Spring Festival: Women's Labor Day, Men's Drinking Festival?

Children are happiest during the Spring Festival because they can receive red envelopes and wear new clothes.

During the Chinese New Year, men are the most natural and unrestrained, because they can calmly sit on the wine table and drink and brag.

It's the Spring Festival, and the most difficult thing is the woman at home.

Since the week before the Chinese New Year, women have been busy: cleaning, washing clothes, washing sheets, shopping for new year's goods, preparing fried products for the Chinese New Year ... these things are basically done by women.

My husband's family is from Gansu. My mother-in-law told me that what she was most afraid of was the Chinese New Year, because it was the most tiring time for her.

Every New Year, the men who go out to work in the village come back (many women also go out to work), and the New Year is the most relaxing time for them.

In their hometown of Gansu, men relax by drinking.

They started drinking from the previous year until the 15th day of the first month of the following year, that is to say, there are 12 months in a year, and more than one month is spent visiting relatives and friends, drinking and punching in.

Men get drunk every day.

Women, on the other hand, cook at home every day, brush a lot of greasy pots and pans after dinner, go out to find men who are drunk unconscious, carry them home, wash and change clothes for them ...

My mother-in-law said that she had never seen the whole Spring Festival Gala for decades. Every New Year's Eve, I have to work in the kitchen, and I have to be ordered to pour water, cook sour soup and cut fruit below by the man who drinks and clocks in ... After a busy day, my waist will break and I can't eat a bite.

The most terrible thing is that everyone thinks it is right. No one will ask: Are you tired?

The man instigated the woman, still so confident: "Sister-in-law, give me another bowl of sour soup!" " "

"Old sister-in-law, this tea is cold, heat it up!"

"Mom, go down to jiaozi!"

Yes, young people won't come to help because they are still busy with class reunion.

My hometown is Zibo, and the situation here is not much better than Gansu.

As far as I can remember, women can't go to the table with men during the Chinese New Year. It was the same when I was a child. I wonder if it is better now. )

On New Year's Eve, men drink and eat vegetables on the table. They started with the first cold dish on the table, followed by hot dishes, meat dishes, jiaozi, hot soup, fruit and cold dishes with hangover. ...

Of course, this table, round after round of sumptuous dinners, was made by the woman behind the kitchen (that is, the seven aunts and eight aunts we laughed at).

The men ate and drank until two in the morning.

The room is full of alcohol, and the sound of punching and kicking is endless. Some drunken people leaned against the table, some began to vomit, and some were drunk. Because of a joke, the louder the noise, the more women are busy going to Indiana. ...

Last year, my friend followed her husband back to her in-laws in Northeast China for the Spring Festival, and the same was true.

My friend complained to me that her husband kept drinking for a whole year. Today, he was dragged to drink. Tomorrow, he will visit his relatives at his uncle's house. The day after tomorrow, his primary school classmates get together ... every time he goes out, he drinks. Every time he comes back, he gets drunk.

When she was in her small family, her husband was a warm man who was very concerned about his wife's feelings, but when she returned to her hometown, in this big atmosphere where men were superior to women, her husband seemed to be a different person.

When my friend came to the Northeast for the first time, I thought her husband could spare two days to go shopping with her and watch ice lanterns.

As a result, her husband who wandered around different wineries every day completely left her alone.

She can only help cook and do housework with her husband's unfamiliar female relatives, and no one around her can relax and say a few words.

Several years passed, so lonely and boring that she was very homesick. ...

This spring festival, my husband asked to go back to his hometown. My friends didn't agree, so they had a big fight.

Husband blames her for not being homesick. He didn't understand that what his wife was afraid of was not going back to her husband's house for the New Year, but her husband who became strange and selfish under the influence of bad habits after returning home.

A bad habit is a bad habit. Just because it has become the normal state of a place, the essence of a bad habit cannot be covered up.

I don't like the so-called warm scenes depicted in many literary works: my mother-in-law is frying meat in the kitchen to make meatballs, men are sitting cross-legged on the bed drinking small wine, and young people are leading their children to set off firecrackers. ...

Why can't it be that uncles and fathers are frying meatballs, mothers-in-law and aunts are wrapping jiaozi, and young people are leading their children to sweep the floor and move the table, and then everyone will have a New Year's Eve dinner together and watch jiaozi on the Spring Festival Evening?

Don't bind China women with the role of the Virgin Mary, and mold them into workaholics who want nothing but work. They're people, too. They also want to buy a new dress and have a New Year's Eve dinner. When they are busy, they also hope that their husbands and children can help. ...

The meaning of Chinese New Year is that families get together, feel each other's sympathy and warmth, cultivate their lives and make new year's wishes and plans. Never use women's fatigue to make men eat and drink.

Men, there are not so many recreational activities that you have to go to. Let this year return to the original appearance. How nice it is to spend more time with people around you and have a simple New Year!

PS: It's the Spring Festival. I don't care what middle-aged and elderly men who have been brainwashed by old ideas do when I see seven aunts, eight aunts and their mother-in-law busy in the kitchen. We young people must lend a helping hand!

2008 is more interesting because of their busy work.

They really work hard!

PS once again: men who take their daughter-in-law home for the New Year should not neglect their daughter-in-law. Because she doesn't know anyone except you. If you have to socialize, try to bring your daughter-in-law, drink less when you go out, and talk to your daughter-in-law more. Otherwise, don't blame her for not wanting to go home with you for the New Year.

More sympathy for each other will make the new year warmer. Otherwise, the Chinese New Year is the outbreak of family conflicts.

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