What kind of person will a person become after he has survived the most difficult and helpless days?

In front of my father's memorial hall, I knelt down and knocked my head three times, then turned around and took out 25, yuan in cash, shouting: Some people have something to do, and it's time to end it today. My mother was so scared that she quickly grabbed me. I saw my sister-in-law's face turned green instantly and froze there. Next to her, her brother-in-law held back for a long time and shouted, "I turned against you!"

I am 4 years old, single parent divorced, and I have lived with my parents for 1 years with my 13-year-old son. To say that my life is a major turning point, it should be this decade. The ups and downs of the plot once made me think that I was the heroine in Qiong Yao's romantic drama, but life is life. After the tragedy, I can change the ending by hard work. From a debt of 1.5 million to an income of 8, this year, I finally have the confidence to get rid of those people in front of my father's portrait.

1 Marriage that is not "favored"

At the age of p>26, I married a young man in a village in the city. The wedding was simple, but it also hosted many relatives and friends. The groom and I toasted table by table, and when we walked to my aunt's table, an embarrassing scene appeared. We both hold glasses and smile to thank you for coming, and look forward to the good wishes of your elders. A table of relatives stood up, only my two aunts sat with a straight face and looked at the groom with a very contemptuous look, which I will never forget.

I was so angry that my sister-in-law spoke first before I could speak: This woman's marriage is like betting on money. She won't worry about eating and drinking all her life. If she bets wrong, her life will be ruined. It's hard to turn back. Sister-in-law said, looking at the groom with contempt and contempt, and glancing at me.

is this what my own aunt should say at my wedding? I just blew it up, and I was about to open my mouth to go back. The groom next to me pulled me and smiled and said to my aunt, Sister-in-law, you are right. This bet is really risky. You are lucky and won, but Xiaoqian and I are not gambling. We are living a life. I don't know if I am a treasure, but Xiaoqian must be my treasure. I will treat her well.

after the groom said this, he raised his glass and dried it. Sister-in-law's expression was very embarrassed, and her whole face froze. The relatives around her took advantage of the situation and smiled and sent us blessings. After the toast, I took the groom and left. Along the way, he comforted me and promised to make money and treat me well.

I went back to the door for three days, and just entered the door, I heard my mother answering the phone, putting it on speakerphone, and my sister-in-law's voice was on the other end. "Xiaoqian, what attitude is this? Marrying that poor boy will definitely not last long ..."

My sister-in-law's voice is very angry. My mother is a kind-hearted person. On the other end of the phone, she only whispered "Xiaoqian likes it" and did not refute it. I rushed into the door and shouted, It's none of your business! My mother was so scared that she hung up the phone and said that my aunts were kind enough to care about me, fearing that I would suffer, and asked me not to think much.

At this time, my husband was behind me, and he heard everything. He looked at me, then turned to my mother and said to her with tears in his eyes: Mom, you have been wronged. Don't worry, I will definitely let Xiaoqian and your parents live a good life.

He really didn't just talk about it. A year later, his family got compensation for the renovation of the village in the city: four suites and one million yuan. He also participated in several small construction projects, and our son was born, leading a simple and contented life. But life will always be full of all kinds of reversed heart-wrenching plots.

At the children's birthday party, my relatives got together. Of course, my aunts also came. As soon as I saw our family of three, my sister-in-law smiled and rushed up to hug her son: "Look how good this child looks. He has big eyes like his mother and a high nose like his father. It really combines your advantages. It's so good!" My sister-in-law teased the child by talking to herself, and my husband still smiled politely and foolishly. I hugged my son and said to my sister-in-law, thank you for coming. Let's eat and drink later. After that, I left with my son in my arms.

At the banquet, my sister-in-law took the initiative to pull her husband to drink, and he offered a toast first, and then filled it up. Sister-in-law smiled and boasted that her husband was sincere and honest, saying that I had a good eye for candidates, and then she pulled her husband aside and whispered. I looked at their expressions and recalled a series of abnormal behaviors of my sister-in-law today, which was definitely not a good thing.

When I went home for dinner in the evening, my dad suddenly said to my husband,

Kai, is there anything you can do with my sister-in-law in your construction site project? My sister-in-law will invest money, and you can earn some money with her son. My husband smiled and said, Dad, I know. My sister-in-law told me today that I am also a shareholder in a small business, and I have no decision. I will ask you tomorrow and get back to you. This made me fly into a rage. At the wedding, we were criticized as worthless, and now we want to make money. My sister-in-law's face is getting a little fast!

With the help of her husband, her sister-in-law invested 3, yuan in the project, and her son Xiao Ning naturally worked with her husband. Gradually, I found that my husband has changed and often stays out at night. I used to give money to me as soon as I gave it, but now I haven't given money for a long time, and the children's milk powder money is still from my in-laws. I always feel something strange.

three months later, there was a major accident at the construction site, and each shareholder had to pay 5, yuan as compensation, so did her sister-in-law's son. Because of this, my sister-in-law went to my parents' house and said that her husband had led her son astray, drinking and gambling all day and playing around. It was at this time that the contradiction between my husband and I began to escalate. Later, my mother-in-law joined in and put all the responsibilities on my side, saying that my sister-in-law's son was a bad influence on my husband, and that he was a jinx, and something happened to her husband's project.

after all this trouble for more than a year, my husband never came home. Later, when he came to ask for debts, I realized that he had lost a lot of gambling and owed a lot of debts. Later, I applied for legal aid, took my son clean and left the noisy home all day.

If what I saw when I got married was my sister-in-law's contempt, now that I'm divorced, I can really see more things.

2 was in huge debt, and my six parents denied it.

Just after I left, I left home with my son clean, and everything had to start from scratch. I have to accompany my children and earn money to support my family. After thinking about it, I chose the financial industry with relatively flexible working hours and flexible income. Parents are responsible for picking up and dropping off children. I go out to run clients during the day, get my children to study at night, and when I meet overtime, I will take my children to the company.

To tell you the truth, the single-parent divorce has hit me hard. The person who once vowed to choose is only three years old, and he slaps his face. I am unwilling and resentful, but I have never regretted it because of my children. I decided to start all over again for the sake of my children and my parents.

I have worked hard for five years, and I have a deposit of 5, to 6, yuan. My child has already entered the third grade of primary school. I plan to find a small project to start my own business, so that I can spend more time with my children.

just then, my friend and leader Xiao Na told me that her friend had insufficient funds for a project and was looking for a partner. I have been friends with Xiao Na for ten years. She is very clear about my family and belongs to a circle of friends. It was she who brought me into this industry when I was in trouble. I am very grateful to her.

Xiao Na told me about the project in detail, but I knew it was an industry I didn't understand. If I joined the partnership, I would definitely not make any money. But out of my trust in Xiao Na and her willingness to write an IOU as a guarantee, I promised to lend her 5, yuan, and promised to pay back 6, yuan together with the principal and interest one year later. But this is the beginning of my nightmare.

When my son grew up, my parents said to buy a bigger house again, so that the child could have his own room. They sold their old house, and the savings in their hands were 3, yuan short.

I didn't want to empty my parents' hard-earned money for life, so I asked Xiao Na to pay me back the 5, principal, and I didn't want any interest. She always promised, but she kept looking for various reasons to push the time, which made me feel uneasy, but I was not too strong because of my friendship and the face of the leader.

after discussing with my parents, I took out a loan of 5, yuan, thinking that my parents could leave some money for use, and I would pay it back when Xiao Na paid it back on schedule.

Then the epidemic came, and I lost my job. I was more eager to ask Xiao Na to pay back the money, but she kept dodging.

I found her house with the idea of tearing my face, but I didn't know that her house had been surrounded by a dozen people. They all came to ask for money, all of whom were her classmates and friends who had been playing since childhood, and I was completely confused.

Some of them have IOUs, others don't, and the amount ranges from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands. There is also a high school classmate whose amount is close to one million. This matter has caused a great uproar. Those who have the ability will follow her every day to force her to pay back the money, and honest people can only take legal channels. I also took the legal route, but she doesn't have any executable assets in her name, even the house is rented, and there is a mother with severe mental illness at home, so I can only admit that I am unlucky.

during that time, I was devastated. I was cheated of my hard-earned money. My parents were hollowed out by buying a house and renovating my new home. I also took out a loan of 5, yuan. More importantly, I was almost forty years old and lost my job. Without the source of income, how can I pay back this 5 thousand, and the expenses of the children are not small.

I have been afraid to tell my parents about this, just to comfort them that the bill will be slower because of the epidemic, but I am sure I will come back.

The monthly expenses are firmly in front of me. I don't want to worry the elderly, and my work has not been settled for a long time. So I started the revolving loan model, and I made a circle of large and small loans. The debt has also changed from 5, mortgages to nearly 1 million, and the monthly repayment will be more than 2,.

Although I found a job later, my income and expenditure were totally out of proportion. I was under increasing pressure and got depression.

My parents found that I was not in the right state and began to force me to ask about my situation. Only then did I tell the truth, which made my parents feel puzzled.

Dad is almost 7 years old, and Mom is 66 years old. For them, this million is an astronomical figure now. My parents turned white one night and looked at their anxious and haggard appearance. I really wanted to kill myself. I knelt in front of my parents and slapped myself in the face, crying hysterically. Dad didn't say anything, just touched my head, and my mother cried with me, repeatedly saying: Don't take it too hard, the children need you, and we don't need you.

Three days later, my mother said to me: Your father and I have discussed it. I'll ask your cousin to borrow some, and your father will ask your sister-in-law to pay off all your online loans. We'll pay off the mortgage slowly. If it doesn't work, we'll sell the house, which will always be enough for you to pay back. I rebuffed my mother: this house can't be sold, it's your hard-earned money for a lifetime, this is our home, where you support the elderly, and you can't sell it! Mom said: don't worry, it won't be sold. These relatives at home are very good and won't save you. Your father and I are still old!

My parents are honest people who are very kind. They think for others all their lives, and they would rather suffer than treat others badly all their lives. They believe that people are kind. But this time, they were dragged down by me!

For several days in a row, my parents went out early and came back late. Every time they came back, they were very silent. Looking at their more and more gray hair, I knew that I had made them suffer.

as if we had agreed, each family gave 2, yuan, saying that it was not necessary to pay back the money, but no one wanted to borrow it. Even if parents told them to sell the house and pay back the money, no one believed them.

half a month passed, and my parents made a donation of 3, yuan to me, of which 1, yuan belonged to relatives at home and 2, yuan was borrowed by my parents from three friends.

When my father transferred the money to me, he said,

Xiaoqian, my parents are old and useless. We have been helping people all our lives, but people still have to rely on themselves! I know what my father meant. My parents are old now and have no ability to repay. I am single and have no stable job, so others certainly don't want to borrow it.

I'd rather give 2, yuan as a personal favor than take a risk with 1, yuan. It's human nature, I understand, but it's only understandable and unacceptable.

Since then, no one in the family will take the initiative to call my parents. Even if someone has a banquet, they will try not to inform us. In my aunt's words, "I didn't call you because I knew your family was in trouble and I was afraid you would spend money." My parents have never asked anyone to borrow money in their lives, and they have been living a hard life. First, because I got married, then divorced, and now I borrow money, they are psychologically uncomfortable and naturally embarrassed to go.

except for arranging children's expenses, my parents contribute to my monthly retirement salary. Every time they use their passbook to withdraw money from the bank for me, I feel like a knife in my heart.

3 "poor friends"

Xiao Na and I have been friends for almost ten years, and I met her through a girlfriends' party, so after the accident, all our friends knew about it, and of course, two of them were cheated by her, but they didn't have much money, so they were deemed to have broken the money and avoided disaster. When they learned about my situation, they all felt aggrieved for me and tried to help me.

My best friend directly suggested that she has a quota of 2, yuan, and she can lend it to me at any time if I need it. I have suffered from the online loan pit myself, so I dare to pit her again. What's more, my current income is unstable, and I don't know when I can pay it back, so I can't pit her.

In the past, I used to go out to eat and sing with them every week. Most of them paid the bill voluntarily, just thinking that everyone would be happy. Now I'm under great financial pressure and mental stress, and I don't want to meet anyone at all. They buy food by themselves and run to my house every week, first to see my parents, and second to comfort me, for fear that the more I suppress, the more depressed I get.

Last Mid-Autumn Festival, my best friend and his wife bought crabs and moon cakes to my house. At the dinner table, when my girlfriend toasted my parents, she said, "Uncle and aunt, you have to trust Xiaoqian. She can turn over and you will enjoy the happiness." My dad took a sip of wine with a smile and said: We don't expect to enjoy happiness, but we just hope that she can get over this hurdle earlier, as long as she and her children are fine. My mother sighed and secretly wiped her tears.

The girlfriends smiled at each other and took out an envelope from their bag and gave it to me. I felt like a card when I touched it. I was about to open it when my best friend stopped me with her hand: Don't look, password your birthday.

My parents understood this statement, and my dad grabbed it, got up and walked over to my best friend and forced it on her: This is impossible, Xiaoqian told me, and it's not easy for you two. The family is also assisted by the elderly, both of whom are old and young. We appreciate your kindness. My mother also said excitedly, Jingjing, we appreciate your kindness. If we are gone in the future, you and Xiaoqian will walk around more. She will take care of the children alone, so please take care of them more. We are relieved. This money is really not available.

as she spoke, my mother cried, and so did I. My best friend's husband helped my dad to sit down and said with a smile: Uncle, don't worry, this money is the compensation for my hometown factory. We kept a part of it. This 1 million yuan was lent to Xiaoqian in case of emergency, and all the money should be returned. Please keep some more at hand. This family is old people and children, and there are many places to spend money.

when I heard it was 1 million, my parents were even more excited. I couldn't believe it either. I've heard from my best friend about the factory before, but I never thought about it. Even if I borrow it, I don't have to lend me so much. How can I pay it back? But it's true that if I can borrow this money, I won't have to pay so much interest every month now, and I can settle all my debts at once.

While I was struggling with what to do, my best friend patted me:

We lent you this money. You must pay it back, but you can't pay it back with the loan or the money from selling the house. You can only pay it back with the money you earned. When we give you five years,