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My parents always argue in front of outsiders, and I feel embarrassed. What should I do?

It is really annoying to have such immature parents. What can you do if you are embarrassed? No matter what they do wrong, they are still your parents. At this time, the best way to change this situation is to actively change the situation. The right thing to do.

As the love link between two people, you can try to persuade them when they have a quarrel. Pull the one with the weaker attitude, or the one who usually expresses love to you very clearly. It is recommended to choose mothers, because their hearts are softer and they are more able to listen to what you say, "Mom, stop arguing with Dad, there are so many people watching. We have something to talk about when we go home." You have to take the initiative to extinguish it. When one party is angry, don't hide aside and let them continue to quarrel because they feel embarrassed. What they lack now is someone to break up the fight. With your intervention, they will take some care of it.

When your parents' emotions have stabilized, you need to find one of them to talk about your feelings (the person who passively accepts the other's anger, such as your mother.) "Mom, don't do it in front of outsiders in the future. You yelled at Dad, he is a man, so give him some face. "At this time, your mother will accuse your father of your mistakes in various ways. You have to comfort her. "I know you have wronged your mother, he is such a bad-tempered person. , if he loses his temper in the future, just ignore him. If you don’t respond to him, he won’t be able to quarrel with you.”

Convince one of the parties, and when all three of your family are here, you can. Tell them how you feel in front of them, and give a warning to the aggressive party (the one who initiates the trouble), such as your father. "They say a family's ugliness should not be publicized, but you two got into an argument in front of so many people without even looking at the way other people look at our family. I feel very uncomfortable!" Express your feelings directly, Even if the father is stubborn and says that they can watch whatever they want. But next time he wants to lose his temper, he will also think of what you said. After all, people care about face. In addition, you have already persuaded your mother to ignore him, and I believe that your mother will also care about your thoughts and ignore your father's bad temper.