

12, let's talk about children.

Especially adolescent children are very rebellious. Taking a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make children feel good about you, but also make them willing to be friends with you, and can also play a role in persuasion.

He who gives in is the most pleasant person. A man who doesn't know how to make concessions for his relatives, friends, women and partners is the most incompetent, inaccessible and mindless person.

The most important sign of a man's growing up is to compete with his own people and the people he loves to win or lose.

Men who seem to care about face are actually full of confidence and timidity. A man who pretends to be a tough guy and never admits his mistakes or gives in is often full of jealousy and narrowness, and it is difficult for sunshine to enter his heart.

What is a mature man? Be gentle with your family and loved ones. Gentle as a child, like a woman. Externally, I am fearless of difficulties, indomitable, unhurried and calm.

A man who always quarrels with the person he loves and refuses to give up an inch of land can guarantee to do nothing outside even if he wants to win or lose.

Women take a step back, men take two steps back. A person who knows how to love would rather play a loser than defeat his relatives, lovers and friends. What can you get by defeating them? What can you prove? A good man won't show off, compete or compete in front of the person he loves.

Love: compromise, compromise. Concession is not retreat, nor obedience to power, but respect for different views and opinions, and don't strive for authority from people you like and love.

A man who knows how to love and give in is the easiest man to approach. Met, is your blessing, is a lifetime of good luck.

Living in this world,

It only takes a year to learn to speak,

Learning to shut up is a lifetime thing.

Speaking is an instinct,

Shut up is a kind of practice,

Silence is a kind of wisdom.

Don't say what you shouldn't say, don't ask what you shouldn't ask,

Don't say you understand, don't say you understand,

It is the choice of smart people!

Half my life has passed, looking back,

How many times have you suffered from talking too much?

How many times have you offended someone because of your mouth?

Men, learn to be silent,

For yourself, it is a kind of cultivation.

For others, it is a virtue!

People can do many stupid things in their life, but the two stupidest things are: refusing to learn and ignoring the soul; Refuse to exercise and ignore health!

When the temper comes, the blessing will go! The key to elegance is to control one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city.

The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive.

It can be seen that speaking is an ability; Not saying is a kind of wisdom.