Stubborn person

I have met many stubborn people. They are so stubborn that they cannot listen to other people's opinions. They are so stubborn that no one can change them.

There is a person I know well who is stubborn and boring. I have tried to persuade him many times to change, but to no avail... If you talk to him, he will be able to talk about any topic no matter how light and lively it is. It turns into a business meeting or a serious academic discussion. You make a joke, but he will also explain the truth to you seriously, which makes people very helpless...

As I grow older, if someone asks me who I like most People what? I would say it's character. Character determines destiny. I think it's the truth. The same thing is that a good character can only see the good side, while a bad character can only see the bad side. Sometimes an embarrassing situation can be resolved with a light joke, but sometimes it is a small matter, but it is instantly magnified due to low emotional intelligence or a complaint from a trash person...

I am always here now Trying to change my personality and the way I deal with the world has also benefited me from many conflicts and embarrassments. For example, at noon today, I passed by a traffic light and happened to encounter a long red light. When the green light turned on, there were many electric vehicles waiting to pass. After waiting for more than a minute, everyone gathered their strength and rushed forward. As a result, just now As I rushed through the intersection, there was an electric car in front of me that suddenly stopped in the middle of the road. I braked hard and almost hit it. Several cars behind me also activated their emergency braking mode. In fact, I was angry at the time, but then I thought about what was ahead. The car I drove didn’t mean to harm anyone, and I must have felt a little guilty at the moment, so I said in a joking tone: “We almost had a rear-end collision,” and then the car owner smiled sheepishly and said to the people behind, Yes, I almost had everyone rear-end me. After that, I quickly left from the side of her, and the subsequent car owners also left one after another. There was no complaint or noise, it was harmony!

I used to think that the highest level of raising children was for them to be academically successful, outstanding, and stand out. Later, I realized that the child has a good personality, a sound body and personality, a cheerful personality, the ability to get along peacefully with the people around him and the whole world, no hatred or confrontation, the ability to love and be loved, and a spirit of willingness and dedication. , is the most basic and greatest success in life!