What should my colleagues do if they deliberately insult me in public?

People will encounter anything in the workplace. No one wants to swallow his pride and be insulted by his colleagues in public. What should I do to get away with it? Here are three very practical methods that I hope will help you:

Method 1: calmly deal with it.

First of all, you should understand that colleagues deliberately humiliate you in public, in fact, in order to provoke you, make you lose your temper, let people around you see your jokes, and even let the leaders know that you are useless. Then, the less anxious you are at this time, the more anxious he is. If you insult you, you just need to ask questions calmly and fight back calmly. In the end, it was him who became a joke. This will also show your tolerance and pattern, make other colleagues around you look up to you and make leaders pay more attention to you.

Method 2: Leverage method

Generally speaking, if the other person humiliates you, it means that he is either afraid of you or has a purpose. So, sometimes, you can use your strength to make love with you in his words, and then combine some of his characteristics to make love back.

For example:

"I don't understand, too. So many people have cooperated well with me before, and the company's performance is OK.

I don't know why I came to you, but I found that the previous methods were not working. Is inefficiency really contagious? I really need to keep my distance from you "

Method 3: Comparison method set by human beings

The other party abused your attacker with vicious language. At this time, you still can't be flustered. You can calmly counterattack in an exaggerated way and make the other party anxious. In the workplace, you need to learn to control your emotions at any time. You can't be anxious just because you feel humiliated. When people are anxious, they will talk nonsense. Once you say it, you can't take it back.

For example:

For example, if someone says you are mentally retarded, you can respond by saying, "You really remind me. Maybe I am retarded in your place, but you are here, and I haven't found any ability to talk about you!