Do you prefer good-looking people or interesting people?

I like interesting people.

There is a saying that I think is very good: "All good-looking skins are the same, but interesting souls are only one in a thousand."

That’s it, we just admire good-looking people, while interesting people will have a great impact on our lives no matter how they look.

Wouldn’t you feel awkward and awkward if you were with someone who was good-looking but extremely aloof or had low emotional intelligence?

The two of them had nothing to talk about when they sat together, because you finally thought of an interesting topic and wanted them to talk about it, but he just said: "Yeah". Wow, if my enthusiasm was instantly extinguished.

But if you are with an interesting person, even if you are just walking around or just finding a place to sit down, he will not make you feel bored and will continue to provoke you. enthusiasm.

So comparing the two, it is easy to see who is the right person to get along with, whether it is a friend or a lover.

After all, it takes so long, from the superficial appearance to the inner communication and playing cards. After all the interest in the superficial appearance is used up, you will have an understanding of all aspects of his personality.

I had a male classmate in junior high school who was very good at playing. To be honest, he was not a very good-looking person, and because he was in adolescence at the time, his face was covered with acne and he couldn’t dress up. In appearance, people feel that he is plain-looking and even inconspicuous.

But he has one very attractive quality: humor and fun.

Everyone in the class, whether they are boys or girls, likes him very much and are happy to be friends with him. He is also famous for his popularity.

No matter who has a conflict with anyone in the class, he will go over to persuade them. The advice given by others is simple: "We are all classmates. If you get hurt, don't get angry. Don't argue. Don't get angry." ", he is not.

He used humorous jokes to help the students who had conflicts to relieve their anger and get off the stage. He also made them immediately shake hands and make peace.

It’s really a very powerful ability that people can’t help but envy.

I am a person with a very poisonous mouth, that is, a poisonous tongue.

Even my mother would say that I often do good things but make others unhappy because of my vicious tongue.

So, my weird problem has done me a lot of harm!

But I worked with him for a while, and he also taught me how to play with him when I was playful. I have a lot of truth to say.

He said, in fact, everyone knows that you are kind-hearted and have done a lot to help others, but if you open your mouth to speak, it is better not to open your mouth.

Me. . . (Okay, good advice is hard to hear)

He said, you should learn from me and not be so ambiguous in what you say, because when people face ambiguous words, they can’t help but think of the bad meaning first. As he said it, he looked at me and asked, do you understand?

I nodded and said that I understand the logic, but I don’t know how to do it, hahaha.

He looked hopeless.

Then he said, forget it, I will follow you to solve the problem and explain the misunderstanding.

Wow, this sentence is really heart-warming!

To be honest, I am a person who is very concerned about appearance. The first reason I make friends with many people is because of their appearance. attracted me.

So I don’t lack good-looking friends, but when I get along with good-looking friends, I always feel that I can’t completely get along with them. They all have a mediocre attitude and no idea of ??deep friendship.

But not to him.

My impression of him began with his attitude and words in resolving disputes between classmates in the class. I felt that he was a person who was quite suitable for making friends.

So, after we sat close to him, I had the idea of ??trying to make friends with him, but due to his poor appearance, I felt a little awkward and didn't take the initiative to speak.

It was him. He came up to greet me very enthusiastically. When he went shopping after class, he would ask the people around him if they needed help, and then he took the initiative to find a topic to talk to me, so he slowly got involved with us. previous distance.

It wasn’t until I became friends with him that I realized that having a good-looking appearance is of no use. People still need to have good-looking inner beauty.

Even after so many years after graduating from junior high school, and everyone went to high school and college, I still liked him very much.

I will contact him when I have nothing to do, and I will talk to him if I have something on my mind. He will also come over to care about me when I have nothing to do.

I am really happy to have such a good friend with an interesting soul.

So, it was his influence on me that I went from looking at faces superficially to looking at hearts internally. I am also very grateful to him for giving me a good start and not letting me miss out on my later acquaintances. so many interesting people.